Doubting yourself

judoguy

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quick advice needed/ survey

sometimes I will see an HB, approach within 3 seconds.... all is going well then all of a sudden after i get the number or especially if i get her facebook, sometimes even in mid conversation I look at the girl and think,

" holy ****, this girl is way too hot for me ! what am I thinking !?! there is no way I can get a girl this hot."
After this I usually stop talking to the girl and move on to a 6 or lower who I really have no motivation to call or do anything with and then its back to the drawing board. Anyone else have a similar problem?

This, coupled with the fact that I will see an obese guy walking with a HB6/7 and I will get really depressed. I look at myself in the miror and thing how ugly must I be if I cant pull a 7 or 8 and an obese guy is pulling that ?
 

Das

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I pretty much have the same problem sometimes.
Especialy the part about seeing other guys walking around with chicks, since i don't get any play at all. I wonder "am I really that far down on the ladder?" I keep trying, but all signs keep pointing to yes, I am that far down, and I can't figure out why
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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Self-Doubt is Self-Sabatoge...

Chicks can smell it from a mile away.

The second you get that
" holy ****, this girl is way too hot for me !
feeling, she just realized it too.

Your dead in the water my friend, and it's all your fault.

Now, the question is... whatcha gonna do about it?
 
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