"Dont Worry. You'll find someone someday"

Clueless2k16

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This phrase repeated ad nauseum everytime i talked with a woman, different women saying this means: im not interested in you you are ugly.

A girl said this to me today, when i told her i had been told that so many times before.

She said i will never get a woman because of my bald head.

I replied. but i see many bald guys with women.

She: Not with your head shape. You look horrible.

Sorry guys, but i have tried. I cant stand this. Too much for me . Women hate my guts. I tried, i really ****in tried

This is the girl

http://www.tagged.com/photo_gallery.html?uid=5819965067&dataSource=profileViewPhotos&ll=2


She gave me a 6. Says to go gay, that i'll be doing women a favour.
 

Who Dares Win

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I believe your problem is not your head but your eyes, get an appointment with an eye doctor untill you can tell an ugly girl from a hot one.

We will work on your look after fixing your health.

For fvck sake Im far from being a model but if I had that girl walking in my direction I would hold my wallet hard and tell her I have no coins before she gets too close, where did you meet her in a gipsy camp?
 

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If a women like her rejects me, all the others will. Even land whales do it to average and above average guys.

And no, i dont have eye problems. She's ugly, that's why it hurts even more.
 

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If a women like her rejects me, all the others will. Even land whales do it to average and above average guys.

And no, i dont have eye problems. She's ugly, that's why it hurts even more.
If she is ugly its very likely that her necessity to feed her ego are higher than her necessity for sex, by rejecting you so bad she feels better.

You probably heard of girls going to club only to reject guys cause their ego is more hungry than their pvssies, it could be the case her too.

We cant say much about you unless you upload a picture, anyway nowadays its pointless to go after ugly girls or fatties since they have such high expectations, just go after hotties especially fi you're average.
 

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She gave me a 6. Says to go gay, that i'll be doing women a favour.
She sounds like a b!tch. I wouldn't take anything she said seriously.

A 6 isn't bad. If I thought a girl was a 6, that would put her in the "cute" category.

One more thing: Why are so many women saying "Don't worry, you'll find somebody someday" to you? Why is the subject coming up? I'm wondering if you go around emphasizing the fact that you don't have anybody. One thing that will turn a woman off is a guy whining that no women like him. If this is what you are doing, you're portraying yourself as undesirable. It's okay to be single and on the lookout for other singles, but you don't want to look desperate in the process. You need to do it with a positive attitude.
 

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Clueless, saw your pics in the other thread. You have a way higher SMV than her. She's probably just trying to bring you down to her with the hard neg about what she thinks you are most insecure about aka, lack of hair.
Brush her comments and her off.
 

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im bald, a paralyzed arm and 50yo
i dont work out
i have a mustache, often unshaved face too, bad stubble

so how do you think I got a date with a HB9 22yo?

and why the fvck would you tell a women that other women say "you will find someone someday" before she did?

You set yourself up to fail.
 
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You are having self esteem and confidence issues. Fix that. Who gives a sh it what some women say? Are you spilling your guts and talking about emotion? That seems to be the case. Stop it. Read the DJ bible. Start on a path of self improvement.

Also got over to the redpill reddit and read their side bar. You need to fix your mental issues. Success with women will follow.
 

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She said i will never get a woman because of my bald head.

I replied. but i see many bald guys with women.

She: Not with your head shape. You look horrible...

She gave me a 6. Says to go gay, that i'll be doing women a favour.
Was this ^^^ said to your face?

If you put your pictures up online to be rated on another website, you were trolled.

In either case, imho, you are mistaking someone getting off on reinforcing your insecurity with someone sharing an honest and relevant opinion.

Your insecurity picks this "opinion" out to focus upon, as it reinforces your already diminished self concept.

Plenty of people here have told you that you look just fine. You do!!! You choose to ignore that.

As for being bald, the man I currently have my eyes on, above all others, is bald. Believe me, he's got my attention, no problem. Bald can be Hot when the man carries it with confidence. Choice is yours.
 

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Was this ^^^ said to your face?

If you put your pictures up online to be rated on another website, you were trolled.

In either case, imho, you are mistaking someone getting off on reinforcing your insecurity with someone sharing an honest and relevant opinion.

Your insecurity picks this "opinion" out to focus upon, as it reinforces your already diminished self concept.

Plenty of people here have told you that you look just fine. You do!!! You choose to ignore that.

As for being bald, the man I currently have my eyes on, above all others, is bald. Believe me, he's got my attention, no problem. Bald can be Hot when the man carries it with confidence. Choice is yours.
He is not a bad looking guy. He is in shape too. OP you need to fix your head. When you have confidence women will be drawn to you.

I will give you an example. I am 52 and a bit over weight. I still can draw many women. I use old and I can get as many dates as I want. Why? Becasue I'm decent looking and have confidence. I don't give a rat's ass if a woman doesn't like me. There are plenty that do. I go into every date with a mindset that I am the prize. I kino the hell out of them. I use amused mastery, pressure flips and agree and amplify. The most important thing is that I am outcome independent. I am not kissing the girls ass hoping to get another date. I am not needy.

Just fix yourself brother. You are the prize. You will have more women than you can handle. I am at that point now. pull yourself up and dust yourself off. Just do it!
 

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This again...
And I thought I saw a glimmer of hope on an earlier thread. A brief realization of the real problem that you have... The problem that your perception of yourself is based on a pathological assessment that was warped and distorted by the negativity that has infected it.

This is something you wrote on the other thread... Something where you begun to show understanding of it all, an understanding of your own mind... Understanding is the first of many steps to a realization of yourself and toward actualization.

"In fact the reason im still a virgin is maybe insecurity. I had the opportunities to lose the v-card, but everytome i failed. Was it because these women didnt turn me off (as opposed to porn, i get excited when i see hot chicks), was it because i thought they didnt like me? Or a body-mind reaction that simply blocked me everytime I was trying to go inside them. They were pissed when they saw they didnt excite me and they would resort to name calling: gay, weak ****...

Maybe i just want a g/f for company, to avoid loneliness or maybe those weren't the right ones. Or i'm still affected by the female bullying and shaming i went through my adolescence. Maybe i'm just not normal...."

You already know that I am not normal either... Took me years to have a semblance of what you would call normality, but unlike you instead of hating myself every ounce of that hated and disgust was directed onto others. It all just morphed into disregard and cruelty... For so long I was like you, unaware of who I was and of my own mind. I sought control over everything, control over other people but never actually gained control over the one that was most important, myself. I came to understand myself, and from that understanding I even developed a kind of love for who I am and a passion for life. I even began to accept my "pathology" and even embrace it.

I want you right now to reflect upon yourself. I want you to realize this disease of perception you have... The hardest fight is the fight you will have against yourself. It is not the girls who are making you feel bad, it is not the insults that people are telling you, it is not the lack of success that is burying your confidence and your sense of self... It is YOU. It is you who is the one who is constantly insulting yourself with the worst of insults, it is you who is depreciating yourself, it is your own feeling of hopelessness which is creating your failures.

Now you understand it... Perhaps now you can learn to either fight it or live with it
 

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@Clueless2k16 Oh you're back... You're a hopeless project. Unless you move to Norway and come meet me. We're tired of this sh!t. You're not even trying. I don't say this to many people, but fvck off I don't care. Sail your boat into bad waters, suffer the consequences and either die or come out better. I fear your issues will kill you though.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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guys help... im just being rejected for being rejected. they are just having pleasure with it


****
 

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Dude... You look just fine..... She on the other hand.... Puta fea.
 

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guys help... im just being rejected for being rejected. they are just having pleasure with it


****
Read the DJ Bible. Take it seriously. Let it consume you. Forget everything you (think) you know, start over. Do it!!! Fvcking do it!!! Go all in, put your fvcking soul into it. Trust it.
 
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