Dont seem to be improving

jtrain 289

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Ive talked to 90 girls but i havent had one h/u yet i only got 3 numbers so far . Do you guys have any answers to this
 

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Are you following through after you get the numbers? Are these all girls you know or random sarging? You might need to work on building up more Rapport.
 

jtrain 289

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random sarging the thing is most of thetime after about 1 minute they start like walking really fast or they ask me why r u talking to me in a mean kind of way its not just one of them its alot of them one girl ran away and went to her mom and said i was stalking her since im in the bronx this summer thats where i sarge and i hav concluded most of those girls are *****es
 

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these girls run away!?! wow...I'm not trying to be funny but its not your physical appearance is it? Maybe your missing something there. They may think your a dealer or something. If its not that examine what your saying to them. You may be coming across as a pervert.
 

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Maybe...

Is that possible you approch all thoses girls with needy attitude... I'm not Master but I know the needy attitude is dating sucide. Girls don't respect romanticly the needy guys.
 

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Also are you approaching and just talking? You need to smile, move, and challenge her.

I meet so many people that can only speak in a conversation, they don't respond and they don't wait. They just want to keep on talking, like telling the same story or bringing up the same point like 20 times in the same night.

When you speak with a girl you should have a smile on your face, like a genuine smile, not a huge grin. IMagine her first thought being "look at him, why isn't he smiling" than put the smile on your face, after she sees you. Than approach since you will have eye contact. Than talk to the girl.

Don't just go up and say random things, try to get her involved.

You can start with *smile* "do you have the time?" which should be very easy. Than move on, try to make her smile right away, tell her she has nice shoes, and say "thats why I got the time from you, and not that guy". After you make her smile ask her for her name, introduce yourself, tell her you aren't from around here even if you live right next door to her.

Does any of that make sense to you right now, or would it be better if I just shut up?
 
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