The problem is, many guys will not even know they are putting a girl on a pedestal. Even those who understand the theory of pedestalizing women, they have not internized it enough. Therefore you have guys who are unable to recognize themselves doing it or to distinguish the concept from reality when a woman is behaving in response to it. They will rationalize that their situation is different. This is why you see guys tolerating things from women with the idea they are being indifferent (but really they do mind), or when they fantasize about her and how she stands above other women in looks, and because they get rushed with thought and accompanying emotion over her they ignore the fact they are placing her in pedestal zone, and as long as they rationalize that it is worth it, as long as she reciprocates, they will keep that little gremlin in their mind telling them ' don't mess up'. That's why I (we) stress that you MUST own the frame the beginning, that way you desensitize yourself from her and create real indifference while screening her and getting to know her. You want women to earn your value. No, want to earn your value. In turn, a woman will want to give you value in hopes of gaining yours.
