Don't like calling but Girls Do

[hyeonkim0805]

I have this problem with girls and the problem is calling. I hav no problem getting ph numbers. i only call for important things so i don't call often but girls think i dun call b/c i dun like them so people tell me "then why dun you just call them?" so i tried calling them often (which i hate doing) and most of the time conversations are boring. I'm a good talker when i meet girls person to person (most of time im buzzed ) but on the phone i suck~ how can i call often and always have something interesting to talk about? some tips please?

 

[CharmaLeo]

Use a lot of when, how, what questions. Even if you are not interested, pretend that you give a 5hit about it.
Generally women like to talk about themselves anyways so you barely need to say much.

 

[Skweints]

Call 'em up and ask them to go out... duh. Not being a good talker on the phone is good. Being able to see the body language and facial expressions on a woman while talking to her is a LOT better than talking to her on a phone. I used to want to spend hours on the phone, but I realized that it's so much more fun in person (e.g. Kino, watching their eyes light up when they see me, etc.) I limit ALL my phone calls to 2 minutes or less.

You want them to be unsure of whether or not you like them. If they don't know and their interest in you is high enough, they'll try hard to find out... which means you are in control. Once you lose control, you're fcked... trust me, I've been there. It sounds to me like you're naturally good at picking up women and keepin them around.

 

[skinnydart]

I had the same problem, then I got a job working at a IT helpdesk call center where somedays i get 100 calls a day. Now I'm no longer nervous when talking on the phone and my general speaking style on the phone has improved as well.