thats right. you heard me. don't ever have a girlfriend. whats the point? keep dating, keep having a good time and kickin game to the hottest babes imaginable, live with some of them if you want... just don't have an official girlfriend. having a girlfriend usually means a bunch of bad things...
1. you probably asked her to be(which you should never ask)
2. great way to kill the mystery about you.
3. great way to cut yourself off from being able to see other women (and not have to explain yourself). the possibility of you being with other women at your leisure is a powerful tool you should never give up.
4. great way to start having to think up all kinds of gifts when the holidays roll around. having a girlfriend at xmas time sucks major a$$.
5. she could actually break up with you if you start being a loser, which is bad for your game, your pride, and your sex life. if you're not going out she can't break up with you.
6. any form of domestication = silver bullet to the heart of IL.
7. you have to remember crazy unimaginable dates such as "your anniversary" and "the first time we did x".
all said theres really no point in my mind to having a girlfriend. ive had them before but a while back i realized that it never helped anything to cross that bridge.
shes more likely to ditch you in a relationship then out of one and if you think that shes gunna leave if you dont take the next step... you're wrong. just dont bring up the subject of dating, girlfriends, or where the current relationship is going at all. stand back, take a breath, and let things develop while you're having fun dating whoever you want whenever you want w/o all the $hitty responsibilities and IL killing things that go with having an official girlfriend.
1. you probably asked her to be(which you should never ask)
2. great way to kill the mystery about you.
3. great way to cut yourself off from being able to see other women (and not have to explain yourself). the possibility of you being with other women at your leisure is a powerful tool you should never give up.
4. great way to start having to think up all kinds of gifts when the holidays roll around. having a girlfriend at xmas time sucks major a$$.
5. she could actually break up with you if you start being a loser, which is bad for your game, your pride, and your sex life. if you're not going out she can't break up with you.
6. any form of domestication = silver bullet to the heart of IL.
7. you have to remember crazy unimaginable dates such as "your anniversary" and "the first time we did x".
all said theres really no point in my mind to having a girlfriend. ive had them before but a while back i realized that it never helped anything to cross that bridge.
shes more likely to ditch you in a relationship then out of one and if you think that shes gunna leave if you dont take the next step... you're wrong. just dont bring up the subject of dating, girlfriends, or where the current relationship is going at all. stand back, take a breath, and let things develop while you're having fun dating whoever you want whenever you want w/o all the $hitty responsibilities and IL killing things that go with having an official girlfriend.
