I see a lot of unmanly whining and moaning about problems here. Seriously guys, don't come here to complain about your problems, come here to fix them. There is a serious difference. You know how they say don't try to solve a woman's problem, just listen? That's what the majority of guys here seem to want us to do.Women want to complain and want someone to listen to their problems. If you come here and ask for advice, be willing to listen accept it, otherwise get a livejournal or a blogger account and rant till your hearts content. I'm almost fed up with the womanly jackassery in the main discussion forum.
And yes I see this is complaining about complaining, but if one person heeds this advice and actually listens, then it's worth it.
Never complain to a woman. I had girlfriend who said, I wouldn't open up about what was bothering me, but when I would let it out, I could sense a change in her. She really didn't want me to gush out my problems on her. I also had friends who constantly complained about their lives to anyone who would listen, male or female. When a man complains, especially to a women he looks weak. When he constantly complains to other men he looks weak. Now think about this. If your in a pack of killers, do you want to look like the weak one? If your an alpha male, are you gonna show weakness by complaining or show strength by doing something about it? If you can't stand a whiny and b1tchy woman, how do you think people feel about a whiny and b1tchy man? Even worse. Suck it up buttercup, and do something about your problems! Fix them, listen to good advice and apply it, seek out answers. Try something different. Don't give up. That's what a real man does.
And yes I see this is complaining about complaining, but if one person heeds this advice and actually listens, then it's worth it.
Never complain to a woman. I had girlfriend who said, I wouldn't open up about what was bothering me, but when I would let it out, I could sense a change in her. She really didn't want me to gush out my problems on her. I also had friends who constantly complained about their lives to anyone who would listen, male or female. When a man complains, especially to a women he looks weak. When he constantly complains to other men he looks weak. Now think about this. If your in a pack of killers, do you want to look like the weak one? If your an alpha male, are you gonna show weakness by complaining or show strength by doing something about it? If you can't stand a whiny and b1tchy woman, how do you think people feel about a whiny and b1tchy man? Even worse. Suck it up buttercup, and do something about your problems! Fix them, listen to good advice and apply it, seek out answers. Try something different. Don't give up. That's what a real man does.
