Don Juans everywhere!!!

[Georgey]

no its not that i want to meet djs from round the country or wherever,
its that there r on juans around... actually one dj here in my class.
the problem is that he's standing in the way. chicks like him, he doesnt want a gf but he KNOWS really well how to act around girls, being confident fun and all. he's a real dj, but man he's almost stnading in my way that im not being able to be the center of attraction or anything and he can make fun of me sometimes:kick: . well, sure i wanna be like him or better but im not being able to find a way to be better.
he can talk bout sex n shows his sexy side and makes fun of sex stuff alot,
all girls like him. well is it possible for me to show up as a dj next to such master dj and how?
maybe u havent had such problem,because dj and real man now r very few in this world as pook said

 

[Obsidian]

you could try to be his friend maybe

or hire someone to kill him

 

[Georgey]

haha, he's my friend man, even my neighboor, he even throws tips at me every now and then. well, he even helped me change from the NICE GUY bull****.

o a good thing to mention is that once i was with sum girls in college last week talking bout love and discussing sum sh*t of how much wussies r around and wut girls like in men. we got to the point where a girl asked me: who do u think is a good guy in our class that is a real man?
i had to say his name, and the thing i cant forget is when she replied: yes! he seems so INDEPENDANT!

i cant forget that word *INDEPENDANT*.. independant she said.
i tried to figure out what it could mean. (as i read in posts and the djnewsletter, watch a dj at work and learn)
independant: i'd say she should have meant confident, walks like a man, speaks like a man, knows fun and sex, teases every girl, makes fun of them but they still like him.
i see a true don juan in him (no im not ****ing gay) but i know this is how every man of us should be.

 

[michaelhctam]

Don't be too haste on your actions.

Two routes you can take:

1. Befriend him (I recommend): Try your best to involve yourself into his 'life' but dont come off as a weirdo....do it with dignity. if he comes off as an a-hole then do two.

2. Destroy him: Dont be too haste with this method, lie low after he's a-hole to you and analyse his movements like a hunter looking for prey....observe what makes him great, and when you find what makes him great find methods to undermine what makes him great......for example, Hes a good conversationalist, to solve that try to engineer a situation where the attention is onto you.

Just my $0.12

 

[Ll Principe]

Im not going to comment on your story about this guy but I am going to give my comment on your title. Its a known fact that 80% of guys are AFC or the equilvalent of a guy that cant get girls consistently. That means for every 10 guys in the street, 2 of them are good with ladies , the rest you shouldnt be bothered about. So no, there are not don juan's everywhere.

 

[Georgey]

ure right LI principe, but why did i choose this title?

i was reading the bible and came to this title somwhere. i thought i'll get to kno how to be around in a place where there r many real djs talking to girls and be the center of attraction...
but when i opened it, it just said bout the djs of this site meeting together or wutever

 

[systemshock]

Personally if I was in your shoes. I'd befriend him and learn as much as you can from him. It's all very well reading about how it works in theory but a big help having someone there to demonstrate whenever you like! people pay $$$s for that! learn all you can but go off on your own to other places and practice when he's not around as well, don't challenge him too much if he likes to play the AMOG, play along and that way he'll be happy to offer you good advice and help you, most people like helping others as long as theyre not a threat, it gives their ego a boost.

 

[Georgey]

yep ure right thanks. between i just wanted to say that we are friends already and he's next to me in class (to my right specifically), he already gives me tips bout woman and i even watch him at work.