Don Juan in training

[jt the azn]

Hey what is up fellow DJs. I discovered this site about a month ago and have been reading articles and posts. I have also recently been applying the tips and it has made a huge difference in my life. Before, I was as AFC as you can get. I was afraid of people in general because of my background history. Now, I am more socially confident about myself. I joined a gym and have been seeing results. I also made new female friends along the way. I may have a long way to go until I even call myself a novice Don Juan. However, if this keeps going, there is no path except for success. Until then, I am still taking baby steps. Thanks guys for changing my life.

 

[greenlake]

i'm curious. what's is ur background story?

 

[yungahdubz]

I know how you feel mate I'm nowhere near DJ standard but have improved immensely compared to how i used to be. If you look at my first ever post it said something like "i like to become friends with a girl to get a feel of what shes like, but i need to know how to turn her into my girlfriend". I did this with EVERY girl i met, no wonder i didn't get any girls. But these days i'm a lot more confident: i flirt with girls and joined a gym. I was even able to give my mate some advice on his girl situation which i definitely wouldn't have been able to do a few months ago, and it turned out pretty well for him

 

[jt the azn]

I was originally from Philippines and then moved to Canada when I was 10 years old. Life was harsh during the first few years of Canadian life. I lived with my parents during the first few months and money was extremely hard to get. We lived in a basement, then an apartment. However, my mom went away to US to try to get a job, so it was only me and my father living in the apartment for 2 years. These years dramatically changed my personality negatively. My dad didn't allow me to invite anyone over after school because he was afraid that people will find out he leaves me home alone (its illegal to leave anyone under 12 all alone) and we can't exactly afford a babysitter. My dad gets home really late, so I am alone from after school until I sleep. I could confidently say that I was in severe depression. In those two years, I went from 85lbs to 140 lbs, which added even more to my sadness. All I did everyday was watch TV for 6 hours, play PS1 and do homework. It was like this for all those years. Also, my dad was a really boring guy that I didn't really like when I was a child. He was the type of guy who would discipline you constantly, but would not let you have fun because of his constrictions. We didn't even have a car because we couldn't afford it either. Thus, we would do the same things over and over. Winter here is also harsh, so going out is more of a battle against the cold. Children in school were also not very fond of me because of my foreign personality. I had a few friends, but they were all AFC. Pretty much the only thing that I had going was my school grades, but that was not enough for happiness. Add all of this together and you get a formula for person less than AFC. However, as years went by, we moved and life changed. Teenage years became more fun. However, the impact of those early years still have their marks. I can't blame those years for my seclusion though. In fact, I should be lucky that I was even able to go to Canada and have a new life.

 

[greenlake]

I'm happy to see you got through. I really like your positive attitude at the end of the sentence. you should alway keep that in mind cause there are people who are unfortunate enough to live like us. btw, i wish you luck and the steps toward being a don juan is not far, u will be there soon.

 

[PUK]

i have a long way to go in the DJ industry but i am having fun and learning about my self and others in this in this game
i find been a Don Juan has changed me slightly, i used to be too damn nice and get walked over now i have learnt that i can still be nice but not get walked all over, its working with girls i thought i would never get a chance .
its amazing however i feel i have a long way to go but so far i have learnt that rejection is that one step closer to getting laid

thanks sosuave and my fellow DJs