Dominate women or else you'll lose them

[HumbleNinja]

Not for nothing but this whole mantra of dominating women, and constantly being a leader of them or else you'll lose them gets old regardless of if you aren't faking it.

If some chick doesn't like the fact that you don't need to control her, be "alpha" all the time, and keep her on her toes she can see the door and keep walking.

Unless you have nothing else going on in your life but need some chick to lead around like a trained chimp.

It's one thing to take the good advice here which does work..It's a whole other thing to dedicate your life to needing to be a certain way or else worry about losing some chick/needing to get as many as you can as if that somehow enhances your life besides pedestalizing pvzzy.

 

[NewJack]

Right on.

More like 'dominate women AND you'll lose them'.

Can't form a stable bond with someone with all this nonsense going on in your head.

 

[sylvester the cat]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uu37X1JvVJM

 

[Serenity]

I think the most important thing is that you don't compromise your integrity for a woman. So they should in essence be able to do what they want unless it's against your values.

Bossing them around is not good, and sounds like a personality disorder. Making your boundaries clear is good and highly attractive. The latter seems like the right way to be alpha.

 

[VladPatton]

I think you should set the boundaries as things come up and as you get tested. Then you act as needed when those rules are fücked with. She wants to go to Jamaica with her friends and blow 40 dudes on the beach? Awesome! Just make it a fact that you'll never have anything to do with her again afterwards. Perhaps it's being indirectly dominant.

 

[jaybred]

I think you should set the boundaries as things come up and as you get tested. Then you act as needed when those rules are fücked with. She wants to go to Jamaica with her friends and blow 40 dudes on the beach? Awesome! Just make it a fact that you'll never have anything to do with her again afterwards. Perhaps it's being indirectly dominant.

new to the site, obviously *strong greens*

^^^100% . fellas just know, you are going to get sh!t tested by women. embrace it and just be prepared for it. when it happens, let her know what is kosher in your book and what's not (acceptable and unacceptable). and, do it in plain, clear English. also, don't sugarcoat or tinkerbell the conversation just because she is your girl/dating her and you fear doing/saying the wrong thing. guess what homie.... you/she are/is going to make mistakes and say the wrong sh!t sometimes (not purposely). that's what we sign up for for being human. she is an adult and will make her own decisions on how she will digest all this. she falls in line, onward and upward! but, if her feelings are hurt (and as long as you don't blow your stack - bust her in her eye), aye life be like that sometimes.

no reason to be bossing her around though.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Any man who "fears" losing a woman is a faggot.

All you need to do is have sex with her. Then live your life however you want. She can come along for the ride or leave. Her choice.

I constantly give this advice for a reason--> Once you have sex with a woman you put her in the position every man is in BEFORE having sex. Now its HER turn to seduce YOU. Her turn to sell herself. Her turn to prove she is worth your time.

Most men are too stupid to realize this, so they continue kissing ass, playing games and pandering even after they've already f*cked the girl. :crackup: