Doesn't give a !@#$

[612_Da_Playa]

Hey, I was talking to some of the most succesful guys with girls at my school and they said that the biggest thing is to not care. To not let rejection fade you. To go on to the next girl. What do you guys think about that? Has anyone accomplished this? By the way is anyone here in Minnesota?

 

[jlazz]

Thats the #1 thing...ITS A MIND GAME. Read the board, its all a mind game and all about not giving a ****. Once you can convince yourself of that, you're good to go. You won't hold yourself from saying stuff and will be an extrovert w/ guy or girl.

 

[612_Da_Playa]

Got rejected and feels great!

 

[itishe]

I'm from Minnesota. I'm on the cold end of the state though.

Not caring is a good method in my view. When I begin to care, I start to talk too much, which in turn probably can make me annoying around females in a desperate attempt to keep them "entertained".

 

[oranges]

one thing ive thought on is its a bad thing to ask too many chicks from a particular social group bcos they will start talkin and might start to giv u sh!t

anyone else think likewise?

 

[MightyMate]

You dont care, You always win. Itsl ik that not only with woman.

 

[cubed]

It's 100% true. As soon as you start caring, you have a personal stake in whatever you are doing. If things aren't going exactly as planned, you'll start getting desperate, which only makes things worse.