You're very young and younger women are generally more forgiving towards beta behaviours compared to their older counterparts
This is related to "Love is a rush of chemicals in your brain that make you feel good. These “highs” are nice to feel, but the reality will always hit you in the face. In the long run, she will gain weight, open her mouth, have some excuse not to have sex, and maybe seek the attention of another guy. Your job as a man is to decide if it is worth your time to manage her emotions to keep her from doing any of the things mentioned above. (in short, raising a daughter). No one is perfect, but you have to decide and take the risk if you are looking for companionship. The challenge is balancing your emotions while trying to become the best version of yourself. (being a father)"There is a misconception of what true love is.
If you are waiting for unconditional love, than sorry my man, that ship has sailed.
What is possible is revering, and respect. Feelings that a female exert towards male emanating masculine energy.
This post says it better. It's a long read, but it will help you clear your mind:
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man affections vs. boy affections - cedonulli
a while back i finally figured out what makes a good relationship. most of the gamey talk is all focused on getting laid. getting laid is the easiest thing in the world, after you do it for a while. what’s not nearly as simple is to maintain an excellent relationship. i’m going to venture out …tiny.cc
Sorry for the late reply. I was involved very intimately with the old MASForum 20 years ago and achieved PUG (pick up guru) status before I left the community to marry my wife. I apologize for bragging...the truth is my success was/is the result of plenty of failure (a divorce) and many years of hard work. I was blessed to know many of the greats (Mystery, Style, Juggler, Rollo Tomasi et al). I am also a PhD but most academic advice is terrible because it focusses on communication and not the females interest level. I do think Biological ASntropology, evolutionary psychology and related fields are good, however.
You have to make your move asap. Chick is giving you very clear IOIs - and screaming at you that she loves spanking.
yeah she told me that she is desperate to kiss me but the only thing stopping her is the fear of going to hell for doing it before marriage.
I dated a very strict Muslim woman many years ago...I actually picked my wife over her (and it was a very tough choice). She was a virgin when I met her but turned out to be one of the sexiest gals I ever knew.
Myron and Rollo had a discussion about this recently. Rollo mention that PUA Nick Krauser has said that PUAs have done far more about teaching men the true nature of women and how to interact with them than academia in the social sciences (primarily psychology).
I had a muslim girl doing oral and anal to 'keep her virginity' for her future husband.
In academia, professors/researchers tend to have a leftist ideology. This is even true for hard science practitioners. It likely was not easy for left learning hard science practitioners in fields like biology and neurology to admit the finding of brain differences.
The seduction community has a different perspective than academia. Well known field PUAs like Nick Krauser seek what works. When Roosh was active, most of his work was based on the scientific method + what works in field testing. Roosh earned a bachelor's degree in Microbiology and worked in a microbiologist capacity for 6 years before publishing "Bang" in 2007 and then becoming a full time seducer and seduction content creator.
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In academia, professors/researchers tend to have a leftist ideology. This is even true for hard science practitioners. It likely was not easy for left learning hard science practitioners in fields like biology and neurology to admit the finding of brain differences.
Social science researcher/professor types are even further to the left ideologically than those in the hard sciences.
In the podcast above, Myron and Rollo discuss that a psychological researcher with a more moderate or even somewhat right leaning viewpoint would have a difficult time staying employed in academia. This limits what this person could do within academic research. Research boards in the social sciences tend to have a lot of hardcore leftist-feminist types. These are Girl Boss types with advanced degrees.
The seduction community has a different perspective than academia. Well known field PUAs like Nick Krauser seek what works. When Roosh was active, most of his work was based on the scientific method + what works in field testing. Roosh earned a bachelor's degree in Microbiology and worked in a microbiologist capacity for 6 years before publishing "Bang" in 2007 and then becoming a full time seducer and seduction content creator.
I think even more blue pill types like John Gray (Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus) have acknowledged brain differences. It isn't that controversial.
Rollo Tomassi wrote a great critique of John Gray and "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" in June 2005 on this forum. I've linked it below. More of Gray's audience was female, which is why I called it a common blue pill book of the 1990s-early 2000s in previous forum threads. Gray was popularized on the Oprah Winfrey TV talk show (original syndication airing dates 1986-2011) and Oprah's audience in those dates was heavily female.
Loves me but sex drive is going down
Well ive noticed that my gurl has started to act more lovy dovey with me but somehow she seems less and less wanting to have sex, we even talk about it less. If i take charge then she might see me a a sex hungry guy which isnt good. I want to tell her hey lets have sex when and where, but she...
That was the point that Myron and Rollo made. PUA types like Nick Krauser have far more value than academic types like John Gray.
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That was the point that Myron and Rollo made. PUA types like Nick Krauser have far more value than academic types like John Gray.
John Gottman (a famous relationship psychologist) has had some insights on predicting divorce. From what I know of Gottman's work, I doubt he's ever really delved into the early stages of dating and what makes for a good approach, good 1st/2nd date, and what leads to initial sex. Gottman might have ideas that could have value in LTRs but I have forgotten a lot of what I learned in some undergrad social science classes that I had at "Hot Girl U".
This thread below covers some of my mating marketplace experiences in college. I was equally focused on getting my penis wet as I was on my studies in undergrad. I had the first response in this thread after the initial poster.
Observations about college sex life from someone that went to a party school.
I thought I'd share this as someone who went to a party school and was in a fraternity there as well. Not wanting to give too much about myself but I went to UGA and graduated a few years ago. While Athens has its hot girls, I do feel like the quality got worse every year due to the admission...
By the early 2000s when I was in college, Gottman's work was discussed in various social science type classes. Gottman is now 81 years old and I believe he's retired. I only remember studying parts of his work in certain classes.
A lot of the evolution of white collar work has been to accommodate the increase in females in the workplace in the last 50-60 years.
In college, my primary option for finding true love (or true love for a short period) was off campus parties. I was primarily seeking sex more than love, but I think I was conflating the two at the time. I did not join a fraternity despite considering it. Off campus parties were one of the best way at my college for non-fraternity and non-sorority people to find sex with each other.
Second this
