Does this mean she wants to be more than friends?

[Ice_Berg_1]

My birthday was this past weekend and one of my female friends made sure she spent as much time as possible with me. My actual birthday was Saturday but she came over and took me out on Friday. Then on Saturday I invited alot of friends both male and female, but this girl stayed glued to my hip and whenever I did leave her to go say what's up to somebody she would be constantly looking for me. She is not usually like that. One of my ex's was there and this girl seemed to get pleasure out of trying to make her jelous. Then there was the gift she gave me. A certificate for a couples massage for us to go to together. Then on Sunday she made reservations at an upscale expensive restauraunt for us to have dinner. I don't know, it seems kind of wierd because for her female friends birthdays all she got them was some cheap ornaments and picture frames. She even missed her best friends birthday because she had to work. But was some able to attend mine without work being an issue. I feel kind of confused because I was under the impression that we were just buddies and I deffinalely did not spend as much time or money on her for her birthday.

 

[DonJuanMonk]

You're about to hit gold with this girl and you probably like her from the way you describe her in detail. Here's some guidelines:

1. Friend to Girlfriend can only be done by the girl. It seems as if this girl probably liked you from the start and liked you even more so that you're single.

2. Whatever you are doing right now, keep doing it. Do not suddenly act more friendlier or be more seductive.

3. Despite what other DJs will tell you, such as "make a move" or "go kiss her" , Don't do anything at all, just use your eyes and body language to tell her "Yeah, you're hot" If anything from what you wrote, it seems she's making all the moves already. Let her make those moves.

4. Remember to never mention your ex, unless she asks and keep it very brief/vague about it.

Let me know what happens.

 

[flexion_]

I agree - you are doing something right. So just have fun with it!