Does Size Matter?

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Penis size generally is a male obsession as its believed that " the bigger it is the more pleasurable it is for the woman"

I've been with enough women to know for the vast majority of women the opposite is true

Why !?! because its painful !

You will have some size queens who want the big D but if she's a size queen and praising you, you don't wanna know how many she's sampled before you

It's also extremely difficult for women to get orgasms from PIV sex , usually she is going to get off faster with oral or fingering

Its cringe when you have grown men thinking they need to d1ck measure :rofl:
 

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Hmmmm. Thoughts from the old lady:

Old saying: Its not the size of the ship, but rather the motion of the ocean that matters.

Being a skillful lover is more valuable than certain measurements.....

Vaginas vary in depth too. Some deeper, some not as deep. There is such a thing as too long because it gets pokey in certain positions if your length is greater than her depth.

I appreciate a great fit. Enough girth to be snug, enough length to satisfy but not be painful or poke. That will all vary from couple to couple.

So I'd say size matters but not in the way men typically * think * it matters. What matters most is if she enjoys you as a person. You have the physiology you have. The right girl isn't going to throw away a great guy over empirical dimensions....but a great fit is a nice bonus.

Just saying.
I can concur on the other end of this. I had one woman who had a vaginal canal short enough that I was poking her cervix, and it was painful for her; we had to try different positions so that I wouldn't go too deep. Other women I've been with felt like a really good fit, and it was really noticeably enjoyable for both of us.

Poking a woman's cervix can also be really pleasurable for her though. It depends on the woman (I've had that experience too).
 

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I'm slightly longer than average and there have been a few that commented positively.
I've always found it curious that there seems to be a very large number of men who are "slightly longer than average" and virtually no one who is slightly shorter than average :lol: But I digress...

Size matters to an extent but it's not nearly as big of a deal (no pun intended) as some people think. As long as you fall within the standard deviation (i.e. you are not significantly smaller or larger than average), you should be fine. Of course, it also depends on the internal dimension of you paramour (the expression "throwing a hot dog down the hallway" comes to mind).
 

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I've always found it curious that there seems to be a very large number of men who are "slightly longer than average" and virtually no one who is slightly shorter than average :lol: But I digress...

Size matters to an extent but it's not nearly as big of a deal (no pun intended) as some people think. As long as you fall within the standard deviation (i.e. you are not significantly smaller or larger than average), you should be fine. Of course, it also depends on the internal dimension of you paramour (the expression "throwing a hot dog down the hallway" comes to mind).
Remember. We are all 7/10s too.
 

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Girl don't worry, you'll be fine. Men with age and due to reduction in testosterone, blood flows goes less to the d!ck, and since is big now, eventually it will be smaller and softer, less pain for you.

Here is the article for it:

When you stop having regular erections or have fewer erections, the elastic tissue that stretches the penis from the flaccid state into the erect state can cause the penis to lose its elasticity. If the penis is not elastic, it won’t stretch when you get an erection, and you will notice you lost length.
It's OVER for FlacidStateCels. :(
 

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Does penis girth/length matter to women?

Ever had a woman tell you that your penis wasnt big enough? Too big?

I'm slightly longer than average and there have been a few that commented positively.

My general sense is it really isn't a big deal.

If you look at the typical vibrator/dildo at a sex toy shop it's not something giant. However, as @DJ Novice pointed out, some females are about it.

All of my exes had sex toys that were pretty comparable to the average male penis. Maybe they kept the big monsters hidden and never showed me?
According to chat GPT, girth matters more

with that said, I am longer than average and again, according to the AI, 4 standard deviations wider than typical girth

I have had most women say it was the perfect fit. Even my angry ex wife commented.

I think it’s more **** though.
 
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