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Master Don Juan
Making a long story short, I've been seeing a girl on and off in college for the past 4 or 5 months. We've kissed on many occassions and played around. I know she is physically attracted to me (not to brag), but I'm not so sure she sees me as the man she desires. Here are some PROs and CONs I have noticed.
PROs-
-When we go out, she shows a lot of kino (e.g. - Holding my hand, squeezing my hand while looking me in the eyes, holding me from behind)
-She calls me a decent amount, even though she says she was taught to never call guys
-She gets extremely jealous when she hears of another girl I've been hanging out with
-After this period of me not seeing her and seeing others, she would fling herself at me when we went out (she may have been slightly drunk, but it has happend 2 -3 times)
CONs-
-She once dated one of my friends, whom I'm not 100% sure if she has gotten over (She says she hates him, but we all know what that can sometimes mean)
-She can flake out for days on end (e.g. no contact from her)
-After our last hookup, she told me she thinks we should just be friends for now; I followed it up with seeing another girl to which she got extremely jealous over, though.
Now, I know this girl isn't the type to chase after a guy (thats why I like her), so I'm optimistic she is just being extremely passive with me. I on the other hand, don't want to put my foot too forward, cause thats when she started flaking. It seems like the more I stop caring for her, the more she wants. The more I BEGIN caring for her, the more she backs off.
Oh yea one more thing; There is something she has said to me at least 3 times through this ordeal-
"I like you too much to begin something when school is about to let out; I'm scared things are going to flop
or
I don't think our time is now, but hopefully one day it will be
So do you think this girl is just using me to up her confidence, or do you think she just might be too afraid show her true feelings?
PROs-
-When we go out, she shows a lot of kino (e.g. - Holding my hand, squeezing my hand while looking me in the eyes, holding me from behind)
-She calls me a decent amount, even though she says she was taught to never call guys
-She gets extremely jealous when she hears of another girl I've been hanging out with
-After this period of me not seeing her and seeing others, she would fling herself at me when we went out (she may have been slightly drunk, but it has happend 2 -3 times)
CONs-
-She once dated one of my friends, whom I'm not 100% sure if she has gotten over (She says she hates him, but we all know what that can sometimes mean)
-She can flake out for days on end (e.g. no contact from her)
-After our last hookup, she told me she thinks we should just be friends for now; I followed it up with seeing another girl to which she got extremely jealous over, though.
Now, I know this girl isn't the type to chase after a guy (thats why I like her), so I'm optimistic she is just being extremely passive with me. I on the other hand, don't want to put my foot too forward, cause thats when she started flaking. It seems like the more I stop caring for her, the more she wants. The more I BEGIN caring for her, the more she backs off.
Oh yea one more thing; There is something she has said to me at least 3 times through this ordeal-
"I like you too much to begin something when school is about to let out; I'm scared things are going to flop
or
I don't think our time is now, but hopefully one day it will be
So do you think this girl is just using me to up her confidence, or do you think she just might be too afraid show her true feelings?
