Hello guys, I posted a thread sometime ago and I did appreciated all the advice and comments from you guys. I tried having a conversation with my wife as to how things are going in our relationship and it was one of the hardest thing, 95% of the conversation was me and 5% was her which was a yes or no occasionally.
At one point she began crying and saying that I am pointing finger at her, now decided to let her have her say to level things out, she refused to say anything.
I reminded her as to when we just meet 11yrs ago and how happy we were together and asked what went wrong. her reply "nothing". It is on her face that she isn't happy about something and she is not willing to talk about it no matter how hard I try.
The next day after our "talk" I had to fetch dinner for me and the kids and asked her to be with me in the kitchen, she did after I asked the 6th time. She only did whatever I asked to do whilst in the kitchen and very half heartedly no proactive approach like a family preparing dinner. Moments later she disappear and when I called for her, I received no answer or a show. I went to look for her and she was just 2m away from the kitchen on the just getting the phone to call her mum. I felt that was so disrespectful.
To lay the topping on it she couldn't be asked to do the dishes or any other after dinner ritual.
That night I went to bed at 12 midnight, my wife did not get in bed until 1:30 am. I decided not to initiate any contact and there wasn't any from her,nothing.
Funny enough my are complaining they don't get any support from her, whether it is with homework or whatever and I find this disturbing. She is not sick or mentally challenged.
Over three months ago I paid for her and the kids to go on a holiday this December and she shows her appreciation by spending more time on the internet buying clothes and gifts for other family friends and ... well don't ask what I get. " i told you already I will get you something for Christmas so don't ask me again!!!!"
I AM VERY
FRUSTRATED HERE If I leave I will have the conscience of knowing my kids don't educational or moral support from her. HELP!!!!!
At one point she began crying and saying that I am pointing finger at her, now decided to let her have her say to level things out, she refused to say anything.
I reminded her as to when we just meet 11yrs ago and how happy we were together and asked what went wrong. her reply "nothing". It is on her face that she isn't happy about something and she is not willing to talk about it no matter how hard I try.
The next day after our "talk" I had to fetch dinner for me and the kids and asked her to be with me in the kitchen, she did after I asked the 6th time. She only did whatever I asked to do whilst in the kitchen and very half heartedly no proactive approach like a family preparing dinner. Moments later she disappear and when I called for her, I received no answer or a show. I went to look for her and she was just 2m away from the kitchen on the just getting the phone to call her mum. I felt that was so disrespectful.
To lay the topping on it she couldn't be asked to do the dishes or any other after dinner ritual.
That night I went to bed at 12 midnight, my wife did not get in bed until 1:30 am. I decided not to initiate any contact and there wasn't any from her,nothing.
Funny enough my are complaining they don't get any support from her, whether it is with homework or whatever and I find this disturbing. She is not sick or mentally challenged.
Over three months ago I paid for her and the kids to go on a holiday this December and she shows her appreciation by spending more time on the internet buying clothes and gifts for other family friends and ... well don't ask what I get. " i told you already I will get you something for Christmas so don't ask me again!!!!"
I AM VERY
FRUSTRATED HERE If I leave I will have the conscience of knowing my kids don't educational or moral support from her. HELP!!!!!
