Does it matter how quickly she slept with you?

[fasttrack]

Does it matter how quickly she was willing to slept with you versus other guys she's dated or is the fact that you're having sex with her now the most important thing?

It bothered me when I found out that my gf slept with the last guy she dated quicker than me. True, I was long distance from her and she had some trust issues with me since she thought I was a player and she had kind of been lied to by the other guy, but it still made me feel ****ty to know that info.

Should I really care about this?

Fast

 

[frivolousz21]

actually its better that she slept with him faster and not you.

partly because of respect....my girl told me..she wanted to take it slow with me because she didnt want me to not repsect her. Once I told her that I respect her regardless it was on!

that could be the reason.

 

[italostud]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
actually its better that she slept with him faster and not you.

partly because of respect....my girl told me..she wanted to take it slow with me because she didnt want me to not repsect her. Once I told her that I respect her regardless it was on!

that could be the reason.

Well, it's not really "better". She simply found the other guy's advances harder to resist. Or she was hornier for him or whatever. Of course she could be just trying a new approach with you. In the end it doesn't really matter. The thing that's most disturbing is that she would volunteer that information to you. Telling your new bf/gf about how fast you slept with the last one shows a lack of respect, and a lack of maturity.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by fasttrack
Does it matter how quickly she was willing to slept with you versus other guys she's dated or is the fact that you're having sex with her now the most important thing?

It bothered me when I found out that my gf slept with the last guy she dated quicker than me. True, I was long distance from her and she had some trust issues with me since she thought I was a player and she had kind of been lied to by the other guy, but it still made me feel ****ty to know that info.

Should I really care about this?

Fast

I've loved hard twice. I waited a long time with both of them. (one I'm still waiting)