My girl and I had a discussion last night about how things were in the early stages of dating. We`ve been dating for about 8 months now long distance (but we see each other every weekend). Anyway when we were talking she made it sound like I was the one purusing her in the beginning and that she was more unsure of how she wanted things to be(because fo the distance and being unsure of her feelings or thinking that I was a player, etc). She said that I was the one who was sure of my feelings and wanted more because I would write her nice emails and call her alot. And I brought her flowers and a gift when she invited me to her graduation about 3 months into it. I can say that I had felt that she was really into me at that point anyway...why else would she invite me to all these important events and have me meet her friends and parents?
Anyway, this kind of pissed me off because I`ve never chased a girl before. I only do nice things for a girl that I like and that I KNOW is into me at least as much or even more than I am into her. My email folder saves all the emails that I send or recieve. I browsed through them just to prove to myself that I was right in that she was the one who pushed for me to call her, come see her and also she would invite me to all of her important family events. It`s all there int he writing. I never told her that it`s all there, but if I let her read it she`d see for sure. I also only sent her nice emails because of the corny **** she`d write to me and yeah...I did like her too. So what? Big deal. Anyway, it seems like she`s ego-tripping a bit and needs to come back down to earth.
When she said all the stuff she did I never really responded because I didnt care, but then my ego got the best of me and I looked up the past details and now I can show her what really happened. Lol, it kind of makes me laught to think of it. I just don`t like her making me look like the chump who chased her couldnt wait to date her.
Should I show her what I`ve got and rub her nose in it? I know it doesn`t really make me a winner since she`ll be a bit pissed, but at least I`ll have the satisafaction. I`m no chump.
M.
Anyway, this kind of pissed me off because I`ve never chased a girl before. I only do nice things for a girl that I like and that I KNOW is into me at least as much or even more than I am into her. My email folder saves all the emails that I send or recieve. I browsed through them just to prove to myself that I was right in that she was the one who pushed for me to call her, come see her and also she would invite me to all of her important family events. It`s all there int he writing. I never told her that it`s all there, but if I let her read it she`d see for sure. I also only sent her nice emails because of the corny **** she`d write to me and yeah...I did like her too. So what? Big deal. Anyway, it seems like she`s ego-tripping a bit and needs to come back down to earth.
When she said all the stuff she did I never really responded because I didnt care, but then my ego got the best of me and I looked up the past details and now I can show her what really happened. Lol, it kind of makes me laught to think of it. I just don`t like her making me look like the chump who chased her couldnt wait to date her.
Should I show her what I`ve got and rub her nose in it? I know it doesn`t really make me a winner since she`ll be a bit pissed, but at least I`ll have the satisafaction. I`m no chump.
M.
