Does Every Guys Desire For Hot Babes Decrease When They Learn How To Attract Them

[KoalaKing]

I was wondering if all guys who used to spend every second of the day fantasizing about all of the hottest babes that they saw when they never dated them lost their desire for them once lots of them become available.

When I couldn't attract any hot babes at all in my younger days I told myself that I was depressed and miserable because I didn't have a pretty girlfriend in my life, but now that I find it so much easier to attract and obtain hot babes as girlfriends I tend to let so many of them pass me by as I am happy being alone without a pretty girlfriend in my life at most times.

My attraction for hot babes tormented me in my younger years and it made my entire life a terrible failure.

As soon as I had dated a hot babe for the first time a few years back I immediately became so much happier and I began to live a successful life.

These days I am still attracted to hot babes but I don't have to have one as many of them desire to be with me.

I used to fantasize about hot babes that I couldn't get in my younger years so much more than I do the hot babes that I can get now.

It is strange because what you can't get seems to ruin your entire life but as soon as you can get it you often don't take it yet your life becomes so much more of a success because you know that you can have it if you desire to.

I still see myself as being more of the good guy than the bad boy yet I have learnt how to attract the hottest babes who are many years my junior.

When I was 18 I could never get a 15 to 25 year old hot babe to be interested in me, even at the age of 30 I still didn't attract very many hot babes, but now I am 38 I can date as many 21 to 28 year old hot babes as I desire, yet I don't always do that.

Is this a natural thing that happens, it seems like the unattainable always seems so much more desirable than what is easy to attain, even if it is the very same thing that makes you depressed and miserable when you couldn't obtain it.

It is like a poor man who lives in a caravan or a trailer as they call it in the USA, but then becomes wealthy and moves into a mansion, after a while he doesn't really appreciate it as much as he thought that he would have when he was poor.

When a dream comes true it never seems to be a great as it is when you fantasize about it when you can't get it, this is what is like for me now that I can attract the hottest babes, is it the same for any of you. :yes:

 

[Skilla_Staz]

No. I just keep upping my standards. Hotter, better, fitter, smarter, more challenging girls. Never dies, I just up the level of targets.

 

[KoalaKing]

My life is very strange now, even I myself cannot understand it, I as a guy who claimed to be miserable and depressed because I didn't have a hot babe in my life until I was about 30, now at 38 is passing off hot babes aged from 21 to 28 without even giving any thought to it.

My own Grandma, Mother, other relatives and friends cannot believe that I refuse to settle down with and Marry any of these hot younger babes, especially after I had always told them that I was miserable because I didn't have one with me.

Whenever I meet a new hot young babe I think about settling down and Marrying her, but then another one comes along and I cannot do that.

Most people still veiw me as being a kindhearted humble and good type of a guy, yet I seem to have so many hot babes comming towards me from all angles even though I'm nothing like a bad boy at all.

Ever since I began doing my positive affirmations, I began to succeed in life itself at which time the hot babes became drawn towards me.

I spend a lot of my spare time alone doing my own hobbies, but many of these hot babes become upset with my refusal to make a commitment, yet when I would have made a commitment in my younger days they didn't desire to be with me because I was too desperate and needy.

It is strange that they desire to be with a guy who won't make a commitment, yet the guy who will make the commitment they don't want to be with, in many ways it has been them that has created me into the creature that I now am, yet they still complain about it. :yes: :rock: :yes:

 

[Royal Elite]

Life iz about evolution..

az u evolve az a man da thingz dat uze 2 b important will no longer b important any more..az kidz we all thought we would play with toyz 4 ever until we discovered girlz and video gamez..after a while video gamez dont have da same appeal..Women uze 2 b very important 2 me..not any more..i can get almozt any woman anytime i want..i am a deep thinker..and i chooze 2 spend my time with other deep thinkerz...chazing women 2 me iz a boyz game..i dont play dat anymore...life iz 2 short..there r 2 many thingz 2 c and do den 2 waste it chasing women, at leazt 4 me becuz ive been there dont dat..im trying 2 C da world b4 i go..and acquire da finer thingz in life..while leaving behind a legacy...
YHWH Blezz
prinze royal elite

 

[Buck Rogers]

yes

 

[flexion_]

Yes - your definition of hot changes.

 

[Boschy]

I guess it also means that the abnormal value we place on hot babes in the past was proportional to how difficult they were to attain (something rare or widely desired has more perceived value). Now you know they are just normal homo sapiens like us. Nothing special apart from OK physical genes. Certainly nothing to get anxiety over.