Does engauging a woman give her the power???

[sikpupy]

One reason I dont approach women is that I am afraid to give them the power. If they see a man come up to them and say "hey baby, whats going on" and they say "drop dead", they just aquired a defeat, sort of like "Highlander". Damn, I really dont want to add to some womans "my **** dont stink" list.

Simple question but I need to hear it from the real DJ's. Do I need to get over this and be a man?

P.S. Yes, i know, I also need to do a lot more reading on this board too.

 

[frivolousz21]

no


women have power over you..when you do things for them..they wont do in return for you.

 

[diablo]

Originally posted by sikpupy
One reason I dont approach women is that I am afraid to give them the power.

Sounds like an excuse to me. My best advice is to stop with the Highlander references and get moving on approaching women... otherwise there isn't much in your future except watching highlander on your couch, alone.

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