Does anyone else find attractive women easier to deal with than average women?

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Been on a lot of dates recently, and I can definitively say that the attractive women (7-8.5s) were more feminine, submissive, agreeable, easier to impress, pleasant to be around, etc. The 5-7s (mid) were more disagreeable, bitter, and all of them went fvcking nowhere and left a bad taste in my mouth. Looking back, I think it's always been like this.

I think this can be explained by the fact that mid woman are more insecure and may have more "options" (at least in their head) ; accordingly their delusion and entitlement is higher. Could also be that since I'm less attracted to them, the physical attraction isn't high enough to create any sexual tension/chemistry.

Either way, I think i'm done with it. I keep thinking "plain" women will put in more effort and be more feminine but apparently not. I think ~8s really are a perfect sweet spot. I can't say I've dated 9s or 10s but they obviously bring a host of other problems to deal with.
 
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Some of the coolest women I ever got to know were on the higher end of the scale looks wise. Sweet as pie. Made sense they had a higher self esteem.

I remember starting college and I had a classmate in Bio, this really beautiful Armenian girl. I sucked with women then and my mind was warped still from prior experiences that I was like ah she's probably a ***** blah blah. Formed a bad opinion of her without ever talking to her. One day I was walking in the snow on my way to the station to take the train to college when this car honked at me and pulled up. Was a nice looking looking car, think it was some sort of Cadillac or Lexus if I remember correctly. The window rolled down and it's this girl from my biology class. She goes "hey you sit in front of me in my biology class right? Do you take the train to school, do you want a lift?" A friend of hers I guess lived in my neighborhood and she had stayed overnight. I got in with her and from that point got to know her. She was extremely nice and easy going, very easy to talk too. She came from a good family, did the private schooling and everything.
No I didn't date her or anything she already had a bf. It was serious and they ended up getting married after she graduated, he was slightly older than us. I lost touch with her but Karina was cool as hell. Completely shattered a stupid notion of good looking women I had at that time.
 

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Some of the coolest women I ever got to know were on the higher end of the scale looks wise. Sweet as pie. Made sense they had a higher self esteem.

I remember starting college and I had a classmate in Bio, this really beautiful Armenian girl. I sucked with women then and my mind was warped still from prior experiences that I was like ah she's probably a ***** blah blah. Formed a bad opinion of her without ever talking to her. One day I was walking in the snow on my way to the station to take the train to college when this car honked at me and pulled up. Was a nice looking looking car, think it was some sort of Cadillac or Lexus if I remember correctly. The window rolled down and it's this girl from my biology class. She goes "hey you sit in front of me in my biology class right? Do you take the train to school, do you want a lift?" A friend of hers I guess lived in my neighborhood and she had stayed overnight. I got in with her and from that point got to know her. She was extremely nice and easy going, very easy to talk too. She came from a good family, did the private schooling and everything.
No I didn't date her or anything she already had a bf. It was serious and they ended up getting married after she graduated, he was slightly older than us. I lost touch with her but Karina was cool as hell. Completely shattered a stupid notion of good looking women I had at that time.
I find that women from such backgrounds are often easier to talk to. They tend to be more open, confident and open-minded - probably because life has usually been good to them.

Take from that what you will.
 

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Could also be that since I'm less attracted to them, the physical attraction isn't high enough to create any sexual tension/chemistry.
It generally a lot easier and more natural to create a masculine / feminine polarity with a female you are physically attracted too

She wants to feel sexy and if she can sense your physically turned on and attracted too her that allows her to be more feminine around you
 

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I can't agree less with you... highly attractive girls are easy to deal with and surprisingly more understanding. It looks the less the attractive girls especially from broken homes seems to have some passive aggressive attitude towards life and I think it is because they are insecure about themselves especially beauty so when a guy shows some interest their instincts go wild and want to make him submit quickly and lock him down especially if the guy is a catch. They can do all sort of manipulations just get you to stick around even threaten suicide.

On the other hand because highly attractive girls seems to get a lot of attention but less approaches because we usually think they are already got someone; so when someone makes a moves they don't want to lose the opportunity because it will take a while for another brave man to make move on her again. However those at the other extremes gets a lot of approaches because we think they don't already have someone hence a lot of guys are in her dm kissing her *ss all day long to make her commit. Because they think she has less attention hence she safe to court unlike the highly attractive girl they think gets a lot of attention from guys.

I can go on... but they all points are going to contradict themselves... they whole point we men live our heads and women face the reality before them. Women know this. For me it is not attractiveness that matter. Sure she got to be hot and all that to my taste. But if a girl is giving me troubles I have learned the hard way not to tolerate even the little bits of troubles. Learn how to screen women quickly it will save you a lot of troubles. Reduce them to plates and acquaintance quickly or just forget them; it will make your life simpler.
 

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I wouldn't say "more attractive" women.

Younger women for sure. They are much much easier than older women.
Well yes, this goes without saying. I do actually find that something seems to change in them once they hit 27, 28.
 

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What I have seen is the woman’s upbringing and how healthy it was is what makes the difference. If she loves and respects her parents, then she comes with less trouble and more confidence. I know a Persian girl that is such. Always sweet and considerate of others, has strong feminine energy, compliant and not fighting for leadership position. No angry feminist energy because she respects gender roles. Her attitude is good and that naturally makes her more attractive overall. This is where the vetting process is so key. If she is hot but a royal pain in the a$$, be ready for trouble and drama.
 

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Been on a lot of dates recently, and I can definitively say that the attractive women (7-8.5s) were more feminine, submissive, agreeable, easier to impress, pleasant to be around, etc. The 5-7s (mid) were more disagreeable, bitter, and all of them went fvcking nowhere and left a bad taste in my mouth. Looking back, I think it's always been like this.

I think this can be explained by the fact that mid woman are more insecure and may have more "options" (at least in their head) ; accordingly their delusion and entitlement is higher. Could also be that since I'm less attracted to them, the physical attraction isn't high enough to create any sexual tension/chemistry.

Either way, I think i'm done with it. I keep thinking "plain" women will put in more effort and be more feminine but apparently not. I think ~8s really are a perfect sweet spot. I can't say I've dated 9s or 10s but they obviously bring a host of other problems to deal with.

Yep. My attractive clients are MUCH easier so straight forward to deal with! On par with old women, from a much older generation. Real easy clients.
 

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It generally a lot easier and more natural to create a masculine / feminine polarity with a female you are physically attracted too

She wants to feel sexy and if she can sense your physically turned on and attracted too her that allows her to be more feminine around you
Exactly my experience and why i cant seduce american basic women. I thought something was wrong with me. Then i did molly and was able to get them easier. When ur on molly youre more turned on by women and wayyyy less judgmental. When im not on drugs, i can see clearly that these women arent attractive and feminine and i cant game them. This in turn makes them feel less feminine and the polarity is neutralized. On the other hand, i can game foreign women very easily as im attracted to them much more often. Nature takes care of itself.
 

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No. My GF literally gets stopped on the street & gets compliments. She’s been pretty her whole life and is a ‘princess’. Less attractive woman are easier to deal with.
 

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yeah theres some nuance to this discussion. Its easier to have good game w chicks youre actualy attracted to cuz if youre an advanced player such as myself, i am so bored and apathetic with chicks i dont find attractive that it makes like no sparks.
 

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Very much so. If I’m at a public venue I find the woman that is the most attractive to me and make a line straight for her vecinity and open her. They are so unused to being approached by men they’re often sitting alone or being macked on by some guy that’s a retard. If you’re good at conversation she’ll be tickled and talk to you for hours.

Even if nothing is going to happen she raises your value because once you have her laughing she will naturally touch you, this raises your value to all the women in the venue, to the point where they try to join the conversation sometimes.

If you have the joint on a decent lockdown the barkeep will wing for you.
 
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5-7 range in looks have a very cold vibe. The better looking woman are friendlier.
 
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Kind of makes me think of how many 4-5s get 1000s of matches on OND which makes the likelihood that 4-5s have probably been used as *** receptacles for loads of top 20-30% tier guys. This is where the thousand-c*ck stare comes in. A lot of these 4-6s are veterans and u have no idea. I unfortunately speak from experience as im sure many over here can attest to being at least somewhat part of that problem haha
 

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This is why i think as men,we must consciously endeavor to not reward 4 and 5s for being willing. They must rise to get access to quality dck
 

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Sorry if this is a silly request, but can someone please explain what the 1,000 c0ck stare is please.

I keep hearing this phrase but I'm not sure there's a basic usable description. What are the key elements of the look?
 
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