Doc Love's new article on flaky girls...

[squirrels]

http://www.sosuave.com/doclove/doc180.htm

Do you think this is good advice? Immediate NEXT if she breaks a date on the day of? Or give her another chance?

 

[bp1974]

Doc Love's System works, but is totally reliant on you being a number machine. If you're rolling through numbers by the dozen then nexting a date-breaker is no biggy.
If you're not a number cruncher but you still stick rigidly to his rules you'll more often than not be taking your hand to bed. Then again if you don't follow the rules you end up chasing flaky chicks who aren't that into you.

 

[xblitz44x]

I give two chances. In the case of that guy who wrote to Doc Love, he had nothing to do that night anyway, he really lost nothing so I would have given her one more shot and the benefit of the doubt. I understand the theory "If her romantic interest is high she will never break a date, yada yada" but if for some reason she is being sincere and I had a great time the first date, it's worth giving her another shot.

 

[TylerDurden]

Originally posted by xblitz44x
but if for some reason she is being sincere and I had a great time the first date, it's worth giving her another shot.

How can you tell that a flaky girl is sincere?

 

[Walden]

Yeah. I've been thinking about this. If you rock mad numbers of CAs you can be number machine, and if you NEXT anyone who isn't gagging for it then you wind up getting plenty of blart for sure.

But you still wind up only blanging whichever skanks happen to choose you. I'd prefer to churn through the number in order to find round holes (to put the square peg in from time to time) but it's aldo be nice to learn how to play for specific girls.

For which DL's system is no use whatsoever (but then that's not what it's designed for).

 

[JustDoItAlways]

I was thinking about this and then noticed that none of my girlfriends have ever flaked like this on me on the second get-together. Their answers have always been an emphatic Yes.

Actually, there was one. But then she unexpectedly showed up at my house that night and fvcked my brains out.

While I agree you should take every chance you can with a girl until she gives you a firm No (or a firm flake that you can see through since chicks hate saying No), it is interesting how rarely these flake scenarios actually work out.

Do any of you have a real life examples where such an obvious flake like this worked out later (you banged her and/or she ended up as your girlfriend.)

 

[Walden]

Yeah absolutely. One I had to try for a week to get a date with who i then hooked up with, and another who came over to my house then said she wasn't interested and was naked 20 minutes later.

lesson : Women are strange.

 

[xblitz44x]

"How can you tell that a flaky girl is sincere?"

I give them another chance. The girl that I dated before flaked a few times. Not on the second date, but still. A few times she even declined my date. We actually wound up falling in love. I just hate to next something that I really enjoy, without giving that 'grace chance' just incase she is telling the truth.

-Blitz

PS: Also, how some of you DJ's play games, so do some women who really like you. They might cancel and play the hard-to-get thing. As much as you hate it, you know you do the same thing.

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Originally posted by Walden

lesson : Women are strange.

Hell yeah. Don't we know it!

 

[Reto]

Good article.

Can't tell you how many times I put up with that crap...

I'm a flake magnet! No more though...

 

[ZeeOwl]

Originally posted by JustDoItAlways Do any of you have a real life examples where such an obvious flake like this worked out later (you banged her and/or she ended up as your girlfriend.) [/B]

Not yet. But I may have one in a little over a week. See thread:
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=36107

She's the 1st truly flaky chick I've had to deal with. Using her as an experiment for a flake-recovery technique I'm trying.

 

[becker]

Originally posted by xblitz44x
"How can you tell that a flaky girl is sincere?"

I give them another chance. The girl that I dated before flaked a few times. Not on the second date, but still. A few times she even declined my date. We actually wound up falling in love. I just hate to next something that I really enjoy, without giving that 'grace chance' just incase she is telling the truth.

-Blitz

PS: Also, how some of you DJ's play games, so do some women who really like you. They might cancel and play the hard-to-get thing. As much as you hate it, you know you do the same thing.

Great point. I've had a girl be VERY flaky on me, but she had a BF, so I figured she's probably into him enough so she wants to avoid anything that might be misperceived. I'd ask this girl to lunch, or anything pretty innocent, nothing like a date, and she'd refuse because she had to study (which was true). Then, I got together with her one day and we were talking, and she told me all this stuff about her BF planning a vacation and she didn't want to get involved because she had to study. This girl was truly a studying machine, and she made it clear that that was her top priority, because when the studying time was over, she was no longer flaky. That's when it's sincere.

When the excuses border on bullsh*t, then you have to just say NEXT, but you have to use your good judgment, and maybe give her the benefit of the doubt until you are certain she isn't interested.