mahon83050
Banned
I read part of this on askmen. Since I do not have a g/f alot of these do not apply. However, I think I have the most problems with #4 and #7. How do guys rate?
1.) You are more comfortable hanging out with women than men and you have few male friends.
2.)Your biggest thrill in the last few months came after you spent an entire Saturday fixing your foxy neighbor's broken toilet and she said, "You are so sweet!"
3.)You avoid conflict with your girlfriend at all costs.
Saying "No" to your girlfriend never enters your mind.
4.)It is difficult for you to put your own needs first. You think that if you do, you are being selfish.
5.)You consider yourself more sensitive and evolved than other men.
6.)The last time you got past second base was three Fourth of Julys ago at the neighborhood softball game.
7.)You pride yourself on not being like the other men who "only have one thing on their minds." (You happen to have the same thing on your mind, but you hide it from women -- and yourself.)
8.)You always ask for a woman's permission before you try to kiss her on the cheek.
9.)Your emotional well-being is dependent on your girlfriend's happiness. You are happy only when she is happy.
I will add my own list for AFC-Niceguy behavior (this is for pre-first date or in the very, very beginning of a relationship.
1.) Thinks playing the shy respectful guy will increase a womans attraction level. It might for some, but a majority it WILL NOT!
2.) Thinks or hopes women will find passiveness or shyness as attractive.
3.) Is afraid to disagree with a women or challenge her because it is not "nice" to do so and will make the women feel less attracted to you.
4.) Thinks his looks is the ticket and that women will initiate things with him because he is good looking.
5.) Thinks his looks are as important to women are they are to men.
6.) Is embarassed to show his sexuality or let a girl know he is interested.
7.) Has too much pride to approach women or complains "why don't women initiate things with me? It is only fair!!"
So, I hope none of you guys have any of these mindsets. I will admit, I still do, but becoming a DJ is not an overnight process.
Always remember, 95% of women, even if they see you as "Brad Pitt" will not initiate things with you (date, approach etc.) If you fail to initiate with a girl you are interested in she is only going to thing one of two things; You do not have the balls or confidence to initiate (any attraction she had for you seriously went downhill) or she she will believe you are not interested. (you either have somone else or are not attracted to her) So, swallow your damned pride and initiate. If you don't, you will miss many opportunities and become a lonely miserable bastard. The ball is in your hands. Not only am I saying this to my fellow DJ's, but as a motivational speech to myself.
1.) You are more comfortable hanging out with women than men and you have few male friends.
2.)Your biggest thrill in the last few months came after you spent an entire Saturday fixing your foxy neighbor's broken toilet and she said, "You are so sweet!"
3.)You avoid conflict with your girlfriend at all costs.
Saying "No" to your girlfriend never enters your mind.
4.)It is difficult for you to put your own needs first. You think that if you do, you are being selfish.
5.)You consider yourself more sensitive and evolved than other men.
6.)The last time you got past second base was three Fourth of Julys ago at the neighborhood softball game.
7.)You pride yourself on not being like the other men who "only have one thing on their minds." (You happen to have the same thing on your mind, but you hide it from women -- and yourself.)
8.)You always ask for a woman's permission before you try to kiss her on the cheek.
9.)Your emotional well-being is dependent on your girlfriend's happiness. You are happy only when she is happy.
I will add my own list for AFC-Niceguy behavior (this is for pre-first date or in the very, very beginning of a relationship.
1.) Thinks playing the shy respectful guy will increase a womans attraction level. It might for some, but a majority it WILL NOT!
2.) Thinks or hopes women will find passiveness or shyness as attractive.
3.) Is afraid to disagree with a women or challenge her because it is not "nice" to do so and will make the women feel less attracted to you.
4.) Thinks his looks is the ticket and that women will initiate things with him because he is good looking.
5.) Thinks his looks are as important to women are they are to men.
6.) Is embarassed to show his sexuality or let a girl know he is interested.
7.) Has too much pride to approach women or complains "why don't women initiate things with me? It is only fair!!"
So, I hope none of you guys have any of these mindsets. I will admit, I still do, but becoming a DJ is not an overnight process.
Always remember, 95% of women, even if they see you as "Brad Pitt" will not initiate things with you (date, approach etc.) If you fail to initiate with a girl you are interested in she is only going to thing one of two things; You do not have the balls or confidence to initiate (any attraction she had for you seriously went downhill) or she she will believe you are not interested. (you either have somone else or are not attracted to her) So, swallow your damned pride and initiate. If you don't, you will miss many opportunities and become a lonely miserable bastard. The ball is in your hands. Not only am I saying this to my fellow DJ's, but as a motivational speech to myself.
, but I think that I'm out for a little bit more than some easy action.