Do you think your job matters?
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Job = money and social status, so yes.
I think a woman just wants to know you're working. If she were to sleep with you and get pregnant, she wants to know you can take care of the kid or contribute in someway. You should be good as long as you have a job. If what you do isn't good enough for her then she's already shown her cards. You don't wanna be involved with her anyway.
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I think your job matters, but also where your job is located. Take mine for example. I work for a rent to own store in a town of about 12,000 people. Now my town is mostly old people. We do have a college in town, but the job market sucks, and we can't get as many customers as we want. But what I am saying is: Job Location, Population, and Type of People are factors also. I can't meet any women because most that come in my store are married or taken. So some of us are just screwed no matter what!
I think having ambition and goals is important, and the ability to progress, no matter what job you do. For examaple, if someone is currently stocking shelves in supermarket, but has potential to progress to managment, that is cool. If someone is working as an office administrator, without any goals or motivation, I wouldnt date them.
Yes it does matter. Women are attracted to successful men. Naturally, a successful businessman is going to be more attractive than a sales clerk. Of course, one's job is not the only factor. There are several factors that go into the equation of attractiveness.
I know some successful doctors that couldn't get laid to save their lives. I also know a few guys who are constantly broke and working different jobs who get lots of tang.
I know some successful doctors that couldn't get laid to save their lives. I also know a few guys who are constantly broke and working different jobs who get lots of tang.
I reckon it can matter for both raw attraction and relationship...
Personally I wouldn't give 2 sh1ts if a girl i was with did something "average" for a living...but I'd find it a quirky novelty if it was something different/cool/unusual/high status.
Some girls are more attracted to people with professional jobs...i.e. doctor, dentist, lawyer, accountant etc. The reason for that is obvious. Status and money.
But these jobs also show ambition (to some extent) and intelligence.
In my opinion, it varies from type of girl to type of girl. Some will obviously be more eager if your job is high status and/or pulls in a lot of money. This is a good thing if you're just looking for tail. Equally, in a LOT (most?) cases, if you don't have an awesome job...you'll still get the pvssy.
Ambition and a high status/high paying job can never hurt, basically.
Personally I wouldn't give 2 sh1ts if a girl i was with did something "average" for a living...but I'd find it a quirky novelty if it was something different/cool/unusual/high status.
Some girls are more attracted to people with professional jobs...i.e. doctor, dentist, lawyer, accountant etc. The reason for that is obvious. Status and money.
But these jobs also show ambition (to some extent) and intelligence.
In my opinion, it varies from type of girl to type of girl. Some will obviously be more eager if your job is high status and/or pulls in a lot of money. This is a good thing if you're just looking for tail. Equally, in a LOT (most?) cases, if you don't have an awesome job...you'll still get the pvssy.
Ambition and a high status/high paying job can never hurt, basically.
Things like money and looks matter but mainly as a bonus unless you're dealing with golddiggers etc. What really matters is how you make them feel. Theres plenty of AFCs with good jobs who women don't find attractive. There are DJ's who have no jobs but have plenty of women.
If the job conversation comes up ALWAYS put a positive spin on it and your life in general. Remember feel good about yourself and you'll make others feel good about you.
If the job conversation comes up ALWAYS put a positive spin on it and your life in general. Remember feel good about yourself and you'll make others feel good about you.
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Your job can be really helpful, especially if you're making 6+ figures!
Your job can bring money, and extra points if you're a CEO.
And @ Lexington, there are successful doctors who couldn't get laid to save their lives? Goddamn! They make 6 figures and drive Mercedes Benzes! WTF! All I can say is wow.
The more successful you are, the more hot women you can get easily. By easily I mean where these women allow you to bypass sh*t tests and flaking. You will become high priority.
Case closed.
Your job can bring money, and extra points if you're a CEO.
And @ Lexington, there are successful doctors who couldn't get laid to save their lives? Goddamn! They make 6 figures and drive Mercedes Benzes! WTF! All I can say is wow.
The more successful you are, the more hot women you can get easily. By easily I mean where these women allow you to bypass sh*t tests and flaking. You will become high priority.
Case closed.
I know many guys who have really ****ty jobs, like valets and cashiers, and get hb10s no problem.
The women that are superficial enough to care about a man's money are weak enough to fall for the verbal game. Thats why you usually find rich guys' gfs cheating on them with a deadbeat.
The women that are superficial enough to care about a man's money are weak enough to fall for the verbal game. Thats why you usually find rich guys' gfs cheating on them with a deadbeat.
jdollarthegreat
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Job matters not my friends, I'm quick to tell a ***** that I sell fish and peel bananas for a living. Things only matter when you give them a level of importance kno wat im talkin bout
I know a doctor like that. He even opened a club here to try and get women. Lots of women used him for his money and connections..so did a lot of shady people. But then again that's the way he presented himself. He tried to buy affection instead of having game. He tried to buy status and acceptance from people. I'm pretty poor by comparison and he would always make jokes about my income, I would make jokes about his golddiggers. He's still single and still chasing after women like he was tiger woods.nismo-4 said: