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Do you think women getting into a steady dating situation assign a "waiting value" for their new man before giving up the poon?

MatureDJ

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I was watching this great video by Aaron Clarey, and it got me interested:


For example, for a GigaChad, a chick (here, let's only consider those chicks that aren't total sluts) might be willing to sex him up on the 2nd date, but for a Normie, the Golden Canal is only opened after a year or so of simping.
 
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I don't think it's about waiting, it really depends on the girl. Some have and are used to giving it up on the first/second date. Some sill take a heed of warning if you try to pursue on the second date.
What they do for work is one of the indicators of when you can go for it.
I think the sweet spot is around the 3rd/4th date to pursue, that would be expected by most women. Many might disagree, but I don't mind spending the extra time to get to know her prior. I'm not in a rush to get laid as I'm more relationship focused.
 

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A lot are conscious about giving up to soon, but if the interest is there it doesn't take very long. It really should take you no more than 3 or 4 dates at the most (if you're being conservative). This has been my experience. You can smash much sooner, sometimes first date --- but I don't believe this speaks very well about said woman.

The woman I had met last week I invited her to meet with me this past Thursday. I told her I was going to be at Mojito Bar after work and she should come by. She came and we were there from 6:30 to 8:30, had a few drinks and ate. I typically always invite women to drinks first - this way I can evaluate whether I decide to take it further or not. She passed the test; she seems very interested and wanted to meet up again so I will look to see what is happening activity wise that can be done for a date. I generally like activity style dates because they are fun. Assuming that goes well I will then invite her to dinner on the next date and that is when I usually go for the kill.
 

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Of every women I've been with, relationship or not, almost all of them had sex with me on date 1 or date 2. I think for an LTR, date 2 or 3 is the sweet spot.

If the date was lukewarm at best, I didn't even try to make anything happen. In those situations, you may end up having sex after 5-10 dates, but it's quite simply not worth it - I always interpret no sex as no interest except in special circumstances.

In unusual cases, for instance women who are virgins or with only 1-2 sexual partners, may genuinely want to wait longer, but that's a rare exception and I think it will be obvious to you. For instance I had a Chinese immigrant girl over to my place for a first date and she was not at all okay with having sex. I could tell it wasn't due to disinterest at all, though I abandoned pursuing her either way.
 
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There are women who won't have sex with you without a monogamous commitment. It doesn't have to be marriage but dating exclusivity. Patti Stanger, who once hosted Bravo's "Millionaire Matchmaker" (a look inside her high end matchmaking service) would always advocate for no sex prior to monogamy (see articles below).



Most women will have sex without a DTR monogamy talk, usually prior to the 5th date at the latest.

In "Mystery Method", Mystery asserts that 7 hours of time spent together is sufficient for getting sex, and that often happens in 2-3 dates. He does realizes there are instances where sex happens before the 7 hour point in time, often from nightlife venues and with alcohol involved.

 

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If a country never had their ground drilled for oil, I understand the needs for intensive discussion and to finalize the agreement.

If a country is already exporting oil since years I expect the drilling to to be fully operational in much short time if both parties are satisfied from the conditions.
 
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