Do you think drinking often makes you happier and increase lay chance?

[moneyisking]

I am not referring to getting fvcked up like an alcoholic with no sense of responsibilities or accomplishments, but you know, just drinking more often either at home or going out with friends; I guess going out to drink at a bar would actually increase lay chances since you're exposed to more females and alcohol is like an elixir of courage+little stupidity that works in your favor, but not all of us can spend $100-200 even per week to go out and drink, so I am more referring to you drinking more in general (not abusing it) and see if that made you little happier in life in general terms. Remember I am not referring to all-day-everyday-fvcked up drinking.

I usually don't drink very much, maybe if I even the occasions out, once a month? Even then, they are pretty light to moderate drinking, and I just feel stressed out about woman, personal, social issues so wanted to see if you "happier" Don Juans see drinking frequently as precursor to happier lifestyle and getting more laid possibly. The only setback would be my love of exercising, running and swimming, but benefits and losses will be weighed.

 

[alpha_ash]

If someone is willing to retype all this or reformat it in a proper way, I may take the time to read and chime in. Please don't press enter until you mean to end the current paragraph while typing.

 

[moneyisking]

Jesus christ there you go I fixed it to be less spaced. if you want me to give you a foot massage and hire you a hooker to jerk off your fingers, please let me know about that too.

ps: i thought people preferred when things were spaced since that seems to be easier to the eyes

 

[moneyisking]

@paradox nah man it's cool alpha and I are best friends although we never met. I agree with your reasons, especially #2. Personally building attraction is so much easier with booze effect b/c I tend to care less, which is what everyone also tend to get

@pair I tend to keep my mind pretty straight most of the times unless I am heavily dosed; I thought though that drinking little more often than how I am now would relax my mind little more from all this fuvcktard sh!t going on and stress, so I actually picked up some wine to smooth my mental little bit. opinions may vary though

 

[Packers2010]

if your drinking to " loosen up" thats ok.

but for me, trying to "loosen up" by weed or drank dosen't work for me. i still feel like crap and i don't approach.

at NYE and at a friends engagement party i did things i can't take back, i hurt my best friend. so i stopped drinking. i have had a drink since then, because people have got me them. I haven't been drunk since.

it's good to be clean man. though watch out you might find you replace it with weed or something else.

 

[zinc4]

drinking moderately is a lot of fun.....at least to me it is..and yes it helps increase chances..

 

[NobodyCares1]

Drinking a few beers on a night out does really help me, when I'm just a little drunk I usually have better mood and I'm bolder. So approaching is easier and somehow I can charm the girls a bit better.

 

[VladPatton]

My doc once said: "I don't know how the hell people can stay sober constantly!"

In conclusion, lads: Have a few drinks with your boys, play with the girls, and have fun before you're 80 and are shıttin yourself 4 times a day.

 

[moneyisking]

nice inputs. also the question was, if you haven't been drinking that much, pretty damn stressed out in life, then picked up on drinking more regularly (up to you, 2x, 3x, 4x, 5-x per week?), do you feel happier, or for better use of other words, content, relaxed, easy-going, lightened-up, easier to talk to people, etc

 

[Gunner26]

This is an interesting one for me.

I love going out for a drink, I'm at uni and I am making full use of this time to get drunk often and have fun. I'm the happiest I've been in years, but I'm not so sure it's because of the frequency of drinking. I find that it's the fact I'm going for drinks WITH OTHER people that makes me more happy than the alcohol itself.

For some reason I don't really get hangovers at the moment, and it's not through a lack of alcohol consumption, I drink plenty enough. One of two things happens after a night out though, I am either really lazy for the entire day, or in a ridiculously happy, active mood which my housemates and friends tell me is near infectious. It's like I'm a bundle of energy cracking jokes, smiling, laughing and generally being pretty loud.

In regards to your question, I don't think frequent drinking by itself increases your chances of getting laid. Where you drink is more important o you geting laid, obviosuly drinking at a house party/bar/club is more likely to get you laid than having a few beers while chillling at a friends on the xbox.

Again though, I don't think it's the alcohol that makes me happy. It helps settle nerves and loosens me up, enabling me to do more outlandish things, but it is not the source of my happiness, I'd have to say that it is the fact I am drinking with other people whom I like to spend time with and who make me feel good about myself.

Gunner

 

[alpha_ash]

Thank you for that, it's much easier on my eyes and my brain now haha.

I go out clubbing once every 1-3 weeks. When I go out, I don't drink more than ONE mixed drink (top shelf ofcourse!). Let me explain why:

1. 1 drink is JUST the right amount to get you buzzed and happy! Happy people attract all other people.
2. 1 drink is JUST the right amount to get me on the dance floor and be confident (although after a few months of doing this, I can dance while completely sober, it comes with practice.)
3. 1 drink won't negatively impact your d!ck so when you start grinding or MORE it won't be an embarrassment
4. 1 drink lowers your standards just enough that you won't care if the girl is just below your level, yet you are able to consciously avoid the grenades. Definitely makes it easier to grind or MORE.
5. People who are TOTALLY awake in a club give off aura of being lame, they seem too uptight to party and have fun.

Now all this has been put to practice in my life and it has switched around the investment one or the other person has to make while approaching! This has been incredibly beneficial to me because I am no longer the person approaching and investing in the girl. It is SHE who approaches me, starts dancing, usually grinding with me before we even talk! The grinding has often become so passionate that guys and girls on the dance floor will stare at me and whoever I am dancing with to figure out what I did to make her be so into me!

Remember, alcohol is a poison and if you take more than the minimum, you are hurting yourself and your chances for anything and everything! Girls do not want to talk to a guy who is completely drunk and out of it. As for us guys, we actually prefer our women to be drunk in a club so it makes easier for us! Haha

Also I don't talk with the girl UNTIL We have been dancing and grinding for quite some time. I have had some girls leave early because of it , but that works in my favor by telling me who wants my d!ck more

One more thing: never offer to buy drinks for the girl. Let her buy them for you

 

[zinc4]

Thank you for that, it's much easier on my eyes and my brain now haha.

I go out clubbing once every 1-3 weeks. When I go out, I don't drink more than ONE mixed drink (top shelf ofcourse!). Let me explain why:

1. 1 drink is JUST the right amount to get you buzzed and happy! Happy people attract all other people.
2. 1 drink is JUST the right amount to get me on the dance floor and be confident (although after a few months of doing this, I can dance while completely sober, it comes with practice.)
3. 1 drink won't negatively impact your d!ck so when you start grinding or MORE it won't be an embarrassment
4. 1 drink lowers your standards just enough that you won't care if the girl is just below your level, yet you are able to consciously avoid the grenades. Definitely makes it easier to grind or MORE.
5. People who are TOTALLY awake in a club give off aura of being lame, they seem too uptight to party and have fun.

Now all this has been put to practice in my life and it has switched around the investment one or the other person has to make while approaching! This has been incredibly beneficial to me because I am no longer the person approaching and investing in the girl. It is SHE who approaches me, starts dancing, usually grinding with me before we even talk! The grinding has often become so passionate that guys and girls on the dance floor will stare at me and whoever I am dancing with to figure out what I did to make her be so into me!

Remember, alcohol is a poison and if you take more than the minimum, you are hurting yourself and your chances for anything and everything! Girls do not want to talk to a guy who is completely drunk and out of it. As for us guys, we actually prefer our women to be drunk in a club so it makes easier for us! Haha

Also I don't talk with the girl UNTIL We have been dancing and grinding for quite some time. I have had some girls leave early because of it , but that works in my favor by telling me who wants my d!ck more

One more thing: never offer to buy drinks for the girl. Let her buy them for you

i get more buzzed from a good cup of coffee than one mixed drink.....give me at least 8 beers or so..

 

[SgtSplacker]

It's not about drinking, it's about the environment you are in. If you don't like drinking... well...then... don't drink! But do attend social gatherings where there is alcohol to pick up girls, it's a great setting.

I go out alot, in Miami there is no shortage of things to do. It's too much to keep up with, really. After the 4th night out in a row i'm just done drinking. And money is not an issue with all the free promotional alcohol flowing around here in the art walks and such, you just have to go to the right places.

I just order a drink that does not taste bad warm, like a light beer or a vodka tonic, something light. And just sip that drink for hours. I've even hit up a drinking fountain and filled it up with water just to have something that's not rancid to sip and i'm just fine with that.

Alcohol messes with my game so I use this strategy more often than I would like to admit. Being in a drunken haze gets boring after a while...