Do you tend to attract more attention when you are out with a blonde?

[HowardHughesDicaprio]

Most of the girls I have been in relationships with historically have been white and brunette but I have been with redheads and blondes too (mostly flings and dates though rarely long term). What I have seen is that whenever I am out with a brunette holding hands with her and showing intimacy, I don't get much attention at all. With redheads it is mostly the same thing too. Now the couple of times I have been out with a blonde that looked decent I realized that I was getting a lot more attention in public and a lot of times that attention wasn't necessarily positive either. I have often been in situations where people will actually comment saying things like they don't see blondes with arab men or how thrown off they are with me being with a blonde.

My cousin has been in a relationship with a woman of scandinavian heritage [blond and tall] for a while now and they live in florida, before her he was in a relationship with an italian girl. He tells me the difference between the two situations was sharp. With the italian girl no one cared if he was out with her or even commented on it though the italian girl was good looking. Then after he started dating the scandinavian girl he told me about how much more attention he received in the form that people would keep commenting on it or staring at them when they were out eating.

does anyone else have the similar experiences?

 

[In2theGame]

I have slightly similar experience but i think mostly because the blondes i have been out with had amazing bodies lol. My 2 serious LTR's have been brunette but in terms of casual dating... The blondes have seem to make me look "valuable" or whatever. Blondes are attracted to me for some reason, especially Italian feisty types. Im not White either. I have never dated a Latina. All women for me have been white brunette or Blonde.

Many men see blondes as the "gold" standard since they have always been viewed as the hot one in media, movies, Toys like Barbies etc...

 

[HowardHughesDicaprio]

I have slightly similar experience but i think mostly because the blondes i have been out with had amazing bodies lol. My 2 serious LTR's have been brunette but in terms of casual dating... The blondes have seem to make me look "valuable" or whatever. Blondes are attracted to me for some reason, especially Italian feisty types. Im not White either. I have never dated a Latina. All women for me have been white brunette or Blonde.

Many men see blondes as the "gold" standard since they have always been viewed as the hot one in media, movies, Toys like Barbies etc...

I am guessing you are a latino. I am north african [middle eastern by us standards though] and I have had a fling with an italian blonde before, she had that semi muscular body [not to the point it was disgusting] and the sex was the best I ever had.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Not in to blondes unless I have a fetish for them which usually last a month

 

[HowardHughesDicaprio]

Not in to blondes unless I have a fetish for them which usually last a month

thats what they all say, not what they all do though

 

[JoeMarron]

thats what they all say, not what they all do though

Translation: "Everyone worships blondes and you're lying if you say otherwise!" :crazy:

 

[SmooveMooves]

Translation: "Everyone worships blondes and you're lying if you say otherwise!" :crazy:

:yes:

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Never seen the fascination with blonde hair and blue eyes/green TBH. I like them Brunette stacked Brown eyes like Kimmy K.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Right now I am in a Chocolate bunny mood.

 

[HowardHughesDicaprio]

I go by what I see, blondes (hot ones) get more love than any other kind of women out there, every guy wants one. The guys that deny it want one desperately but know they can't get one. I have friends like this, the ones who will say they prefer brunettes but will fight through 20 Anne Hathaways to get to the 1 Heather Graham. Now I personally love blondes and ain't afraid to admit it. When I have been out with one I have received a lot of stares and questions.

Have had so many guys tell me **** like what's so special about a blonde get an exotic girl instead in an attempt to try and steal the blonde from me. Blonde women are the most desired women worldwide, you don't have life experience if you deny this.

 

[Vice]

I go by what I see, blondes (hot ones) get more love than any other kind of women out there, every guy wants one. The guys that deny it want one desperately but know they can't get one. I have friends like this, the ones who will say they prefer brunettes but will fight through 20 Anne Hathaways to get to the 1 Heather Graham. Now I personally love blondes and ain't afraid to admit it. When I have been out with one I have received a lot of stares and questions.

Have had so many guys tell me **** like what's so special about a blonde get an exotic girl instead in an attempt to try and steal the blonde from me. Blonde women are the most desired women worldwide, you don't have life experience if you deny this.

Disagree wholeheartedly.

Can't stand blondes. F*CK what the preference of other guys is; brunettes are my thing. Field tested and verified by user Poop1337 when we wing; he knows I'm always into the darker haired chick.

Men in the USA are socially conditioned to think blondes are high value. That explains the looks you get from other people. They figure you're a high value guy if you can get a blonde.

But the real "high value guy" doesn't give a f*ck what some commoner drone thinks of his girl. He goes after what his d*ck reacts the best to.

Stop going after girls so you get "props" from the average loser guy when you're out in public. My own personal "thing" is brunettes and girls with fake ass red hair. Unless you're into living your life and stylizing your personal preferences for other people.

Hell I'm intimidated by cute brunettes in the same manner most chumps are to blondes. And yes, I've f*cked blondes. My disapproval for them draws them to me, and hey, if there's a willing girl and she's cute enough...

 

[HowardHughesDicaprio]

I was exaggerating a bit when I said "every guy" but the vast majority of guys I know would fight through 20 attractive brunettes to get to the one blonde. Used to think it was a minority thing (wanting something different) but even most white guys with darker features are bananas over blonde women. Most guys prefer blondes but a good number feel they cannot get a hot one so they try to convince themselves that they like brunettes more. I am convinced after what I have experienced that the number of guys who actually prefer brunettes over blondes is very low, these guys are more exceptions to the rule.

When I go for a woman, I go for one that turns me on. White women in general turn me on but my taste in them varies, when I have been with too many brunettes I go for blondes and redheads and the other way around too. I don't think for me it is a "high value" thing, its more of a hatred and racism thing in my case where you have guys assuming how a girl of such high status (a hot blonde) could get with a guy that looks so foreign (dark hair, dark eyes, darker skin). It might be more of an American attitude to show animosity towards a man with a darker complexion who is dating an attractive woman that happens to be a blonde because I never experience anything of the sort when I am with a brunette. Know of two Turkish guys that now live in Europe and are in LTRs with northern european looking women [blondes] and they claim no one there really cares.

 

[Vice]

I was exaggerating a bit when I said "every guy" but the vast majority of guys I know would fight through 20 attractive brunettes to get to the one blonde. Used to think it was a minority thing (wanting something different) but even most white guys with darker features are bananas over blonde women. Most guys prefer blondes but a good number feel they cannot get a hot one so they try to convince themselves that they like brunettes more. I am convinced after what I have experienced that the number of guys who actually prefer brunettes over blondes is very low, these guys are more exceptions to the rule.

When I go for a woman, I go for one that turns me on. White women in general turn me on but my taste in them varies, when I have been with too many brunettes I go for blondes and redheads and the other way around too. I don't think for me it is a "high value" thing, its more of a hatred and racism thing in my case where you have guys assuming how a girl of such high status (a hot blonde) could get with a guy that looks so foreign (dark hair, dark eyes, darker skin). It might be more of an American attitude to show animosity towards a man with a darker complexion who is dating an attractive woman that happens to be a blonde because I never experience anything of the sort when I am with a brunette. Know of two Turkish guys that now live in Europe and are in LTRs with northern european looking women [blondes] and they claim no one there really cares.

I'm also Russian/Ukrainian so blondes are a dime a dozen in my social circle. The tall, blonde Russian bombshells most guys drool over annoy me the most, I have ZERO approach anxiety towards them because I feel that they're fake and not interesting. I usually talk massive sh*t to them, ESPECIALLY if they're Russian.

 

[zekko]

Actually, there are numerous studies that show that men prefer brunettes. There's nothing like a dark, sultry, hot girl with dark hair.

Most blondes lighten their hair though, which makes them more visible, so maybe they might get you more attention, if that's what you're after.

 

[HowardHughesDicaprio]

These "studies" are actually polls and surveys, it is like me asking women what kind of men they prefer and women most saying they want the nice and caring guy over the douchebag that treats them like **** which most of us know isn't true. Same with blondes. I know there is a reason that most women who work in industries such as porn, modeling, acting, and as escorts dye their hair blonde because guys prefer that over dark hair.

Most blondes here in the states aren't natural but are perceived as more attractive on average because girls trying to be attractive are doing other things on top of coloring their hair blonde to max out their looks. Whats sad is that it works and they do get more attention. Overtime more women start following that trend and what's sad is that I even see latinas doing it and it looks disgusting on them.

I don't have much of a preference for hair color as I prefer white girls in general but for some reason I can't seem to understand why so many people in America get angry when a guy from a minority group dates a blonde but could care less if he is with a brunette. Reminds me of the Terrell Owens incident on Monday Night Football involving the blonde chick and how the sports media was all up in arms over it.

 

[Masculinity]

Actually, there are numerous studies that show that men prefer brunettes. There's nothing like a dark, sultry, hot girl with dark hair.

Most blondes lighten their hair though, which makes them more visible, so maybe they might get you more attention, if that's what you're after.

Would love to read the research article. Can you send it to me in a pm? If not, I can give you my email address.

 

[Masculinity]

Actually, there are numerous studies that show that men prefer brunettes. There's nothing like a dark, sultry, hot girl with dark hair.

Most blondes lighten their hair though, which makes them more visible, so maybe they might get you more attention, if that's what you're after.

Would love to read the research article. Can you send it to me in a pm? If not, I can give you my email address.

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I have experienced the attention phenomenon with both brunettes and blondes. People just stare when they see a good-looking White woman with a Latino.
I am neither ugly nor a model. It makes you wonder what is going through their heads when they stare--probably some stigma or prejudice.

As for blondes, I was at a night club two weeks ago. I went in to dance with a Black girl and she was not very excited. She danced with me nonetheless, but I ejected after a few seconds later. I danced with a few other girls and then this stunning blonde comes up and asks if she can take a picture with me. Needless to say, I pulled her my way and started dancing reggae. She turned out to be Dutch. All the women who refused to dance with me that night or that I ditched were looking at me with a looking screaming "I made a mistake with this guy "

It was a beautiful boost in self-esteem, even though I didn't take her home with me.

 

[zekko]

Would love to read the research article. Can you send it to me in a pm? If not, I can give you my email address.

Like I said, there are numerous studes that show men prefer brunettes to blondes. If you just Google "men prefer brunettes", you'll find more than you could ever want. I'll list a few here though, to get you started. This first one is interesting because of some of the comparative pictures.

My girlfriend and I were watching "Walk the Line" last week, and we both commented on how we thought Reese Witherspoon looks better as a brunette than as a blonde.

Some guys say that men only prefer brunettes for wives, not for short term mating, but I think the preference is pretty much across the board. The last link says that men think brunettes are better in bed. The first link notes that men think brunettes are sexier.


http://www.pajiba.com/seriously_random_lists/science-dont-lie-dudes-dig-brunettes-over-blondes.php

http://www.stylelist.com/read/blondes-vs-brunettes-what-your-hair-color-says-about-you/

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2029680/What-men-REALLY-want-brown-haired-blue-eyed-size-14-woman.html

http://blogs.villagevoice.com/runninscared/2011/08/men_prefer_brun.php

http://www.yourtango.com/201193212/study-gentlemen-prefer-brunettes

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2378835/Blondes-fun-brunettes-men-say-make-better-lovers.html

 

[HowardHughesDicaprio]

People just stare when they see a good-looking White woman with a Latino.

Ya I have never been to LA, how rare is that there? In Florida it is pretty rare because the White population there is racist towards latinos and anyone that looks foreign. The White girls in Florida throw themselves at black guys but will not touch most latinos (unless they are white latinos) or foreign looking men. By far the worst state to be in if you are an exotic looking guy.