do you kiss/hug on a first date?

tony-montana

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got a date tomorrow... do you kiss their cheek on a first date or hug or just say hello and sit down and talk?
 

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I go for the hug hello. Kiss on the cheek is not my style, and is generally reserved for family and close friends.

ACCEPT NO IMMITATIONS either. haha.
 
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Just go for what feels natural there and then. Your behavior should mostly or only just have guidelines, never strict rules. Being a robot is boring. What feels natural is almost always what is right. Trust your instinct. It's a reason we have it.

A kiss can come natural after meeting a person in a few seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks, months.
 
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Allurre

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Leave the hugging alone and kissing alone.

1st Dates = Get to know her. Stay mysterious, but leave the window to you slightly open. Let her talk. Don't RUSH.

2nd Date = Proceed to more intimate bases. Kiss.

Now, that's just how I roll. If you prefer to let your instinct guide you, then go ahead, if the vibe is right, go for lip lock.
 

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if you dont at least kiss on the lips on the first meeting she is not into you... hugs mean nothing but a tight hug and kiss is great.. if she gives you a light lame hug and pats your back you are done..
 
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