TAKE ACTION! THERE IS NO TIME TO WASTE!!
Originally posted by david90
Today I was pumped to do some approaches because I chickened out so bad yesterday. Guess what? Today I chickened out again and now i'm pumped again whle on sosuave and saying to myself that tomorrow is another day. I've been in this loop for months now. I just don't learn.
The thing that you are lacking is
confidence and in order to get to the point that approaching girls is as easy as going up to your best buddy and starting up a convo, is
practice.
So what you need to do is just go up to the girl with the mind-set that u are GOING to mess up and get rejected, and the 1st few times u are very likely too because u will be nervous and you wont know exactly what to do/say etc... But u HAVE to start somewhere!
Now if you are really as shy/nervous or wateva as u SAY u are, then maybe a little alchohol confidence boost is in need here... So if you feel that you are not ging to be able to approach when u are 100% sober, then have a drink or 2 before you go on your "mision"... and then when u are ok with doing it several times when u are "out of it/a little drunk", then u can try doing it when u are 100% sober.
You need to pull yourself togeather and go out there and do what u need to do, and APPROACH the b!tches!
You arent going to live forever, and soon u WILL be old and ugly, and soon you wont even have the CHOICE to approach young attractive girls anymore, you dont have any time to waste, u have already wasted a few months of your life, dont add to it!
Think about it this way... If you get rejected or wateva, you prob wont ever see that girl again, and plus... 1 day when u are dead, you think u will care if u got rejected 1 time in your life while u were alive, or 100 times? NO! Its YOUR life, now get out there and make the most of it! U get rejected, WHO CARES, move along, there are millions of girls out there up for grabs, and the ones that arent interested, well, ITS THEIR LOSS!!
Now would you please get dressed, go get yourself a drink or 2, phone some buddies up, and GET OUT THERE and prove to yourself AND to the world that you CAN do it, its YOUr life, and if you out your mind to doing something, u CAN do it!
You will HAVE to start sometime, unless you're planning on NEVER approaching?
So stop delaying the enevitable and GET OUT THERE!
Laterz....