Do you guys treat girls good??

[wudiez]

Do any of you guys treat girls good?? You DJ out there.. do you treat them nicely? Buy them stuff etc? Pay for meals?

Or are you so involved in the game.. which means.. C&F saying things.. like if your nice "You can pay for the meal" etc.

Just wanted to say.. I known some kick ass guys.. Who've been trying to play the game along time.

THey've had alot of hot and good looking woman, after them. But sooner or later, after they play the game.. The woman get turned off?? Its either, they dont treat the woman good... they make her pay for things? They dont show affection? They make their move to slow etc.

But arent these the things that DJ do??? Never give in to a woman.. keep your power.. etc..

But woman say the absolute opposite, they say that if the guy had treated us good, or wasn't stingy and showed affection.. It would be a different story..??

Do any of you master DJ's have anything to say about this....

 

[Dee-Zy]

Being a DJ has NOTHING to do with 'the game'.

There's a difference between being too nice to a girl and being a jerk.

The difference relies in self-respect. You can be nice and still respect yourself. That's a DJ.

It has nothing to do with the girl, it's about you. Therefore if you don't feel like saying a compliment to a girl who is seekign for one (i.e. does this makes my ass looks fat?) The DJ would answer with a ****y statement, the jerk would say yes.

That's the difference.

 

[Dirtheart]

A girl with any dignity is not going to put up with a guy treating her badly. Only the insecure girls put up with that, just as insecure guys (aka AFCs) put up with this treatment from b1tches.

 

[wudiez]

so then how do you go about? Treating a girl good.. but at the same time.. not taking her ****??

Is it okay for a guy.. to put alot of effort into a girl?? Call her, get to know her.. Be there fore her.. ask her how she is, ask her out.. drive her around??

Being happy with her, being there and being supportive, sharing things with her, going out togheter...

IS that treating a girl good?? How can you do that.. without letting her walk all over you??

and letting her be a *****.. ?? Guy are supposed to make an effort and do all these things? and risk rejection?

 

[Dee-Zy]

exactly ^^^

 

[wudiez]

so then how do you go about? Treating a girl good.. but at the same time.. not taking her ****??

Is it okay for a guy.. to put alot of effort into a girl?? Call her, get to know her.. Be there fore her.. ask her how she is, ask her out.. drive her around??

Being happy with her, being there and being supportive, sharing things with her, going out togheter...

IS that treating a girl good?? How can you do that.. without letting her walk all over you??

and letting her be a *****.. ?? Guy are supposed to make an effort and do all these things? and risk rejection?

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Assertiveness. Be willing to walk away. Make sure she knows that. If she starts getting b*tchy, you call her on her behaviour.

 

[diplomatic_lies]

I am initially nice to everyone.

But when they fail to return the favours, I cut the lifeline and let them drown.

Help people who help you, and at the end of the way everyone is happy.

 

[wudiez]

please elaborate on assertiveness...

But guys have to make an effort into girls right??Treat them nicely... and good.. but just dont play into their *****y behaviour... if it were that simple?? THen getting a girl... and flushing out the wrong ones would be so easy...

I think most people make it complicated for themselves...

What i noticed is, when you have the game in your mind.. then girls will more than often play the game back to you.. like test you etc...

And if you dont.. and just generally treat them good.. and dont play into their *****iness.. then things will go nicely..

anyone have more insighnt?

 

[Dee-Zy]

How hard is it? You do something because YOU want to, not because it's for a girl or because she's hot or because you think if you do it she will like you or simply because SHE wants you to do it.

That's being nice without taking any crap.

Just don't go out of your way for any girls.

 

[Dee-Zy]

Originally posted by wudiez
so then how do you go about? Treating a girl good.. but at the same time.. not taking her ****??

Is it okay for a guy.. to put alot of effort into a girl?? Call her, get to know her.. Be there fore her.. ask her how she is, ask her out.. drive her around??

Being happy with her, being there and being supportive, sharing things with her, going out togheter...

IS that treating a girl good?? How can you do that.. without letting her walk all over you??

and letting her be a *****.. ?? Guy are supposed to make an effort and do all these things? and risk rejection?

That has nothing to do with being nice.



read this, it's gonna answer all your questions.


http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16851

 

[wudiez]

but with that attitude?? Can you still treat her good... I know this might annoy some people, that get this naturally.. but i take along time to really understand some things.. so any insight would be nice..

 

[WaterTiger]

Of corse you can! You can be polite, kind, honest and good to her! To anyone. The thing you have to remember is that your kind behavior is a gift. If the gift is treated with disrespect or taken for granted, then you don't give it anymore.

Being good to some one DOES NOT mean that you sacrifice your self respect!

 

[Alen-Delon]

i think most people have confused interpretation of DJ. what is DJ lets define from everyones point of view and we will get big nothing. i bet very few maybe none had read Don Juan De Marco the book, tha way donjuan is suppose to be is respective to women, a Gentlemen, and all the other stuff that makes you a man, not putting on some lil boysh games and doing thing that others tell you to do, follow your heart another words, its good ofcourse to take more experianced peoples advice, but dont make it your priority to seek advice on everything. the most important thing is not to Overdo aka (overdose) on anything in this case dont be to nice or to open dont buy her things all the time and invite her for drink or whatever do it more then her but let her do it too and lots of other things i can mention but you get the point, so whatever you do dont overdoo it and you should be fine i think. dont let anybody tell you that beeing nice to someone especialy women makes you an AFC or whatever. be nice kind giving but to the certain point.

Peace

 

[Alen-Delon]

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[00Kevin]

You only treat a girl good if YOU FEEL LIKE IT!

The less I do for girls the more they all want me.

I'm more busy than ever now with my own projects and work. I have next to no time for girls.

Strange thing is I'm finding that I'm constantly bothered by girls calling me now. They want me to take them out to the movies it is so funny. ( they even give BJ's in my car)

None of this sh-t would ever be happened if I was the one going after these girls and being nice to them.

As a man I have realized that it isn't my job to go after women or worry about them. As a man I focus on my goals and my life. If a girl wants to be part of it she will do whatever it takes to get me. As a man I'm the one who leads and the women follow. that is the natural order of things.

I do however think that there is nothing wrong with treating girls nicely, but only to those that show high interest. The more interest she shows the more she gets.

 

[MichaelangelloB]

Nothin wrong with treating a woman good. Paying for meals and such in the begining is good cuz it shows her you're a gentleman, plus women love chivelry, especially nowadays. But you can't give them too much up front, 1) cuz you shouldn't invest too much dough in anything you're not sure about, and 2) if you spoil them early they'll expect it through the deration.

Treat women like milk: either use em up quick, or do nothin but spoil em.

But I'm Italian so that's how I was raised.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Do any of you guys treat girls good?? You DJ out there.. do you treat them nicely? Buy them stuff etc? Pay for meals?

bwahahahahaha...uhhh not usually!!! And buy them things almost never. Treat them nice yes...I'm a regular prince charming until the say or do the wrong thing...then I become the prince of darkness on they ass.

I counted the number of times I got called an ass----hole yesterday....4 times and a "your such a dyck" 3 times...but it was only a holiday and I spent it with just one person.

what did the 5 fingers say to the face.....SMACK***I'm Rick James Bytch!!!

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Do any of you guys treat girls good?? You DJ out there.. do you treat them nicely? Buy them stuff etc? Pay for meals?

bwahahahahaha...uhhh not usually!!! And buy them things almost never. Treat them nice yes...I'm a regular prince charming until the say or do the wrong thing...then I become the prince of darkness on they ass.

I counted the number of times I got called an ass----hole yesterday....4 times and a "your such a dyck" 3 times...but it was only a holiday and I spent it with just one person.

what did the 5 fingers say to the face.....SMACK***I'm Rick James Bytch!!!

that is so true. and I'll bet for everytime they call you an ******* they suck your d**k twice

 

[MetalFortress]

Originally posted by wudiez
so then how do you go about? Treating a girl good.. but at the same time.. not taking her ****??

Is it okay for a guy.. to put alot of effort into a girl?? Call her, get to know her.. Be there fore her.. ask her how she is, ask her out.. drive her around??

Being happy with her, being there and being supportive, sharing things with her, going out togheter...

IS that treating a girl good?? How can you do that.. without letting her walk all over you??

and letting her be a *****.. ?? Guy are supposed to make an effort and do all these things? and risk rejection?

if you wanna be nice to her, then the way not to let her walk all over you is NOT TO TAKE CRAP FROM HER. I think it's rather simple