do you guys apply wat you learn?

[Raikojo17]

This site has been a good motivation to get off my ass and out into the world. this site is useful. it's a great motivator and has some good advice.

but im willing to bet most of the guys here never apply wat they learn. most guys come on here and post and post and post about how they are so alpha and how they get all the girls. and how desirable they are to ladies. most of this is just BS.

most of the keyboard jockies on here makes up all the BS theories and claim that it is great advice, but they never use it. they never even leave there house. it seems that when i stopped readying so much into this site and trying to follow ever theory to become this "DJ", that i got more girls. i even got a gf when i just did my on thing instead of doing what this site has told me to do.

i stopped listening to keyboard jockies and nerds. and started taking life into my own hands instead of letting this "DJ" run my life. and i think the guys on here who never leave there house should do the same.

 

[Wizdm2th]

Advise

There is so much info to take in on these sites. I am kind of hooked. I try to remember as much as I can, but it's hard. At 48 years old, and a year and a half after divorce. I feel I need to know what is going on out there. And what does it take to have a decent "love life". I feel there is alot of good advise out there, you just have to take or leave things you feel will work for you or not. I'm definately not one of the "experts" you refer to, I am a student. I read and re-read some of the key articles I feel will help most. I also enjoy passing on some of the things I read to others who may need help. But the basic things I try to remember when I am out are: Smile, eye contact, and appear happy and positive. (confident).
I even came up with what I feel may be my own advise: Scout the other team. Look up womens sites and read what they are being told to do. It leaves you feeling that they are in the same boat trying to get us. Their fears, weaknessess, problems, etc. It doesn't make them so intimidating.
It just makes sense doesn't it?


Wiz

 

[Poonani Maker]

I do apply it, but not All of it, because I think that the advice is regional and circumstantial to the writer of it, in that the women in his area might behave that way, but in my area, it's a whole different ballgame. LA would be different from Denver, Denver different from the deep south, deep south from NY, NY from Europe, Europe from England, and so on. I would like to move to San Diego because the stuff I've read the most comes from guys who live on the California coast, but I don't see that happening soon because no jobs are available in my line of work there yet, and because I'm working here and there are excellently comparable women to the Cali girls and kind of the same mindset in some of them (rich daddies) so I'm staying her for now and applying what I've read from California people to the girls where I'm at.

Online, I have an asian gal 12 years younger than me that I'm applying all of this push/pull stuff too and she's falling hook, line and sinker with everything I say (trying to validate herself to me. For instance, I'll drop a short sentence out of the blue in the middle of a paragraph or story I'm writting such as "You're a little crazy, xxxxx" and now she's forgone all the other stuff I was talking about and focused on that crazy line I dropped (she is crazy btw)). I think she thinks I would take her to Paris to see her best friend who's married (heh, fat chance, I'll never Do that, but make her think I will for the moment).

Anyhow, now that she asks me "what do you mean I'm a little crazy?" I'm gonna reward her for trying to seek my validation. Then I'll drop another line later on and start the whole loop again and again and again (and we haven't even met in person yet).

I already have prizability based on looks alone too, so, not sure if this would work without it, online.

 

[PrinceBeavis]

I'm just starting, but I've applied, and am, and will.