Do you feel anger?

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When rejected , flaked on , or dumped ?

How do you deal with that anger?

Do you let it out and tell the cvnt she's an evil cvnt and call her out and crap on her or do you let it slide?

My first reaction would be to lose control and empty it out all the bitvch but then second thoughts what would that achieve ?
 

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You do realise that sh1t tests were designed to see what your reaction will be, don't you?

A man keeps his emotions in check. A woman is the one who cannot control her emotions.
 

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sylvester the cat said:
You do realise that sh1t tests were designed to see what your reaction will be, don't you?

A man keeps his emotions in check. A woman is the one who cannot control her emotions.
True but inside you want to fuk that person up who betrayed you or who wronged you... How do you resolve that conflict within you ?
 

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mikey2012 said:
True but inside you want to fuk that person up who betrayed you or who wronged you... How do you resolve that conflict within you ?
Well no. If you have internalized game then you don't want to fuk anyone up because you know that it is just a test (conscious or unconscious).

If I value myself I know that it is their loss not mine. With this in mind what is there to get angry about?

ARistotle wrote a useful section on anger in his Rhetoric. Check it out.
 

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mikey2012 said:
True but inside you want to fuk that person up who betrayed you or who wronged you... How do you resolve that conflict within you ?
Always use sleights (perceived or real) to your advantage if you are incapable (yet) of weathering them like a rainex-coated windshield. The story of your life does not deserve chapter after chapter devoted to your resentment ...unless something strange and interesting blossoms from it..
 

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Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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sylvester the cat said:
Well no. If you have internalized game then you don't want to fuk anyone up because you know that it is just a test (conscious or unconscious).

If I value myself I know that it is their loss not mine. With this in mind what is there to get angry about?

ARistotle wrote a useful section on anger in his Rhetoric. Check it out.
Yes I suppose you are correct.
 

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OP, the day you truly realize that women are unreliable creatures who should always be taken with a grain of salt no matter if the context is dating, business, friendship, family, or anything else, you will find a HUGE sense of peace. It took me until age 37 to get this, the day I had no place to stay because my ex had an order of protection on me, and my sister literally threw me to the curb and sent me packing. My sister, my own flesh and blood? How could she? BECAUSE SHE IS FEMALE AND HAD HER OWN MOTIVES FOR KICKING ME OUT THAT TRUMPED HER FLESH AND BLOOD BROTHER'S BEST INTERESTS, that's why. After this, I truly got it! Women are women are women. When they betray you in any context/capacity don't get mad, just laugh and be grateful you are the better species of human, brush them off, and move on.
 

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mikey2012 said:
When rejected , flaked on , or dumped ?

How do you deal with that anger?

Do you let it out and tell the cvnt she's an evil cvnt and call her out and crap on her or do you let it slide?

My first reaction would be to lose control and empty it out all the bitvch but then second thoughts what would that achieve ?
Rejection doesnt make me angry, its disrespect done willingly which p1sses me off.

I agree with the guys here that once you accept that women have no moral code and are unreliable you take for granted certain fact and find peace of mind however its still a pian in the ass sometime, let me be clear.

1) you approach girl, she reject you...fine to me no problem

2)you approach girl, everything works and she accept a date then she flakes, well yeah that p1sses me off, thats why I dont "date" in the convetional sense, I just text girls when Im at the city center and ask them if they want to join.

Or girl show you interest and keep you around at the club then when the club close she says good bye, ofc course it bothers me since she made me waste my time that I could have used on a more interested girl.

But again, the only solution is calibrate your game and making sure they have no chance to harm you, so no dates and no paying attention to a girl that doesnt let you escalate.

Rejection is an other thing, she doesnt decide if she likes you or not and they have all the rights to say no, what they dont have the right to is use other people as objects willingly.
 

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I normally use my anger to move on, I don't show it, I can keep my cool and a nice stance with myself, but I will still feel anger and I use it to my gain, not her, I will stay quiet and be busy.
 

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logicallefty said:
OP, the day you truly realize that women are unreliable creatures who should always be taken with a grain of salt no matter if the context is dating, business, friendship, family, or anything else, you will find a HUGE sense of peace. It took me until age 37 to get this, the day I had no place to stay because my ex had an order of protection on me, and my sister literally threw me to the curb and sent me packing. My sister, my own flesh and blood? How could she? BECAUSE SHE IS FEMALE AND HAD HER OWN MOTIVES FOR KICKING ME OUT THAT TRUMPED HER FLESH AND BLOOD BROTHER'S BEST INTERESTS, that's why. After this, I truly got it! Women are women are women. When they betray you in any context/capacity don't get mad, just laugh and be grateful you are the better species of human, brush them off, and move on.
Yes thinking about even my own sister wouldn't even help go to look at a an apartment rental when I was due to move to NY. This is after I loaned her some money for deposit to buy her own place.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Alvafe said:
I normally use my anger to move on, I don't show it, I can keep my cool and a nice stance with myself, but I will still feel anger and I use it to my gain, not her, I will stay quiet and be busy.

Is it alpha to show it or beta not to show it?
 

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You should care enough to get mad, but the best way to handle it is always, no matter what she does, to just say: "Ok."

Then you walk away until she comes after you. If she doesn't, well...

If you throw a temper tantrum she will:

A) Be secretly delighted.
B) Make fun of you to her friends (and your text may go viral).
C) Lose all attraction to you, possibly forever.

Remember: always act the way you would if you had 3 supermodels begging you for a date, and eventually you really will.
 

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bigneil said:
You should care enough to get mad, but the best way to handle it is always, no matter what she does, to just say: "Ok."

Then you walk away until she comes after you. If she doesn't, well...

If you throw a temper tantrum she will:

A) Be secretly delighted.
B) Make fun of you to her friends (and your text may go viral).
C) Lose all attraction to you, possibly forever.

Remember: always act the way you would if you had 3 supermodels begging you for a date, and eventually you really will.
Men should not even entertain women who don't share their values in the first place. Too much molding and adapting to b1tches. Holding our tongues, playing games, pretending, etc. Its stupid.

If a woman makes your blood boil enough that you want to yell at her.. then maybe she is a malignant c*nt you are better off avoiding.
 

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No sir I do not. I get mad when they try to screw me over (which is hard for them to do I'm so paranoid) or when they think they are better or SMARTER than me. Like if they try and get away with something. Not gonna happen b!tch. But if they just reject me or dumb me I don't care. I only get an epiphany and get stronger mentally and smarter too. Then they come crying back because during the epiphany once I become SUPER confident in EVERYTHING that I do. But if she flakes it kinda bothers me a bit because let's be real here, I took out part of my time to see you and now it is just wasted. Like that's not cool. That's not even socially accepted by society man. Then when they say sorry, you go ghost. Not NC, ghost. The only time I would talk to them is if they made an effort to come up to me in person. I wouldn't be a ****, but wouldn't a pushover either. I would call them out on it though. Let the b!tch know that she dun fvcked up.

Well that was longer than I expected lol.
 

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bigneil said:
You should care enough to get mad, but the best way to handle it is always, no matter what she does, to just say: "Ok."

Then you walk away until she comes after you. If she doesn't, well...

If you throw a temper tantrum she will:

A) Be secretly delighted.
B) Make fun of you to her friends (and your text may go viral).
C) Lose all attraction to you, possibly forever.

Remember: always act the way you would if you had 3 supermodels begging you for a date, and eventually you really will.
+1 rep
 

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For a second, I thought you are talking about me.

For me, I usually think about the consequence. For example, do you seriously wanna a restraining order?

Then, it's all solved.
 

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Cool your jets and say nothing. Give them zero satisfaction.
 

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VladPatton said:
Cool your jets and say nothing. Give them zero satisfaction.
Yes , going postal on them just gives them satisfaction .
 

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you just have to bottle it all up and keep it inside like always
 
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