Do you enjoy post gaining games?

[ethnomethodologist]

I love PLAYING the games, but the outcome is not in my best interest... I would prefer a low post count for some reason, it's so AWish to play the game for a certain number of posts(ie I want to be a SENIOR don juan, what do I do?) or for recognition(thats you misses 7000 posts, shh, no names)

I think we should have a new forum, one that does not contribue to number of posts... It could be called the DJ playground...

Flaming, troll baiting, word games, name games, just things out of the ordinary... I want this to be discussed INTELLIGENTLY, no negative remarks are allowed in this discussion... Only criticism, "what happens on the playground, stays on the playground", so that means no off handed remarks about what you feel about any specific member.

Mod's could you keep an eye on this post, for anything that is slanderous, adhere to the guidlines to this topic, please?

I am adamant about this topic. I believe many great ideas can be thrown around, somewhat of an informal brainstorming cesspool.

 

[tactic]

no its ok

 

[dirtyvibe]

i like the idea but the serveres are down enough as it is due to traffic and idiots posting stuff about the value of nothing would just make it worse

 

[ethnomethodologist]

tactic you sure are full of ideas, are you always boring?
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thanks for the input dirty vibe, I agree there would a be a lot of nothing, I volunteer myself as a mod for brainstorming purposes, and I would be very strict as to what is useful and what is trash... different set of thought streams being discussed is great, but drivel that nobody wants to hear, shouldn't be heard.

Of course the server is down, there is probably an overflow problem somewhere in the system, I believe at the old cfbb forum I used to regular there was a problem that arose from repeated commands and simultaneous functions. Other times it was streaight up defragmentation times that got people screwed, so it may be that the maintenance schedule is set-up for continuous work to eliminate the site being shut down at 2 in the morning for an hour.
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My idea about having a brainstorm area is for people to actually contribute small ideas to a larger database. Yes there are already hundreds of mainstream ideas, sidestream and back street ideas being discussed on this site... but they are very long winded, and searching for an atypical subject can be extremely irritating. Why are websites created that cater to different needs, why not just have one HUGE website? I hope your catching my drift, it's somewhat mind boggled, but I am working out the kinks with this topic.

I would like to see mind games in the DJ sense put into use on this board, there are already sites that have countless topics on boundless subjects, merged threads are great, but there is not enough time in the day to nit pick over peoples long winded discussions to find the KEY POINTS... DJ bible, cliffs notes, weapons of mass seduction, all great, but the additions to the thoughts are not relevant.

If somebody would take the time to compile the fast and hard hitting posts all into ONE thread, that would be great. If somebody else could merge jokes from the countless C+F threads, that would be awesome...

I want a cheat sheet forum, something that you can go to to get quick and to the point information, not a discussion, or a critique of a tip... but concrete ideas that have been discussed and decided upon.

 

[Desdinova]

If somebody would take the time to compile the fast and hard hitting posts all into ONE thread, that would be great.

Already done. Check the DJ bible link.

 

[Docs]

o0, Desdinova! How could you.

If somebody would take the time to compile the fast and hard hitting posts all into ONE thread, that would be great. If somebody else could merge jokes from the countless C+F threads, that would be awesome...

The Don Juan Gold Tip Album

It's only stickied you know!

 

[ethnomethodologist]

This is to both you Docs and Desdinova...

Have you read those topics? yeah? Well some of them have horrible writing styles, there are great responses in some of the threads... and my time is precious, I can't go back over every DJ Bible thread, and listen to every gold tip, would take me forever to find a new style to test for the night... If I could grab hold of three threads... say C+F examples, Dark stylee, and hoding opinions in mind, discuss thje Amoral wasteland for a single hour I would be happy... The DJ bible holds next to nothing compared to the entire site. It is a great introduction to the game though, why would people continue to come back with new ideas if they could just go RTDJB and be done with it all?

So... I said make a single thread, and use single posts, not entire discussions. tips is just links to discussion in a thread, bible is some threads, some discussions, some downloads, and some compilations... great but not what I am trying to get at

There are great discussion on some pages, say "how can I have the desire to socialize" in that post there is a great discussion, but when is somebody going to find the time to hunt down that thread and go over their horrible dictation? I can decipher it, but of course that took time to program into my mind... some people need some help, and obviously they are so AFC that they haven't even lifted their minds out of the gutter far enough to read 10000 words in a whole week.

Take MightyMate for example, he has argued for quick examples for a long time... with his horrible english skills, I'm sure going over poorly written examples and trying to translate into his home language is debilitating, and thus useless to him. There are posts in the DJB that should be burned, they are horrible, they are just the same thing with maybe two sentences that had any impact at all!

There was a thread that I probably never recorded the name, it had quotes of the best words written on this site in a quick format, they were very true, and very moving, I read them all and took them to heart... I can't find that post now.

 

[Desdinova]

Have you read those topics? yeah? Well some of them have horrible writing styles, there are great responses in some of the threads... and my time is precious, I can't go back over every DJ Bible thread, and listen to every gold tip, would take me forever to find a new style to test for the night

First, unless you plan on dying in the next few weeks, what's the reason for rushing?

Second, take baby steps when trying to up your game. You're not going to get it all in one shot.

Third, try and develop your own style. Take what you've learned, try as much as you can, and keep the good stuff. Some techniques work better for some people than others.

Example: I personally like striking when the iron's hot. I won't wait three days to call a new girl. I'll call the next day. I find my success rate much higher. Others find that waiting three days is pure gold and have better success rates with that.

Some prefer using others' openers, some prepare their own, some come up with openers on the spot. Whatever works best for you, use it.

There is no quick fix to getting good with women. But the more you work at it, the better you get.

 

[ethnomethodologist]

Desdinova I'm sorry sir, but this site has moved beyond picking up women. It's turned into a social realtionship free for all discussion... there is tons of knowledge on this site, but nobody can discuss the finer details with any real strength or passion.

The name of this topic is stoopid, and so is the idea of it being related to a playground... I had a paradigm shift in my mind, and as always I couldn't articualte myself properly... I'm sure everybody on this site has experienced the same thing.

First, unless you plan on dying in the next few weeks, what's the reason for rushing?
I hate how slow everybody wants you to go, I'm not ****ing Atlas, I don't want to walk around carry the sky on my shoulders, it's only holding me down. I have been craving for an information rush for ages, a good kick in the brain. Nobody on this site has really given anything to me that is truly unique and valuable for a long time, sorry guys, but how the ****l would you feel if your best friend one day suddenly started preaching about anything to you and not really paying attention to anything you said... right, you wouldn't be friends anymore. So I want somebody to give me some brutal truth, I want truly open discussion, and I want somebody who will shove the ****ing information down my throat. It can happen to all of us, I talked a sober person into sticking their fingers down their throat because they were being stupid, and they should puke out whats in their stomach and live their life... today I saw him and he couldn't stop thanking me.

Second, take baby steps when trying to up your game. You're not going to get it all in one shot
I got game man, no doubt. I'm just getting sick of it always being the same... I want a different kind of shot before I start to take drastic measures... I don't want to exercise my beliefs without the help of the people on this site... anonymous intellignece, I know you guys believe in the better things in life, and that as an AFC women and other AFC men weren't telling you everything you wanted to know... people kill themselves and others for just the reason... I am sick of it, I am not afraid to bring the situation up in front of anybody... of course I am getting angry when I speak of it, so I choose wisely who should hear it... but to tell you the truth I'd rather blow up in peoples faces if I was given the opportunity to save a life, I'd jump in front of a bullet for all of my friends, they all deserve it, but not many AFC's are strong enough... so taking baby steps is just another lesson that is shoved down peoples throats in the form of good manners, and people are literally getting so angry about it it leads to their deaths.

Third, try and develop your own style. Take what you've learned, try as much as you can, and keep the good stuff. Some techniques work better for some people than others.
Thank you so much for the top up dude, I needed some more fuel to be my own man. I take what I learn into my mind, but as always, playing it safe is where I am starting to falter, I have been slapped in the face for the simple things I've said. I've been brutally honest with people to the point of having ten people on my back laughing at the truth that was coming out of my mouth, watching peoples jaws drop from the knowledge on this site is amazing. Of course some techniques work better for others, so why not open up an easier discussion? myspace, blogs, forums... are some of the slowest ****ing forms of discussion. Thank god they retian their knowledge though. Seminars, group meetings, chat groups are much faster, but there is not much down time for you to absorb what you have learned. I really think I'm going crazy with what I have learned, people get scared at the things I say, but I feel sorry for them not knowing, so I trey to give them more until it hurts. I cry sometimes knowing some of the things I know, I've had a gun in my mouth while I was drunk, I've goaded girls BF's to threaten grand physical pain for what I've said about his GF one moment, and the next she's crying after being dumped and we're laughing in the living room. I live a good life, but I can't accept it, I know there are others who feel pain and don't know what to do about it, so they make an uninformed decision, which hurts them in the end, a vicious cycle begins where everybody feels the same pain, and it becomes self inflicted in the end.

I apologize for ranting, but I hold my own water, I didn't start this thread to discuss seduction. I opened this thread to discuss discussion, I would appreciate if you would accept my desires and be compassionate, help me out. I am afraid Sosuave ishas betrayed itself... seduction is more than woman, the dictionary alludes to what lust some men abuse it for, others seek something they cannot fathom through an LTR, we all search for something. I love seduction, I know it is one of the keys to living a grand life, and my life is far from grand, if you knew me, you wouldn't have time enough to understand, we are all a product of society, and this society is by far to me more in depth than anywhere I have ever seen.

So in saying, the Dj bible holds good material, but the harder hitting subjects, the underpinnings of why the information is even in the bible, is not immediately visible on that page. Ever do a search on google? Does the DJ Bible hold enough information in it to teach you how to effectively deal with the information overload which comes from the tens of millions if not hundreds of web pages and the styles you can acquire from applying something unique about yourself to every one of those pages? It doesn't even allude to the deeper psyche, the DJ Bible to me is now AFC, it is weak in its description, it is weak in its form, it is weak in its structure... it carries more information than anybody could want... but DJness has eveolved further, and I am not one to perouse the hundreds of thousands of seperate posts that people have made to just arouse my anger further by seeing how little people have been given. Of course white lies are to protect you, LJBF and one-itis are probably the reason most AFC's worry about becoming better with women.

I am scared...

 

[diablo]

Originally posted by ethnomethodologist
I volunteer myself as a mod

While your initiative is commendable, mods for current forums aren't considered eligible until they meet certain length of membership and posting requirements. Regarding an additional forum, similiar ideas have been proposed but aren't going to take place in the forseeable future. Regarding those the ideas others have proposed, some felt so strongly about them they created a free bulletin board "cloning" this one, which included their sections. You can always do the same, however bear in mind the only link you can post to the site is in your sig - no threads regarding it.

If you don't like the way the forum is structured, feel free to visit others instead, or create your own as mentioned above. If you think you can contribute to SoSuave, then by all means do so.

Welcome to the forum.

 

[ethnomethodologist]

DJ's won't be there... ah well, could always try doing some invites and PMing people, or actually getting myself a goal and not playing around...

Thanks for the kick in the head there diablo, I needed to get some sense shaked back into me. It would have been far too much work for me...

Is there any way to search for links in peoples posts? I want specific posts that have links to various sites. outside of DJ realm, It's like asking for a book listing, or a movie listing, or using the search for a specific idea, member, or word. I want to see where DJ's regular while surfing the internet. If I can't get the ideas straight out of them in a quick fun and too the point manner with brainstorming, than I'll have to see what gives them their tick from their other knowledge sources, competition is good, monopolies are bad, blah blah blah, I hope you know what I am saying here.

So back to my question...

How do I get a list of say... well, I want a data mined list of where DJ's frequent the most on the internet... Is there a way to find out on the internet which sites are the most visited? There has to be a reason why, I always want to be connected, and myself at the same time, If nobody tells me what the popular culture is, online, where I spend a good amount of my time, than how am I ever supposed to become truly literate and down with the times.... BLAH BLAH BLAH, why can't I elaborate my thoughts?

Can somebody try and reword what I want? My mind is always a mess, and nobody really gives a **** about people with problems anymore, they can only try to soothe your pain, bandaids, and bactine, try and make the problem go away right? ****ing hypocrites.

 

[Docs]

Have you read those topics? yeah? Well some of them have horrible writing styles, there are great responses in some of the threads... and my time is precious, I can't go back over every DJ Bible thread, and listen to every gold tip, would take me forever to find a new style to test for the night...

I'm not about to go rewrite 60 threads of poorly formatted text. I am not about to go and recreate the wheel when existing material exists. That is just not how it works.

The Don Juan Bible is the first step. It contains good information, and obvisously, some bad, outdated stuff. That is the number one thing about databases and why they get recreated and restructured. Time.

The Don Juan Golden Tip Album is for any poster from anywhere to post a LINK (or short blurp of text) to something they found informative, insipring or of great use to themselves. It is not under mod-only control like the bible, so think of it as the new bible if you shall. When I post in that section, I place the title of the thread, the OWNER and I've already linked it, along with a short description. That is the beauty of it, because even you can post, and I encourage that you do.

If I could grab hold of three threads... say C+F examples, Dark stylee, and hoding opinions in mind, discuss thje Amoral wasteland for a single hour I would be happy... The DJ bible holds next to nothing compared to the entire site. It is a great introduction to the game though, why would people continue to come back with new ideas if they could just go RTDJB and be done with it all?

Indeed. The DJ Bible is far outdated to current information. Only when a mod keeps up with the posts that rotate around, can the Bible have effective posts that can apply. For now, your substitute is the Don Juan Golden Tip Album. It is there where you can tell us all of the posts you think are bibleworthy, and bring us to them. That is the only way the whole community can assist each other in things we find useful.

It's nice to see threads new and old be rotated in, but even great advice can fall off the pages into nothing, and it is the whole community's job to post it in the Tip Album, so it'll never be lost.

That is why I created it. I added this post to the Tip Album, in hopes that it will be read, understood and actioned.

 

[Desdinova]

Nobody on this site has really given anything to me that is truly unique and valuable for a long time,

If you're really thirsting for more knowledge, why should it remain focussed on women? If you want a good rush of knowledge, do some self-improvement. Look at your weaknesses, look at your life experiences, and see if you can find a link. You'll be surprised at how much a small experience in your childhood can affect your entire personality.

Also, why not look into the problems that the women you've dated had? If you know some information about them, see if you can get to the root of what their problem was and how it affected them emotionally and psychologically. It'll make you much better at figuring out a woman's personality, and what their behavior is going to be like shortly after you meet them.

I got game man, no doubt. I'm just getting sick of it always being the same

There comes a point where this site isn't going to have much to offer once you learn it all. I myself have reached that point. However, I'm not thirsting for more knowledge on the subject of women, I'm hoping to give back what I've learned and experienced. I'm also in a LTR which is a constant challenge, unlike the dating cycle which got repetitive and boring for me.

 

[ethnomethodologist]

Desdinova, I've never had a girlfriend. Too many ONS, and I am getting sick of them. I can turn a girl on by telling her to look at my pimples than teasing her while calling myself pizza face, not tryin to brag, just trying to tell you that... GIRL'S ARE NOT THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN MY LIFE. Trying to save you some grief in your arguments, you should thank me.

I will thank you though, not too much though, just a little pat on the back, don't want to rub egos here. You made many good points in your post there, but I don't like people telling me I'm wrong about what I want and what I know if I already know the truth. Could go point for point, and use your own words against you, but of course that is a waste of my time, and yours.

I see where you think I am coming from though. I want more women, and I'm worried about not getting some. Subtly saying I suck, thanks, but no thanks. Try again, you might get it right.

I've never dated, are you telling me something? I should arrange a true date, and that will make me happy? This is the only site on the internet I have found so far that helps me, truly helps me. It is not because people treat me like a baby, and play childish games with my mind, it is because they are brutally honest and they stand up for other peoples rights. That is what I am on this site for, the knowledge that has been hidden from me, the social normals that are given to me, for my protection, that I am better without. AFC or not, even as a man I still see guys committing suicide, why?

 

[ethnomethodologist]

Originally posted by Docs
I'm not about to go rewrite 60 threads of poorly formatted text. I am not about to go and recreate the wheel when existing material exists. That is just not how it works.

The Don Juan Bible is the first step. It contains good information, and obvisously, some bad, outdated stuff. That is the number one thing about databases and why they get recreated and restructured. Time.

The Don Juan Golden Tip Album is for any poster from anywhere to post a LINK (or short blurp of text) to something they found informative, insipring or of great use to themselves. It is not under mod-only control like the bible, so think of it as the new bible if you shall. When I post in that section, I place the title of the thread, the OWNER and I've already linked it, along with a short description. That is the beauty of it, because even you can post, and I encourage that you do.

Indeed. The DJ Bible is far outdated to current information. Only when a mod keeps up with the posts that rotate around, can the Bible have effective posts that can apply. For now, your substitute is the Don Juan Golden Tip Album. It is there where you can tell us all of the posts you think are bibleworthy, and bring us to them. That is the only way the whole community can assist each other in things we find useful.

It's nice to see threads new and old be rotated in, but even great advice can fall off the pages into nothing, and it is the whole community's job to post it in the Tip Album, so it'll never be lost.

That is why I created it. I added this post to the Tip Album, in hopes that it will be read, understood and actioned.

Bleep, blurp, GLAAAAP(Robot sounds whatever, I grew up reading calvin and hobbes thinking about daydreaming all of the time)So I'm tryina say It's almost all french to me why your telling me about the tips album. I've seen it, stop assuming I am THAT blind to not see the sticky, I don't like it. True though, about the problem with the bible, It may not even be because of how outdated it is, it's just not universal. It's not too honest, it doesn't kick my ass into happiness.

Your thread helps though, thanks. I only wish I had the time to read every thread, before the time until the next problem arises. I can only hope it spurs me to do the best thing at the time. I aim for the best, I can only hope to reach there, and this site is making me angry. I'm not saying the site is bad, it's great, I just want more, maybe I'mnot getting what I want because I am being greedy.

 

[Desdinova]

You made many good points in your post there, but I don't like people telling me I'm wrong about what I want and what I know if I already know the truth. Could go point for point, and use your own words against you, but of course that is a waste of my time, and yours.

Subtly saying I suck, thanks, but no thanks.

How in the world did you interpret this from my post? There was no intent on making an attack on you, I was just trying to make some suggestions. I don't consider myself better than anyone on this forum. We're all at different points on the Don Juan road. I fully respect the decisions people make for themselves, whether they want to be in a LTR, have sex with multiple women, etc. They take the information given, and use it however they wish.

If you don't want to take any of my suggestions, that's fine.