Do you consider yourself a Pick Up Artist or a Don Juan?
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thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
I never really cared for the term "Don Juan", which would explain why I always use quotation marks when I use the term. I suppose that makes me the only person that has voted Pick Up Artist. Honestly, there's not much of a difference. I just prefer one term over the other.
I think that DJs simply focus LESS on outer game...arlanda said:DJs focus on the inner game while PUAs on the outer game. You need to have both.
I've been doing a bunch of PUA stuff, and never have I seen a better balance between inner and outer game, as opposed to what this board porfesses. Just because PUAs offer more routines and material doesn't mean there is more shallowness... A good PUA understands the need to control his own frame before anything else.
My 2 cents.
At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
As I see it, a PUA focuses on women while a DJ focuses on himself (being a "real man", controlling nature, living life). I'm so enamoured with the DJ concept because of what Pook laid out in his philosophies. That's the way I want to be.
I don't consider myself a DJ so much as it's what I aspire to.
I don't consider myself a DJ so much as it's what I aspire to.