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Do you ask?
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Starman
Master Don Juan
naw just assume that she doesnt .. if she does have one she will mention it..when you start mentioning boyfriends..you start to come off as a guy who "REALLY Cares" what her dating status is, too prim , too proper...total turnoff and AFC
Imagine if a girl asked YOU, if you had a girlfriend..what immediately pops into your mind?? "Ohhh she is looking for a single guy, a boyfriend..red flag..she wants commitment..and no flirting with other girls..she is definetly interested in me"
Imagine if a girl asked YOU, if you had a girlfriend..what immediately pops into your mind?? "Ohhh she is looking for a single guy, a boyfriend..red flag..she wants commitment..and no flirting with other girls..she is definetly interested in me"
tiburon
Banned
listen to STARMAN
NO BETTER ADVICE THAN THAT.......
TIBURON
NO BETTER ADVICE THAN THAT.......
TIBURON
crotchrocket
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NO ! I think doing that broadcasts too loud and too clear "I really like you-and gee whiz I sure hope you will give me a chance" 
I just experienced the effect it can have from the other side-Case in point: Yesterday, I was talking to an HB I had just met, and one of the first things she asked me was if another girl I had been talking to earlier was my girlfriend (she wasn't).
The interesting thing is I immediately thought "wow she's really interested in me-I guess I won't have to try very hard with this one!!"
I just experienced the effect it can have from the other side-Case in point: Yesterday, I was talking to an HB I had just met, and one of the first things she asked me was if another girl I had been talking to earlier was my girlfriend (she wasn't).
The interesting thing is I immediately thought "wow she's really interested in me-I guess I won't have to try very hard with this one!!"
Walden
Master Don Juan
Read some of JWhite's s*** , he gets on pretty well asking about the b/f and it saves him from winding up on the friendship tip.
The best way to do it is causal like , so is your boy here? (looking around) she'll know you're not just caually curious.
The best way to do it is causal like , so is your boy here? (looking around) she'll know you're not just caually curious.
tiburon
Banned
i still go with Starman advice
Starman's advice is the best because if she tells you she has one it shows either two things ..she doesnt have IL on you or that she is respectful about her relationships.
If she doesn' t tell you and has one you know that if you date this women she will do the same when another Dj aproaches her while she is with you in a relationship...trouble slut...
StarMAN is a DJ about this ..follow his advice
Tiburon
Starman's advice is the best because if she tells you she has one it shows either two things ..she doesnt have IL on you or that she is respectful about her relationships.
If she doesn' t tell you and has one you know that if you date this women she will do the same when another Dj aproaches her while she is with you in a relationship...trouble slut...
StarMAN is a DJ about this ..follow his advice
Tiburon
I disagree with Starman to a degree. Here is a question for you guys: what do most men ask when they want to know if she is available? Most guys ask, "Do you have a boyfriend?" And I think asking this, a guy can come off as desperate and needy because you assume she does by asking that, but asking, "Are you single?" is completely different because it is a unique question and most likely she has never had a guy ask her that before which is why it works for me. When I ask if they are single; I completely eliminate the boyfriend from the question, and I ask in a curious tone of voice, so I'm coming from a totally different point of view. And girls will not always tell you they have a boyfriend, that's why I ask immediately when I first talk to them.
Also, girls rarely approach guys in the first place, so if a girl ask if you have a girlfriend (and if she was hot) I think the guy would be flattered and consider going out with her. I also think it depends on the guy.
Also, girls rarely approach guys in the first place, so if a girl ask if you have a girlfriend (and if she was hot) I think the guy would be flattered and consider going out with her. I also think it depends on the guy.
hey, jwhite17.
Asking if "she is single" sounds much better than "do you have a boyfriend". It may just be me, but saying "boyfriend" sounds kinda childish when compared to "single".
Ill try using that when i meet up with this girl later this week.
Asking if "she is single" sounds much better than "do you have a boyfriend". It may just be me, but saying "boyfriend" sounds kinda childish when compared to "single".
Ill try using that when i meet up with this girl later this week.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
I always assume that she is single... unless things are going TOO well, then I usually say... " Now's about that time where you tell me that you have a boyfriend so that we can carry on with our lives...."
Her: No.
Me: ok, give me your number and we'll get together for some coffee sometime.
Her: 222-2222
**pull out buisiness card and write down number, and give her one**
Her: No.
Me: ok, give me your number and we'll get together for some coffee sometime.
Her: 222-2222
**pull out buisiness card and write down number, and give her one**
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
I agree with Starman. Asking a girl directly if she has a b/f or "is she single" is the same as directly asking her for her number. You want to make the girl tell you this info on her own, not the other way around. Just think about when you # close, you give her a comment and a chance to offer her number to you. That's what works for me.
davelmn2003
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my humble opinion is that do NOT ask, because if she has a BF and she is still hooking up with you etc. (without your knowing that she has a BF) then the BF practically doesn't exist.
If she doesn't have a BF, then of course, the BF doesn't exist.
But if she has a BF and now feels compelled to tell you, then she may feel that hooking up with you would make her a slut and she may back off a bit. The bottom line is that you don't gain by asking...
Just my two cents...
If she doesn't have a BF, then of course, the BF doesn't exist.
But if she has a BF and now feels compelled to tell you, then she may feel that hooking up with you would make her a slut and she may back off a bit. The bottom line is that you don't gain by asking...
Just my two cents...
tiburon
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Anyone that disagrees with Starman's advice is a ...
I am sorry but all you guys that go out there asking the girl if she has a BF ..are acting AFC AFC AFC AFC AFC >...read the BIBLE you are building your own grave........
Tiburon
I am sorry but all you guys that go out there asking the girl if she has a BF ..are acting AFC AFC AFC AFC AFC >...read the BIBLE you are building your own grave........
Tiburon
Player_Supreme
Banned
Depends on if you want a direct or indirect lie from her. If she is choosing you (talking and interested in you) then she must not be too tight with her man.