do you all masturbtae every day?

[donnyjondeppjuando]

Im unemployed so I do it multiple times.

- When I wake up

- During day when Im bored

- At evening if bored again

- A long session before I go to sleep


If Im working I just do

- morning 1

- soem in work toilets

- before bed


IS this common

Based on this I would be having sex at least 3x per day if possible

 

[Iceberg]

So. Can we stop paying attention to this guy now or what?

 

[joverby]

So. Can we stop paying attention to this guy now or what?

^This^

 

[donnyjondeppjuando]

Ill be honest I get depressed and I just find watching porn makes me feel better.

I dont know what else to do. I dont like socialising so I dont go out or drink or party or take drugs.

When Im depressed I just watch porn.

Off course I do my gym and stuff but really porn is real depression relief.

Even sex for me i i can get it is depression relief not mutual fun

 

[KarmaSutra]

You know, I was going to bypass this thread altogether. But it stuck in my head for more than 10 seconds.

I'll admit to running a batch a day or so. At 37 my sex drive is stronger and more powerful than ever.

My girlfriend is my sexually ravenous slvthoney. I've yet to ever meet a woman who can not get enough, as she can't. We pleasure each other and accomodate each other's sexual turn-on's. She swallows, loves anal, is an oral fiend, and she's completely into our time when we're together.

Yet I still have the desire to fvck my hand.

I chalk it up to complete acceptance of my sexuality being freed from the stranglehold of societal guilt.

 

[KarmaSutra]

-it is depression relief not mutual fun

I know exactly what you mean.

When I was married, the sex had dried up like my ex-wife's womb. I was chronically running batches. Not for the sexual release per se'; it was more for release of the depression I was feeling due to lack of attention from my ex-wife.

When I smarted up and left her I put women on the backburner and concentrated on fixing myself. Once I did (this place was a Godsend at that point in my life), I was happy single. Then I was in great shape to find a woman worth my time and energy.

Now sex is more spiritual than merely the physical act of dumping a load.

 

[kentgraham10]

I used to laugh at people who bashed masturbation. One of the many things I have learned in my short life is how damaging it is. I lose my edge for DAYS. Life is too short to waste DAYS because of the side effects of an activity that will give you just a small amount of pleasure

 

[SoSuaveDude]

I used to laugh at people who bashed masturbation. One of the many things I have learned in my short life is how damaging it is. I lose my edge for DAYS. Life is too short to waste DAYS because of the side effects of an activity that will give you just a small amount of pleasure

Why so vague? explain these "side effects" if you will

 

[donnyjondeppjuando]

I know exactly what you mean.

When I was married, the sex had dried up like my ex-wife's womb. I was chronically running batches. Not for the sexual release per se'; it was more for release of the depression I was feeling due to lack of attention from my ex-wife.

When I smarted up and left her I put women on the backburner and concentrated on fixing myself. Once I did (this place was a Godsend at that point in my life), I was happy single. Then I was in great shape to find a woman worth my time and energy.

Now sex is more spiritual than merely the physical act of dumping a load.

Yeh it sounds bad but when I have sex I guess its like wanting to do sex and sex acts on the female to purely pleasure myself and get myself off.

I must admit I have little to no concern if she enjoys it and I am annoyed if she wont do acts I like.

I just have no desire to say make love I think. I just want sex like I want to masturbate to porn. To arosue and stimualte myself to make me feel good but off course sex is a more powerful depression relief than mastubration.

 

[capuaco]

Yeh it sounds bad but when I have sex I guess its like wanting to do sex and sex acts on the female to purely pleasure myself and get myself off.

I must admit I have little to no concern if she enjoys it and I am annoyed if she wont do acts I like.

I just have no desire to say make love I think. I just want sex like I want to masturbate to porn. To arosue and stimualte myself to make me feel good but off course sex is a more powerful depression relief than mastubration.

I don't think compulsive masturbation is a reason for depression, but I don't think it helps. Think about it, you get depressed so you "reward yourself", instead of working on improving your character or confronting your fears in the face of depression or anxiety, you reward yourself for doing nothing. If instead you worked on your character you probably wouldn't get depressed to begin with.

 

[donnyjondeppjuando]

I don't think compulsive masturbation is a reason for depression, but I don't think it helps. Think about it, you get depressed so you "reward yourself", instead of working on improving your character or confronting your fears in the face of depression or anxiety, you reward yourself for doing nothing. If instead you worked on your character you probably wouldn't get depressed to begin with.

Well masturbation doenst make me depressed. I use masturbation to make me feel happy when depressed. Rather than other things?

Like personally my problem is I dont like to go out. So if I get depressed some people might go out and get drunk or do an acitivty. I just watch porn.

Sometimes I do gym, run etc...but only really porn helps. I would use sex if I could. BUt porn can be used easy and 24/7

 

[Echoes]

Hey Donny,

There is nothing wrong with snapping the old carrot, but 5 times a day seems a bit excessive. I would also try to get rid of the porn habit if I were you. It is giving you a very unrealistic view of women and sex.

You described having sex as basically using a womans body to get yourself off, and having no regard for her experience or pleasure. This is the attitude that porn teaches a person if it is used too much. Don't get me wrong, I watch porn occasionally as well, but I also just use my imagination and it is better than anything.

And stop saying you don't like to be social. That needs to change pronto! Get out of your comfort zones, make some friends, and get yourself out of your own head. There is a wide world of possibilities out there....open yourself to them!

Best of luck (although luck really has nothing to do with it!)

Echoes

 

[search1ng]

hell yeah! 10x a day if i can get away with it! I'm boosting Kleenex sales!!

 

[capuaco]

Well masturbation doenst make me depressed. I use masturbation to make me feel happy when depressed. Rather than other things?

Like personally my problem is I dont like to go out. So if I get depressed some people might go out and get drunk or do an acitivty. I just watch porn.

Sometimes I do gym, run etc...but only really porn helps. I would use sex if I could. BUt porn can be used easy and 24/7

Just think for a moment everything you could be engaged in besides porn though. Only porn helps you say, because you haven't discovered, or cared to discover anything more worth while, that will take away your depression for good, not temporarily, and eliminate your agoraphobia,so you end up wanting to go out, and that will make women, and more people for that matter, actually like you. You say you'd use sex if you could, you can, it's just women don't like you because you got no character, and apparently have no desire to build one.

 

[kentgraham10]

Why so vague? explain these "side effects" if you will

1) Acne breakouts
2) Energy loss (most easily evident in the gym)
3) Obvious affect though is when you go out and see a hot girl but don't think twice about approaching her because you just don't care.

Here is a great tip I read on here that I encourage everyone to try at least once. Don't masturbate for at least a week. Give it a go.

EDIT: Reread my comment. The Edge I am referring to is number 3.

 

[Zarky]

LOL I remember thumbing through an old boy scout handbook from the 50s that specifically addressed this issue. It, in very vague language, warned that the "male essence" should not be "depleted."

I agree when I don't get off to internet broads I'm waaay hornier. Not sure, though, if that's a good thing. Plus, internet porn stars are waaay hotter than any chick I've ever had and likely ever will have.

And I agree that masturbation relieves depression. At least for the 5 minutes it takes

So in answer to the OP's question I'm 36 yo and do it probably 1-2 times per day, and have since I was about 12. I rarely go more than a couple of days without.