Do women have "frigidity" b/c their men don't have high enough sexual market value?

[MatureDJ]

I was reading a blog

http://dalrock.wordpress.com/2011/0...experiencing-recriprocal-love-and-attraction/

where there was an interesting reply from Passer_By

It’s probably a bit overstated by the manosphere, but natural hypergamy is there. But, like most human traits, it probably exists on a bell curve. On the left side, would be the rare woman who easily gets a lady boner for men of her own perceived sex rank, and maybe even a little below. In the middle are the vast of bulk of women who can only get a mild lady boner for men whose perceived sex rank is equal to their own (but never below), but whose lady boners go up dramatically as the guy’s perceived SMV rank gets 2 or 3 points higher. On the right of the curve are the poor Haleys of the world who can only get a lady boner at all for men of a much higher SMV. So, she puts up posts mocking the pictures of men who probably have SMV ranks that are higher than hers.

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“Game” seems to be all about altering the rank that women’s hindbrains irrationally ascribe to you by adopting behaviors that, back on the savannah, must have been proxy indicators of higher rank.

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... a lot of women are acutely aware of their own relative sex rank but are just very unenthusiastic (or even repulsed) by the thought of sex with men of their own rank, whereas men like that exceedingly rare. These are the women who were probably described as frigid or having no libido back in the day when they only got to have sex with their husbands, when in reality they probably would have gone wild with Elvis (or whatever equivalent there was). Evolution seems to have cursed them with this.

I've never thought of it like that, but it makes perfect sense. It's like when a 50-something friend of mine said that when he was banging one of the 16 year old students at the place he was teaching (she wasn't one of his students), he didn't need the Viagra that he sometimes needed when banging 50-something women. Women claiming to be frigid didn't have a disease of frigidity, but rather contempt that they were opening up their legs for a man that they really would rather not allow in, but that they have to in order to have children, marriage, etc. Perhaps even, the explosion in divorces is basically the case of women who - because of the anti-divorce culture and economic necessity of staying in a marriage, just suffered through the marriage with their beta (and only grudgingly putting out) - now simply divorce, both to get out of the indignation of continuing to carry out a relationship with (and put out for) a beta, and be on the market for that alpha, either to try to snare him in a relationship, or to just be one of his harem. (Probably the cougar culture is a manifestation of this as well.)

 

[C-quenced]

It's like when a 50-something friend of mine said that when he was banging one of the 16 year old students at the place he was teaching (she wasn't one of his students), he need the Viagra that he sometimes needed when banging 50-something women.

Did you mean he didn't need viagra when he nailed the younger lady? That would make more sense.

Here in the states you'd have your entire neighborhood getting together in one giant mob, surrounding your house after sundown while carrying torches. They'll consider burning someone at the stake for the mere suggestion of being attracted to a female around that age group. Not trying to get off topic here but where are you from?

 

[MatureDJ]

Did you mean he didn't need viagra when he nailed the younger lady? That would make more sense.

Here in the states you'd have your entire neighborhood getting together in one giant mob, surrounding your house after sundown while carrying torches. They'll consider burning someone at the stake for the mere suggestion of being attracted to a female around that age group. Not trying to get off topic here but where are you from?

Error corrected.

Yes we were American ex-pats in a former USSR country.

 

[Nutz]

Yes we were American ex-pats in a former USSR country.

I'd love to hear more about how you did this. I've been considering doing the same since I saw what the women were like in Romania and Latvia.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear MDJ,
"I was reading a blog".....One thing for sure,if I were in the Ukraine with the hottest Women in the World outside my door,I wouldn't be playing around on the Internet.

 

[MatureDJ]

Dear MDJ,
"I was reading a blog".....One thing for sure,if I were in the Ukraine with the hottest Women in the World outside my door,I wouldn't be playing around on the Internet.

Well, at the moment, I am back in the land of the whale (USA), where in about 12 months of being in my town of 12K, I've seen 4 - count 'em 4 - women I found attractive, with 2 of them definitely (and 1 more perhaps) being in high school. The other attractive women is a nurse (or physician?), so she's definitely not jail bait. :yes:

In Kiev, I've seen more attractive women come out of my apartment block.

But even when I'm there, I like to peruse the 'net.

 

[Nutz]

Did you mean he didn't need viagra when he nailed the younger lady? That would make more sense.

Here in the states you'd have your entire neighborhood getting together in one giant mob, surrounding your house after sundown while carrying torches. They'll consider burning someone at the stake for the mere suggestion of being attracted to a female around that age group. Not trying to get off topic here but where are you from?

Yeah. Roissy wrote something about this before, and I've heard first-hand accounts from older guys in the local pickup community about this. Had ED with their ex-wifes (over 45 or 50), but was scoring with younger women <25-30 and never had ED problems.