Do Women ever tell you when they are not interested?

[Groverz]

Ever have them come out and say it or is it always some excuse as to why they can't see you or hang out ect. I think I have only had one girl tell me that she did not love me anymore and just was not happy in the relationship. The others just come up with random excuses.

 

[marmel75]

Typically no because most guys act butt hurt, get mad or start calling them b!itches, etc...

I mean look at the reaction when they don't message guys back on OLD sites...too many weak minded guys can't handle having their fragile ego dented like that...

 

[nismo-4]

Women like to reject men in the lightest, least confrontational way possible. But a rejection is a rejection nonetheless.

Hey, men act butthurt even after these rejections, because at the end of the day, they failed.

When a woman makes excuses or stops answering my phone calls, I let her know she's been replaced, whether I'm having sex with a new woman, I'm back together with an ex, met someone else, anything along those lines.

Men, know that you can move on and reject women. Though it has little effect.

 

[Stugots26]

When a woman makes excuses or stops answering my phone calls, I let her know she's been replaced, whether I'm having sex with a new woman, I'm back together with an ex, met someone else, anything along those lines.

Unless she's prompted a response by reaching out to you, and you respond by saying she's been replaced, etc., you're giving her information she is not entitled to. Why even bother? It's like calling to say, "I'm just calling to tell you I'm not going to call you anymore." It screams that you were emotionally invested and want to hurt her because you feel rejected.

Just move on with your life if her interest seems lukewarm. Let her wonder, if she's going to, if she lost you to someone else.

 

[Who Dares Win]

They do reject but they do it indirectly and communicate it between the lines.

Sorry Im very busy this week means sorry Im very busy for you.

When they dont reply to messages, takes forever to do it and give a one lines which doesnt allow you to follow the talking, they are rejecting you.

Trust me when a girl finds you attractive she will make it easier for the two of you to meet and sometime she will even take initiative by indirectly asking you out.

An example which happened to me recently, met this girl nothing special as a person but my type when it comes of body, I asked her if she wanted to have a drink with me.

She didnt reject me by saying that she doesnt find me attractive, she said that her schedule is quite full and its very likely that the next time we will meet will be the party of a politician we both support.
She basically rejected me by saying that she doesnt have any time plus she let me know that there wont be any possibility before that day to make sure I was not gonna call her again asking for update.

I kept it nice and polite then deleted her number.

But Im not complaining, this is a good rejection cause I didnt waste any time or money, the problem are those girls which fake interested to get time and money out of you, either validation through your attention or free meals out of your pocket.

This is why you have to keep your radar tight and when in doubt gauge, go for a kiss during a date and you will see where she stands.

 

[nismo-4]

Unless she's prompted a response by reaching out to you, and you respond by saying she's been replaced, etc., you're giving her information she is not entitled to. Why even bother? It's like calling to say, "I'm just calling to tell you I'm not going to call you anymore." It screams that you were emotionally invested and want to hurt her because you feel rejected.

Just move on with your life if her interest seems lukewarm. Let her wonder, if she's going to, if she lost you to someone else.

A woman only wonders about a man if she likes him. She also can't lose you if she never had you.

Also, you can't next a girl you haven't slept with. You're just moving on from recognized disinterest. But you didn't get the girl.

Why do you think the Brad Pitt/ Channing Tatum test exists? It's for excuses...the kiss test is in person. If it fails, either:

1. You miscalibrated your escalation
2. She's not interested/ just wants a friend, orbiter, or anything in beta bux only territory
3. She's seeing someone else

Do this test 2 times max. The first fail likely= deleted.

 

[logicallefty]

As others have said, its about learning the signs from a woman... And the core we always say "Judge by her actions, not her words". There is no better thing a man can do who wants to date women... Do this and you will never get dumped ever again, because you will end it first before she has a chance..

And let's be honest, do we men ever come out and say "You looked hot in your pic but in real life you are a heifer" or, "Sorry, I just don't find you attractive". I never say it in that way when ending a STR. Maybe others do.. But I will say something like "I just do not see us as a good fit" or the one I just did "Our schedules just don't seem to line up at this time to allow us to date".... Now, with a LTR, I have said "You know I was really into you until you did X that reminded me of my ex. Then you did Y which was completely disrespectful to me. Then Z was the last straw after I had asked you not to do that, you did it anyway, and now I am ending it".

 

[Groverz]

As others have said, its about learning the signs from a woman... And the core we always say "Judge by her actions, not her words". There is no better thing a man can do who wants to date women... Do this and you will never get dumped ever again, because you will end it first before she has a chance..

And let's be honest, do we men ever come out and say "You looked hot in your pic but in real life you are a heifer" or, "Sorry, I just don't find you attractive". I never say it in that way when ending a STR. Maybe others do.. But I will say something like "I just do not see us as a good fit" or the one I just did "Our schedules just don't seem to line up at this time to allow us to date".... Now, with a LTR, I have said "You know I was really into you until you did X that reminded me of my ex. Then you did Y which was completely disrespectful to me. Then Z was the last straw after I had asked you not to do that, you did it anyway, and now I am ending it".

Ha I just had the schedule one used on me, which is BS because I am free 95% of the time. And the I don't have time for a serious relationship.

 

[RangerMIke]

Nope... they never do.

If a woman will not make time for you, you are supposed to take the hint and move on.

 

[SmooveMooves]

It's all about Social Cues. You should be able to tell if a relationship is about to end or if you're about to get rejected and eject yourself.

 

[nismo-4]

I'll add this too.

Women who indirectly tell you not interested only want your attention. If they outright tell you they aren't interested, they'll knowingly lose a source of validation or beta bux. Females love orbiters. Men love orbiters if sex is involved. Attention is meaningless for a man. So of course, they lead you on.

Be sexual from the get go. If she backs off, you weeded out an attention wh0re.

Guys, if you are getting signs of disinterest, reject her ass quickly!

A woman who wants you will make it happen. And easily too.

 

[Fitters]

Verbally - NO
Actions - YES

 

[Yewki]

Typically no because most guys act butt hurt, get mad or start calling them b!itches, etc...

I mean look at the reaction when they don't message guys back on OLD sites...too many weak minded guys can't handle having their fragile ego dented like that...

Everyone basically does this. It's not gender specific. It's not just to avoid confrontation either. Burning a bridge is usually a bad idea unless it's really necessary, because we realize the person we don't like now might still be of use later. You're usually a lot more likely to burn a bridge if you're honest than if you simply tell an unoffending lie.

Don't like someone? Pretend to be busy. Don't want to go somewhere? Pretend your car broke down. Forgot something important? Pretend you were sick. For girls, having the orbiters, attention, and maybe even free stuff is nice. For guys, it's the option of having a future hookup with her or her friends.

 

[Stugots26]

A woman only wonders about a man if she likes him. She also can't lose you if she never had you.

Also, you can't next a girl you haven't slept with. You're just moving on from recognized disinterest. But you didn't get the girl.

Why do you think the Brad Pitt/ Channing Tatum test exists? It's for excuses...the kiss test is in person. If it fails, either:

1. You miscalibrated your escalation
2. She's not interested/ just wants a friend, orbiter, or anything in beta bux only territory
3. She's seeing someone else

Do this test 2 times max. The first fail likely= deleted.

I absolutely agree with the above. But you're telling me that your response to this "recognized disinterest" is to get in touch to tell her she's been replaced? Why? If you recognize disinterest you know she won't really care (disinterest) if you say she's been replaced. It seems butthurt. Why even try to provoke a reaction. Just move on and don't give her any information one way or another. It's time-wasting game-playing to be telling her that you're seeing someone else if she didn't outright ask, and even if she did ask, she's not entitled to know.

 

[SeymourCake]

Because there's another guy she's with or has her mind on whom she sees more valuable/superior than you.

Telling you this would shatter your ego so she would rather not say.