Do Women Approach You?

[guytime]

I get approached by women sometimes. I haven't given it much thought.

I was out with some buddies who hadn't seem me in a while and they noticed. "Dude, you get approached by a lot of women!"

I didn't know what to tell them, really. I guess I do get approached "often." Either I'm into them and I go further, or I'm not and I don't.

Generally speaking, unless I am approaching women actively, I am approached several times a night.

Do you think this is rare? I notice other guys getting approached from time to time, so this seems normal to me.

 

[Groverz]

Sometimes yes, maybe 25% of the time? More so now after a nice tan and hair cut.

 

[TheGambino]

Post a pic, you seem hot

 

[adam225]

I normally find they'll do little things to try and get my attention. For example, I went to a festival last week and was wearing a hat. I found quite a few of them were taking it off my head and trying to dance with me. It kind of got annoying after a while, specially when you're following a group of friends somewhere. I got to the point of snapping a one of them (I know, moody me). Her reaction was funny. They don't like it when they don't get the reaction they were after.

 

[GS750]

Usually girls will find an excuse to talk to me. That's how they approach. And I've been told I look like Dan Marino, got that a few times. But I don't see any resemblance.

 

[LandingWood]

Post a pic, you seem hot

Lolwat

 

[Renegade357]

All the time when I was in my 20s. Now that I'm in my mid-30s I'm just not around women as much as I used to be. Normally in social settings like a bar or a party they will find excuses to talk to me. Lots of variables involved.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

To the OP, you must be popular or be famous or just known for something in a big positive way or naturally above average looking guy, a Channing Tatum or Cristiano Rinaldo look a like, I would say those type of guys are the ones actually approached by women, even though it is still rare since us men are usually the ones that have to approach but I believe those are the exceptions

 

[JaegerPilot217]

as for my answer, obviously no

 

[In2theGame]

I hardly ever get straight up approached. The most direct opener a girl has ever been with me, she came up to me nervously and said "Ive been eye fvcking you". However ....... All i get is looks and stares. If i do get "approached" its almost always indirectly or not so obvious, If im out and lets say im ordering a drink... the girls will come up and stand there next to me for a while and may look at me and flash a smile as to say..."um..Hello... Talk to me, I just smiled at you" Its up to me if i want to continue or not. Other times is, if im standing around and talking to my friends.. Women will pass their hands on me, like they are trying to cop a feel lol im not stupid.. i know what they are doing. Like ive state before i have a great body so they brush against my arms, slide their hand by my waist or down my back when they are trying to get through because its "crowded". It's after i approach and talk to the girl for a bit that she admits shes been "checking me out for a long time" and tell me things like im gorgeous or very sexy. Plus when i do approach i hardly EVER say something "Nice guy-ish" Like Hey, "Im In2thegame, Whats your name?" My openers are straight direct "Hey, Ive been checking you out and think your really sexy" which they respond with a smile and i go from there. One thing i do notice is anything lower than a HB8, They act b*tchy towards me or act very flaky but whatever.

 

[Atom Smasher]

I hardly ever go to bars or clubs, but out on the street and in work situations I get the "come hither" look very often, which was either non-existent or unnoticed by me in my younger years. The only kind of girl I go after is the kind who give me the green light, and the older I get the more green lights I see. I don't believe in monkey-dancing to try to get an uninterested girl interested in me. There's already an abundance of smiles and beckoning eyes just about every day, so there's no need for me to approach with any kind of uncertainty.

 

[Jair213]

I get looks and Stares only but never aproached.

You must be really good looking. Do you hit up the gym?

 

[Atom Smasher]

The looks and stares are your invitation to act. Many women feel uncomfortable approaching and can't bring themselves to do it. They know subconsciously that by giving men inviting looks, the wusses will avoid approaching and only the desirable, aggressive males will approach them.

 

[guytime]

Yeah, I consider that a woman's approach. Sometimes, it's very obvious, but there's a gradation from 'obvious' to 'seemingly accidental' where it is hard to detect whether she is in fact just trying to pass by. It's frustrating sometimes!

I think I'll just make a big deal about it each time and gauge her reaction.

I hardly ever get straight up approached. The most direct opener a girl has ever been with me, she came up to me nervously and said "Ive been eye fvcking you". However ....... All i get is looks and stares. If i do get "approached" its almost always indirectly or not so obvious, If im out and lets say im ordering a drink... the girls will come up and stand there next to me for a while and may look at me and flash a smile as to say..."um..Hello... Talk to me, I just smiled at you" Its up to me if i want to continue or not. Other times is, if im standing around and talking to my friends.. Women will pass their hands on me, like they are trying to cop a feel lol im not stupid.. i know what they are doing. Like ive state before i have a great body so they brush against my arms, slide their hand by my waist or down my back when they are trying to get through because its "crowded". It's after i approach and talk to the girl for a bit that she admits shes been "checking me out for a long time" and tell me things like im gorgeous or very sexy. Plus when i do approach i hardly EVER say something "Nice guy-ish" Like Hey, "Im In2thegame, Whats your name?" My openers are straight direct "Hey, Ive been checking you out and think your really sexy" which they respond with a smile and i go from there. One thing i do notice is anything lower than a HB8, They act b*tchy towards me or act very flaky but whatever.

 

[In2theGame]

I get looks and Stares only but never aproached.

You must be really good looking. Do you hit up the gym?

If your talkin to me, I absolutely hit the gym. I was destroying pvzzy when i was at my very best, very big arms, shoulders, Chest, back and legs but my waist was only 28" at 6' tall. . Very hard to maintain and genetics play a part. All i had to do was put on a fitted Calvin Klein shirt (Not tight) but hugged against me... It was game over... i could pick up HB9+. Im still in great shape just not as perfect as before until i decide i want to cut down BF again.

 

[YAboi]

some days ago I was approached by a hot babe who conveniently needed directions when she saw me in a place where she could have asked everyone else . Just be careful of these girls intentions is what I say...I gave her the directions and let it be at that. If you can't see yourself marrying her then don't deal with her.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

some days ago I was approached by a hot babe who conveniently needed directions when she saw me in a place where she could have asked everyone else . Just be careful of these girls intentions is what I say...I gave her the directions and let it be at that. If you can't see yourself marrying her then don't deal with her.

"C'mon...women will never, ever, ever, ever and ever approach a guy! Period! It's not her role to do that despite the progression women have made in society at large; i.e., salary, jobs, positions, women in military, etc...Gentlemen, regardless if a woman is a CEO of company, a government official, 5 star General, department head in a company, women are still women. You can't change that.

It's your inner strength, your character, your personality. It's demonstrating you have high value, are self-amused, your value doesn't come from women but from your own life!"

That's what one guy said on a comment on Marni Wing's facebook fan page, for those who don't know, she is Woman who is a Dating Coach, or just a Woman that helps teach Men how to attract Women.

Lol I thought it was funny on the way and how he said "never, ever, ever, ever, and ever, period!!"

 

[harbinger]

Pretty much all of my lays have come from girls starting conversations with me. I find it much easier to escalate if the girl is already interested. I pretty much act normal talk to a friend and often a girl will just introduce herself to us.

I could go out of my way to approach girls but I don't see the point.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

Pretty much all of my lays have come from girls starting conversations with me. I find it much easier to escalate if the girl is already interested. I pretty much act normal talk to a friend and often a girl will just introduce herself to us.

I could go out of my way to approach girls but I don't see the point.

awesome, glad to hear about the exceptions, yes I know they are rare but when they happen, and it you end up getting laid by a girls initiative, im sure its a much bigger confidence booster

 

[Jair213]

If your talkin to me, I absolutely hit the gym. I was destroying pvzzy when i was at my very best, very big arms, shoulders, Chest, back and legs but my waist was only 28" at 6' tall. . Very hard to maintain and genetics play a part. All i had to do was put on a fitted Calvin Klein shirt (Not tight) but hugged against me... It was game over... i could pick up HB9+. Im still in great shape just not as perfect as before until i decide i want to cut down BF again.

Was talkin to op

But good sh!tt brahhh. Im getting shredded too. Being bodybuilding For about 2 years now. Man. The effect of a muscular body plays a big role. I notice the same effects too..