Do they really mean that?

[killerasp]

After talking with a bunch of girls some of told me that im a "perv" and that im "being mean to me".

I do use sexual references when i talk to them and i lay the C&F down pretty good taht gets them laughing and put a smile on their faces...but i cant help to think....Am i really being mean to them? should i stop it?

 

[jwhite17]

Never ever stop!!!!!!!!!!!!

They probably saying that because they are thinking of you in a sexual way!

As long as you don't insult them like saying "o btw, you are *****!" would not be smart. C&F is a good thing because you are stirring up emotions in them and not like the other nice AFC's that compliment them and give them boring ass convos

So, just keep up the C&F, nothing to worry about

 

[RKTek]

Never talk sex to a girl. Always keep a clean mouth around women until you've been in a committed relationship with her for at least six months. Or more.

Potty mouth may make you C&F with the guys but with the girls, even though they may laugh and cut up with you, it's registering on them as low class trailer trash.

Even if the girl you're with cusses like a sailor, keep yourself above such language. Besides, it's usually a test.

 

[Starman]

I knew this chick that always called me a "perv"

I found out later SHE was the real perv..always talking about wanting to have sex in front of cleregy, non stop talks about sex..etc..sometimes they LIKE sexual guys and are just testing the waters

 

[FlyGuy]

I've never met a chick that doesn't like sexual inuendo and busting on them. Keep it up but don't go too far. Also remember to always make it funny, if they laugh you're still in good shape IMO.

 

[JJMcLure]

Originally posted by killerasp
After talking with a bunch of girls some of told me that ... im [sic] "being mean to me".

Am i really being mean to them? should i stop it?

When they say that, you are right on track. It's the standard phrase they come out with when you are busting on them. They are loving it.

It can also work as a test. If you start apologising as soon as they say it, you lose. So keep it up.

 

[silverdog]

Like the saying goes, "takes one to know one"

 

[T.T. Boy]

Originally posted by RKTek
Never talk sex to a girl. Always keep a clean mouth around women until you've been in a committed relationship with her for at least six months. Or more.

Potty mouth may make you C&F with the guys but with the girls, even though they may laugh and cut up with you, it's registering on them as low class trailer trash.

Even if the girl you're with cusses like a sailor, keep yourself above such language. Besides, it's usually a test.

Are you daft?

 

[PRMoon]

Firstly girls like guys who have mean tendencies, and come of somewhat ****y. It shows emotion and passion two things that they crave. Alot of girls accuse me of being mean (never a perv though) but that's because I tend to ignore quite a bit when I see attention *****s striving for some of mine. You're just doing what every good DJ should and the fact that they laugh then say that you're mean or what have you says that it's working.