TheGunslinger
Don Juan
People are losing faith in sosuave.
People are losing faith in the Don Juan way of life.
New members and visitors come to this site expecting the secret to everything, to their everything in life; women. They come, they see and are disappointed. “This **** is for chumps!” they cry, “This is bull****, what about x, y and z?” Most leave.
Others persist.
They’ve seen “The Truth”(tm) and are determined to show those other, less aware users that “truth”.
They are the slanderers, the backstabbers, the immature.
They hunt down different members, members of great stature and those of none. So long as they believe in what they say, so long as they appear to be more composed, more aware and far more successful than the slanderer, they will be forever branded as liars, as cheats and as frauds. “You don’t know what you’re talking about.” “What about getting laid? Where’s the part about getting laid?” “This is bull****. Nothing works for me. You guys are all morons.”
They threaten to leave, though a threat implies that something will be lost; that their absence will deprive the community, those members who they slander, of something of value. Another lie. It is made even emptier by their post in the next thread of any interest and the next until they are banned and cast aside.
Bitter, impatient and closed minded. These are not men.
There are those who come to sosuave and ignore the basic tenants, or simply do not understand them. They glance at the DJ Bible, they skim read a couple of posts and then splurge their emotions and frustrations all over the forums. They moan and wail and gnash their teeth in frustration; “Why won’t she go out with me?” “How do I get her to notice me...?” “I FOLLOWED ALL THE RULES BUT IT DIDNT WORK PLZ HELP ME”. They cry, they scream and they beg for advice. They submit to their emotions, to the women in their life or, in most cases, the periphery of their lives, yet when the advice comes they fight like lions for the dreams they are fed by the society in which they live, to fend off the attacks by reality and by the true members of sosuave. They are disheartened. They can’t understand. They leave, but not before littering the forums with their threads and posts, each one leading to nowhere despite the efforts of forum members.
Bitter, impatient and closed minded. These are not men.
There are those who ask questions about 'Alphaism', about 'Being a DJ'. They pine for leadership, for instructions on how to be a man. They are told and directed; puppets moving to and fro to Sosuave's instruction, never truly understanding what they are doing or why. They ask inane questions, seeking ridiculous 'insights' on the alpha male. "Are (x,y,z ethnicity) better seducers?" "If I sneeze during a date, do i have to beat the living s**t out of the girl to re-establish the frame?" "If I eat broccoli three times a day, will my C+F techniques improve? What about carrots, will they affect my IOI signals? Should I sit at an exact angle or face completely away from her to indicate my HV?"
These are the puppets, the vessels, the illusions. They are not real men. Quick with a buzz word and easily directed, yet they possess no knowledge despite any success and cannot move a foot without permission from sosuave.
They are not bitter, they are not impatient or close minded, but they are tools, they are mere puppets and they are nothing more than directionless children, turning to sosuave, to the fathers they never really had, seeking their guidance and their acceptance.
Then there are those who come to the forum, having little experience and a lot to say. They are a mix; the misogynists (“The women are the problem, not me!”), the superficial ‘players’ (“Looks are all that matter in THE GAME. (Dun, dun, dun)”), the short term ‘players’... you get the picture. They spout theories and rules, bad advice and concepts. Each one focuses on the extreme. Sure, there’s nothing wrong with sex or ONS’s, but are you using them for confidence? To fulfil your life’s ambitions? Sure, good looks can help. But inner game and a fulfilled life will bring in far more and far better women than a lucky-dumb ass with no real self-esteem or confidence but a decent face could ever hope to bring in.
And yes, women are *******s. We let them become that way, but they’re also women. They react to men naturally; they can’t help it. They want to be led, to be dominated. If you hate women just because of a few failures and rejections, you’re letting them dominate you. You’re letting them affect and shape your life, your attitudes and your emotions. Why would you do that?
Each one of these ‘men’ cannot see the bigger picture, cannot see the better path. They want quick results for little effort. They see no balance, no compromise or logic. They only see black and white.
Bitter, impatient and closed minded. These are not men.
Can you see?
The slanderers, the backstabbers, the immature.
The ignorant, the emotional, the spineless.
The puppets, the clueless, the directionless.
The narrow sighted, the impatient, the extremists.
These are women.
And these women cast about the forums in gangs and as lone rangers. They post and complain and cause trouble. This is a problem sosuave has always faced and most likely always will. This thread is not for these people.
It is for you. The newcomer, the experienced and the uncertain.
Sosuave is a gold mine. The founding members and the early pillars of the community burrowed their way deep beneath the ground; that veritable fortress, the female psyche, which few men have been able to penetrate. They discovered the secrets, the tricks and the understanding that led them to success; gold deposits few had ever truly seen before. They left them be, leaving post supports, lights and signs to lead the way for the intrepid few that would follow in their wake.
But that intrepid few would turn into the many.
People of all creeds, mindsets and experiences would flood into the mine, kicking up dirt (bad posts and attitudes) to cloud and mask the gold, casting doubt upon the visitors about the deposits they find. “Is this advice valuable?” they ask, “Or is it untrue?”. Over time the mine became flooded with dirt and grime, the gold still there but ultimately reburied. The lights and guides are still here, left by those who came before and new guides are being established by those new pillars of the community who would lead us to success. But you must persevere to find them.
Sosuave holds the potential for you to become everything you’ve dreamed of, but the way is clouded by those who would wish to misguide you in their own failure and hatred of the world. Success with women is linked to you, to your self improvement and to your own success in other areas of your life. There is a lot of bad advice on these forums, yet there is so much good to find if only you have patience and look a little harder, a little further.
Do not lose faith in this site.
Do not lose faith in yourself.
Do not close your mind to the truth.
Good luck.
People are losing faith in the Don Juan way of life.
New members and visitors come to this site expecting the secret to everything, to their everything in life; women. They come, they see and are disappointed. “This **** is for chumps!” they cry, “This is bull****, what about x, y and z?” Most leave.
Others persist.
They’ve seen “The Truth”(tm) and are determined to show those other, less aware users that “truth”.
They are the slanderers, the backstabbers, the immature.
They hunt down different members, members of great stature and those of none. So long as they believe in what they say, so long as they appear to be more composed, more aware and far more successful than the slanderer, they will be forever branded as liars, as cheats and as frauds. “You don’t know what you’re talking about.” “What about getting laid? Where’s the part about getting laid?” “This is bull****. Nothing works for me. You guys are all morons.”
They threaten to leave, though a threat implies that something will be lost; that their absence will deprive the community, those members who they slander, of something of value. Another lie. It is made even emptier by their post in the next thread of any interest and the next until they are banned and cast aside.
Bitter, impatient and closed minded. These are not men.
There are those who come to sosuave and ignore the basic tenants, or simply do not understand them. They glance at the DJ Bible, they skim read a couple of posts and then splurge their emotions and frustrations all over the forums. They moan and wail and gnash their teeth in frustration; “Why won’t she go out with me?” “How do I get her to notice me...?” “I FOLLOWED ALL THE RULES BUT IT DIDNT WORK PLZ HELP ME”. They cry, they scream and they beg for advice. They submit to their emotions, to the women in their life or, in most cases, the periphery of their lives, yet when the advice comes they fight like lions for the dreams they are fed by the society in which they live, to fend off the attacks by reality and by the true members of sosuave. They are disheartened. They can’t understand. They leave, but not before littering the forums with their threads and posts, each one leading to nowhere despite the efforts of forum members.
Bitter, impatient and closed minded. These are not men.
There are those who ask questions about 'Alphaism', about 'Being a DJ'. They pine for leadership, for instructions on how to be a man. They are told and directed; puppets moving to and fro to Sosuave's instruction, never truly understanding what they are doing or why. They ask inane questions, seeking ridiculous 'insights' on the alpha male. "Are (x,y,z ethnicity) better seducers?" "If I sneeze during a date, do i have to beat the living s**t out of the girl to re-establish the frame?" "If I eat broccoli three times a day, will my C+F techniques improve? What about carrots, will they affect my IOI signals? Should I sit at an exact angle or face completely away from her to indicate my HV?"
These are the puppets, the vessels, the illusions. They are not real men. Quick with a buzz word and easily directed, yet they possess no knowledge despite any success and cannot move a foot without permission from sosuave.
They are not bitter, they are not impatient or close minded, but they are tools, they are mere puppets and they are nothing more than directionless children, turning to sosuave, to the fathers they never really had, seeking their guidance and their acceptance.
Then there are those who come to the forum, having little experience and a lot to say. They are a mix; the misogynists (“The women are the problem, not me!”), the superficial ‘players’ (“Looks are all that matter in THE GAME. (Dun, dun, dun)”), the short term ‘players’... you get the picture. They spout theories and rules, bad advice and concepts. Each one focuses on the extreme. Sure, there’s nothing wrong with sex or ONS’s, but are you using them for confidence? To fulfil your life’s ambitions? Sure, good looks can help. But inner game and a fulfilled life will bring in far more and far better women than a lucky-dumb ass with no real self-esteem or confidence but a decent face could ever hope to bring in.
And yes, women are *******s. We let them become that way, but they’re also women. They react to men naturally; they can’t help it. They want to be led, to be dominated. If you hate women just because of a few failures and rejections, you’re letting them dominate you. You’re letting them affect and shape your life, your attitudes and your emotions. Why would you do that?
Each one of these ‘men’ cannot see the bigger picture, cannot see the better path. They want quick results for little effort. They see no balance, no compromise or logic. They only see black and white.
Bitter, impatient and closed minded. These are not men.
Can you see?
The slanderers, the backstabbers, the immature.
The ignorant, the emotional, the spineless.
The puppets, the clueless, the directionless.
The narrow sighted, the impatient, the extremists.
These are women.
And these women cast about the forums in gangs and as lone rangers. They post and complain and cause trouble. This is a problem sosuave has always faced and most likely always will. This thread is not for these people.
It is for you. The newcomer, the experienced and the uncertain.
Sosuave is a gold mine. The founding members and the early pillars of the community burrowed their way deep beneath the ground; that veritable fortress, the female psyche, which few men have been able to penetrate. They discovered the secrets, the tricks and the understanding that led them to success; gold deposits few had ever truly seen before. They left them be, leaving post supports, lights and signs to lead the way for the intrepid few that would follow in their wake.
But that intrepid few would turn into the many.
People of all creeds, mindsets and experiences would flood into the mine, kicking up dirt (bad posts and attitudes) to cloud and mask the gold, casting doubt upon the visitors about the deposits they find. “Is this advice valuable?” they ask, “Or is it untrue?”. Over time the mine became flooded with dirt and grime, the gold still there but ultimately reburied. The lights and guides are still here, left by those who came before and new guides are being established by those new pillars of the community who would lead us to success. But you must persevere to find them.
Sosuave holds the potential for you to become everything you’ve dreamed of, but the way is clouded by those who would wish to misguide you in their own failure and hatred of the world. Success with women is linked to you, to your self improvement and to your own success in other areas of your life. There is a lot of bad advice on these forums, yet there is so much good to find if only you have patience and look a little harder, a little further.
Do not lose faith in this site.
Do not lose faith in yourself.
Do not close your mind to the truth.
Good luck.