HelpYourself
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I ask this because most guys seem to try to get women the same ways:
- They play the social circle game and creep on some girl they're pretending to be friends with but really want to go out with her or get in her pants. They're the guy that makes pointless comments on her facebook updates or hangs out with her when she's shopping or talks to her on the phone about her "secrets."
- They go to bars or clubs, get a little alcohol into their system, and try to act tough and start a fight that they know they probably couldn't win. They don't even intend to fight. They just think by looking macho, they're impressing the girls even though they just look insecure and childish.
- Or just as bad, they rely on luck or meeting someone through a friend or at work. Nothing wrong with either, but you aren't likely to meet what you actually want by having things fall on your lap.
Here's another example. I approached this girl working at one of those mall vendors. I ran some indirect game, pretending I was interested in what she was selling. Not the best approach, but I did it, it was my first approach in a while, and it got me to where I am now. My friend worked in the store next to her, so I went in there and we kind of joked around and I told him how nervous I was. So I told him exactly what I said to her and told him here was his chance, he could go up to her and mimick my approach then introduce himself. He didn't have the balls to do it even though you could tell he was really attracted to her.
He has some social circle girlfriend now, but he will rely on meeting people through people or being opened by girls that aren't HBs for the rest of his life.
- They play the social circle game and creep on some girl they're pretending to be friends with but really want to go out with her or get in her pants. They're the guy that makes pointless comments on her facebook updates or hangs out with her when she's shopping or talks to her on the phone about her "secrets."
- They go to bars or clubs, get a little alcohol into their system, and try to act tough and start a fight that they know they probably couldn't win. They don't even intend to fight. They just think by looking macho, they're impressing the girls even though they just look insecure and childish.
- Or just as bad, they rely on luck or meeting someone through a friend or at work. Nothing wrong with either, but you aren't likely to meet what you actually want by having things fall on your lap.
Here's another example. I approached this girl working at one of those mall vendors. I ran some indirect game, pretending I was interested in what she was selling. Not the best approach, but I did it, it was my first approach in a while, and it got me to where I am now. My friend worked in the store next to her, so I went in there and we kind of joked around and I told him how nervous I was. So I told him exactly what I said to her and told him here was his chance, he could go up to her and mimick my approach then introduce himself. He didn't have the balls to do it even though you could tell he was really attracted to her.
He has some social circle girlfriend now, but he will rely on meeting people through people or being opened by girls that aren't HBs for the rest of his life.