Viper
Banned
Hi, I'm Mike, I just recently turned 15 a few monthes ago and I'm a freshmen in Highschool. I want to know, should I really be afraid to approach cute, good looking women? You see, when I see a good looking girl and I know I want to talk to her, I end up passing up the deal.
These are mostly the things I'm afraid of when approaching women:
1) If she's in a higher grade, like say she's a sophomore or a junior, I'm afraid she won't talk to me because she will think I'm to young or she'll think its dumb that a guy like me thinks they have a chance with a girl like her.
2) Secondly, I'm just not a good conversationlist. During the Washington D.C trip last year, there was this good looking girl in my grade, came up to me randomly and asked
Girl : Hey, Mike, what do you think of the trip so far? Having fun?
Me(In a low, nervous tone) It's been pretty good I guess, I think it's pretty cool checking out all the historical monuments and stuff.
Girl(Really fast, rushing like tone) : Oh, well, that's cool. See you later, hope you enjoy the rest of the trip.
This girl was clearly NOT interested in what I had to say. I'm like this with other girls too, they might ask me something, I'll reply and then, they'll seem uninterested in what I have.
However, this same girl has talked a few other times in the hallway this year [However, she's always by herself], but I'm convinced that she just pitys me, because I pass her several times in the hallway every day between classes and she acts like I'm not even there.
3) I'm afraid that despite the fact that I'm a nice guy, I take showers every morning and I dress well, that girls just won't find me interesting enough.
These are mostly the things I'm afraid of when approaching women:
1) If she's in a higher grade, like say she's a sophomore or a junior, I'm afraid she won't talk to me because she will think I'm to young or she'll think its dumb that a guy like me thinks they have a chance with a girl like her.
2) Secondly, I'm just not a good conversationlist. During the Washington D.C trip last year, there was this good looking girl in my grade, came up to me randomly and asked
Girl : Hey, Mike, what do you think of the trip so far? Having fun?
Me(In a low, nervous tone) It's been pretty good I guess, I think it's pretty cool checking out all the historical monuments and stuff.
Girl(Really fast, rushing like tone) : Oh, well, that's cool. See you later, hope you enjoy the rest of the trip.
This girl was clearly NOT interested in what I had to say. I'm like this with other girls too, they might ask me something, I'll reply and then, they'll seem uninterested in what I have.
However, this same girl has talked a few other times in the hallway this year [However, she's always by herself], but I'm convinced that she just pitys me, because I pass her several times in the hallway every day between classes and she acts like I'm not even there.
3) I'm afraid that despite the fact that I'm a nice guy, I take showers every morning and I dress well, that girls just won't find me interesting enough.