Do I have low testosterone if I’ve lost interest in dating

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

I’m about two months out of a toxic relationship and I feel like all women are the same and a waste of time. In addition, I want a particular type of girl, but I’m only having traction with party girl white women. I do have one girl that I’m talking to, but I just doubt it’s going to ever work out. I just say yes to dates to fill up empty calendar space but when the time gets near I have no interest in going and want to flake out. I also have a friend that takes care of all of my sexual needs so I think this has made me lazy as well! Even if I have low testosterone idk if I want it back either lol.

 

[RangerMIke]

How long were you in this 'toxic' relationship? After my divorce, it took me two years to get back to normal. What you are going through is normal.

Go ahead and keep doing what you are doing, things will get better. But try to focus on your life, you are worried too much about finding a particular chick.

Having said that then yes... you might have low T. Just go to the doctor and get that checked out just to rule it out but really you are just have a post sh1tty relationship drag.

 

[metalwater]

the friend that is taking care of the sex maybe is also filling some of the other needs quietly.

 

[SW15]

The only way you'll know for sure is with a medical test. A lot of dating stinks and isn't fun. Saying that and feeling that isn't a sign of low T.

@Jake_Gyllenhaal69 -- It seems like you are having sex, which is a good sign for your T and also good for T.

 

[Robert28]

Sounds like mild depression more than low T. If more guys had a friend like yours we’d all agree to have women friends lol

 

[Smok1nAce]

Empty sex will kill your drive for anything meaningful.

 

[SW15]

I’m only having traction with party girl white women.

Party girl white women have a shelf life. It's not recommended to put a ring on that type of woman.

 

[Maxxx17]

I was in a toxic relationship for over a year, so don't be surprised if you lose interest. I didn't want to date or have a serious relationship so I went on the fling dating website and had fun there to feel something. Think carefully about whether you should be dating now or if you should wait out this difficult time.

 

[Dr.Suave]

I think you are in a great position, you just havent realized it. Since there is a freind taking care of your sexual desires, you can date girls and quickly drop them if they are not ltr/wife material.

 

[SargeMaximus]

No, it doesn't necessarily mean that. Read Eccesiastes

I can’t believe what I’m reading

 

[Striker_93]

Depression, recent bad dating experiences or just burnt out.....don't worry about it, your 26, you have many more dating experiences.

Take this time to chill and get some things in order, you will be ready to go in no time.....

 

[EyeBRollin]

It doesn’t get better, bro. I’m 32 and burnt out of women altogether.