Do i call her on it?

[Krassus]

This girl i know seems to be really into me. She's usually the one to contact me first and seems very interested in me overall. Sometimes she calls me 'love' or 'hunny' and says girly things like 'i wish you were here to keep me warm' over the phone. Right, so it seems pretty obvious. But she's a virgin. And claims that she only sees me as a friend. So what's the deal here? Should i call her on it and see if we can take it further or perhaps try more of an active approach that involves more doing and less talking? I know she's not just a tease too - she's got long-term AFC buddies and she doesn't talk to them the way she talks to me.

UPDATE:

Thanks for the advice guys. Dank, there's a little more to the story. See, i met her just before she went away to college. And now her family moved away, so even though she's coming home for the holidays, her home isn't here anymore. So we haven't seen eachother for awhile, but i can tell her interest level is rising. Recently, she's been saying that she's gonna come visit me here in the summer, and asking me if i'd like to visit her. And calling/IMing me pretty damn often. I'm near-certain that she's got feelings for me, but the decision i'm faced with is whether i should try to get her to admit it to me/herself already, or wait til the summer and just fvck her brains out then. As for flirting, we flirt heavily all the time. I'm getting damn good at C&F and neg-hitting and she's actually good at both herself, which is probably why i continue talking to her - its just FUN and we both laugh constantly!

 

[Kodiac]

Originally posted by Krassus
try more of an active approach that involves more doing and less talking?

BINGO BABY!!!!

 

[retrievher]

tell her to put on a sweatshirt , then hang up. Then think of three other girls who are just as cool but aren't messing with your head.

If you haven't tried to hook up with her, try, make that your focus. Even virgins like a little messing around, even if you don't do the nasty.

 

[DankNuggs]

Seeing as she's come onto you several times, and your here asking what to do, you obviously choked on the opportunities to be flirty and instead emasculated yourself....Thats why she thinks of you as a friend...

I'd say you should live your life on the active approach...especially if attractive girls that you like are flirting with you...

 

[Krassus]

x

 

[Tryin to Grow a Chin]

It sounds like she's an attention-wh0re who sees you as 'just a friend' or as a cuddle-bytch. But as long as you're enjoying yourself keep going and see what happens.

 

[Eileen]

Oh where's my brick. You need a good shot upside the head.

Don't let girls play you that way. If she talks like that to you either A) do something about it ... more action less talk. or B) tell her you don't talk to "friends" in that manner and you'd appriciate it if she didn't talk to you in that manner unless she means it. If she ignores you and continues to talk that way but says you're only friends, stop talking to her.

Know your boundries.

 

[Charisma]

Wtf she is not messing with his head, she was sending out mad signals. It's his own damn fault, it's the same as you looking a girl straight in the eyes in a bar, and expecting her to ask for your number, haven't you read anything on this site, it doesn't work that way, and that's a great thing ...

 

[badger]

Seems to me you're shy, you need something to break the ice. You need to act decisively otherwise she'll always see you as "just a friend" I was in the same situation a few years ago, here's what I did. I call 'round to this girls house with my nob hanging out my trousers by "accident." She invited me in. (I made sure she was on her own) I sat talking for over half an hour until she noticed. She was getting redder and redder until she finally pointed to my "thing" and she left the room. Now I don't mind admitting I'm hung like a horse and I think this must of scared her because she never spoke to me again. I reckon the size frightened her. But she must have told all her friends because from that day I had loads of her mates calling me for a date.

 

[THA REALNESS]

I'm not one to verbalize stuff like that "GIVE ME SEX B!YTCH!!" you just sort of gotta let it be known that you wanna hit it with out saying it .


If you only wanna bang her just isolate her and try and go for it.If she's not into it fall back and next her. But if your not really sure or if you do like her you gotta man it out and wait.

What i like to use is "FREEZE-A-SKANK" .
What is FREEZE-A-SKANK ????

FREEZE-A-SKANK is a magical little dating cream that helps you put pestering afchicks aside you really don't wanna next but don't really wanna keep around you.

HOW DOES IT WORK???It's EEEEAASSSYYY all you gotta do is rub FREEZE A SKANK all over your testicles (like i'm doing right now!!!!)
YOU FEEL THAT TINGLY FEELING THAT MEANS IT'S WORKING!!

Now all you gotta like a do is go after the Afchick in question and act like a total azzhole the goal is to put her off to you for a considerable amount of time but not tottally . The DEAL Sealer Is Demanding Sex from her !!! This will tottaly piss her off (it might not!you never know ...No refunds ...no refunds) and the FREEZE A SKANK creme will take it's action putting her in doubt as to whetr your her guy ,and at the same time ensuring her that you are indeed attracted to her .Her immeduate reaction willbe to avoid you for a couple of weeks putting herself on FREEZE.

AND GET THIS THE FIRST 100 CALLERS CAN GET FREEZE A SKANK for just 9.99 ....
9.99 !!!! AAARRGHH!!!

 

[Krassus]

LOL! I forgot about the first rule of the boards - everyone reads the top post and nothing below! The additional info that was in the 4th post have now been moved to the top one. I suggest the 5 posters above this one take notice

 

[Dee-Zy]

Originally posted by retrievher
tell her to put on a sweatshirt , then hang up. Then think of three other girls who are just as cool but aren't messing with your head.

If you haven't tried to hook up with her, try, make that your focus. Even virgins like a little messing around, even if you don't do the nasty.

I like this guy ... this is going into my sig.

Everything has been said already ... I have a feeling Realness has some interesting insights - but I couldn't understand half of what he said.

anyways. Action action action is your key. retrievher has the right state of mind you need though.

Everything that needs to be said has been said.