Do girls go long time without sex also?

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I have been dry probably little over a year, and not very proud of it, but sh!t, what can a guy do but become a better Juan to tap those as$es?

But I was curious about one thing; there's this cute chick I would like to bang and while talking with her, I just wondered do girls go long time without sex like guys do (sometimes we do, c'mon, not everyone gets pus$y like every week) because she broke up with her bf probably couple months. I was just curious. I mean, girls get so much more option than guys do b/c it's common sense girls get offered sex all the time right? so what is it?
 

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No, even the fatties and uglies get their fair share. The only women who are going long periods without is the children and the elder.

You have to realize women get hit on a lot during the days,weeks, and months.
 

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They rebound quite rapidly. Most likely within weeks and most likely for narcissistic self validation. Use this knowledge in your advantage.
 

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I think this is going to depend on the morale/values of the individual.

Certainly there are men (including myself) who is extremely self-disciplined and is not affected by undying need to release my sex drive. I have gone for months without sex and wasn't bothered.

Same as out there for women who prefer sex as an intimate tool in a relationship than ONS or hump/dump scenarios.

Good luck.

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From my experience every third woman, so that is
30% of the woman I slept with, deliberatly told me
after having sex with me, that this was their first sex after
a long time. (typical ranges 1- 2 years). Even so what I hear
and observe from my female friends.
I doubt that they are all lying about it.

So it seems pretty sure, that woman as well suffer
longer periods without sex. Of course the reason is different from men.
Man typically run dry due to lack of oppotunities.
Woman typically run dry, because they are choosy and "everything must feel right" before they go for it.

All in all my impression that for woman they do not suffer as
much (but for sure they suffer) from dry periods as man do.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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some women really are very very picky and have a certain type and don't screw around until they find it...or that type of guy opens them up....the others which are the majority by far just slut it up with any guy of high social status
 

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Only if they choose to do so. Have you ever heard of a woman who can't get sex or a relationship? I sure as hell haven't.

I don't believe sh*t a b**ch says. Like when they say that they don't worry about a man's money, they care about what's inside. These same women will get wet for an average guy who's driving in a Bentley!
 

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Age is a big factor as Fatal Jay elluded to.

19 to 27 and in a long dry spell = super picky (ie waiting for the tatooed techno dj from the nightclub to text her) or F-ing lying lol

28 to 36 and in a long dry spell = moderately picky and using toys at home reading 50 S h ades while waiting for the LA F I t ness personal trainer to text her to schedule a "session."

37+ and in a long dry spell = won't F her husband anymore but lies and tells everybody that HE is the one who doesn't want to do it. She tried, but he's just a guy that won't put out LOL.
 

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damn kind of sad, but I must admit, can't trust nothing a female says as pook said judge from actions not words; I wonder if they have any sense of obligation to honesty and integrity sometimes. Well, it seems clear that even an average guy of asian descent like me can score some poon if I show high status and confidence, what can a guy do but keep improving. haha
 

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moneyisking said:
damn kind of sad, but I must admit, can't trust nothing a female says as pook said judge from actions not words; I wonder if they have any sense of obligation to honesty and integrity sometimes.

Women lie a LOT. They do it so much they don't even realize it. It's kind of funny actually. It's not that they do it to be evil (most of the time lol). They think they are protecting their reputation or protecting someone's feelings.

This is one reason why you rarely get good advice from females. Good advice requires brutal honesty.



Well, it seems clear that even an average guy of asian descent like me can score some poon if I show high status and confidence, what can a guy do but keep improving. haha
In general, all guys can do is improve.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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lol mike that is pretty funny that you point it out b/c a girl sends me txt saying "what you doing?" and I reply "studying you?" and she says she has no plans for the night, but as soon as I text her if she wants to go out for a drink, she tells me she was getting ready to go out to a bar and I am welcome to come over; jesus christ, it will be my wedding day when I find a girl who is half as honest as I am.
 

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bradd80 said:
Some 9's I've dated have told me they have gone 2 years and longer without banging.. they seemed pretty convincing but with women you never know what the truth is your guess is as good as mine

Agreed.

I believe some of them. However, for them it's always their choice. It's never a choice when a guys in a dry spell
 

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moneyisking said:
lol mike that is pretty funny that you point it out b/c a girl sends me txt saying "what you doing?" and I reply "studying you?" and she says she has no plans for the night, but as soon as I text her if she wants to go out for a drink, she tells me she was getting ready to go out to a bar and I am welcome to come over; jesus christ, it will be my wedding day when I find a girl who is half as honest as I am.
Haha. I got a better one...

I've been having my hair colored for so long that I didn't realize just how gray my hair actually is.

Last year, I got a buzz cut, so I ended up going to work completely gray for a couple of months until it grew back long enough to color it again. (It wasn't a good experiment lol, but that's not the point of my story.)

After I got it re-colored, I mentioned to a femle coworker, "I'm glad I got the hair color back where it was." It didn't matter that I said that. The proverbial cat was out of the bag anyway.

She replied, "You color it? I never noticed that you color it."

She saw it go from brown to gray and back to brown.

But she never noticed that I color it :crackup: .


Anyway, always keep your BS detector on the high setting when dealing with women. It's not personal. It's just how they operate.

But back to the main topic, icongnito nailed it.

A female dry spell is by choice.

As a guy who has had dry spells in excess of two years sometimes, I can assure you that, for men, it isn't a choice.
 

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I once read somewhere that most women place as much value on sex as we do on kissing. It's nice, it's fun, we'd rather do it than not do it, but it's not like we'll go crazy if we don't kiss anyone for a while..whereas most of us will be going pretty crazy if we don't cvm in about a week or so
 

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bradd80 said:
Some 9's I've dated have told me they have gone 2 years and longer without banging.. they seemed pretty convincing but with women you never know what the truth is your guess is as good as mine
Some 9's I'm friends with have told me the same thing.

Makes me wonder if they even enjoy it at all.
 

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Not IME. They can't go but a couple of months without ****, and will cheat on their SO's in a heartbeat to get it. This, while denying being *****s, or viewing sex as a high priority. HA HA.

Women love / miss / focus on sex and "looks" just as much as men do, and will practically throw themselves at anybody and everybody who's attractive enough to get it. ONS', FWBs, cheating, playing, lying - they do all that ****. And they WILL break up or cheat on you over a lack of sex - even if you're off in another country somewhere.

However, they will lie, deny, blame, and make up excuses throughout. "Oh, I NEVER have sex; I don't need it; it's not important; I can go years without it; I'm not a *****." Again: HA HA. :nono:
 

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@mike and incognito: kind of sad that for men, it isn't a choice most of times; probably there are very few men out there to whom, it is actually a choice to not have sex with women. I bet that requires some serious high value, money, looks, etc. I heard Keanu Reeves didn't date anyone ever since his fiance died or something, but nothing proved though. What a guy gota do to be so attractive that he can actually choose to have sex or not whenever he wants hahaha amazing. and mike, i agree, nothing personal with them, but sometimes I think female brain is just wired differently

@sage, pdx, floyd: ya, I really haven't figured out if girls REALLY mean it when they say they don't put much importance on sex or they are just bullsh!tting. I hear some DJs say girls are as horny as we are, and some say it's not important to them very much, so wtf? I think girls clearly love attention, but not 100% if they love sex as much as we do....... probably love the personality + looks/appearance the guy she is banging, but maybe sex is secondary thing?
 

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I don't think girls get offered sex all the time, I think it depends on how good the girl looks. I know a few models who have no shortage of men lining up. I know other girls who guys ignore and don't respond to texts or calls (myself included), or would care if they were naked in front of them because they don't look good.

I've had hot girls put me down, stand me up, insult me, make fun of me, I still go back and spend money on them. I've had not girls slightly put me down, I have made them cry and almost hit them.

All depends on what society values, and they value the hot ones.
 

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All depends on the girl. A ho-ho will hoe. A decent girl will wait for a bf. There are some that swing to both poles.

But--pound for pound, a female can get laid pretty much at will. Even an HB2 can find a beefstick to ride somehow, somewhere, on any given night, with or without alcohol or a low-cut sweater.
 

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sageproduct said:
I once read somewhere that most women place as much value on sex as we do on kissing. It's nice, it's fun, we'd rather do it than not do it, but it's not like we'll go crazy if we don't kiss anyone for a while..whereas most of us will be going pretty crazy if we don't cvm in about a week or so
wow, sage, golden. It IS like a kiss to them. They can get tapped (kissed) anytime, Anywhere. Sex is not as sacred as a kiss. Further, I'd wager that women today regard passionate kissing as more valued than sex. Birth control, contraceptives, abortion, the ability to never get pregnant by accident makes sex less than kissing in feeling for a woman. And I don't get women always acting like they're fvcking one another as a man would, you know bending her gf over a table and simulating fvcking her with her cl!t. I know they're goofing around but it's all too common these days. Girls simulate fvcking each other through their clothes out in public. I know it's a taunt or a tease to any onlooking guy because THEY KNOW that, like dogs, we whimper and salivate and covet gettin some, yet they parade in front of some that, now in this world today, They can get not only sex from a man anytime anywhere, but Now, it's "I get just get sexed up by or sex up, my willing gf(s). We can do it Anytime, in the privacy of our own dorm, house, sorority, apartment, even go at it in public, cause Anything goes these days, no one questions, no one remembers, no one is "judged" everything is forgotten, we are ALL anonymous, just animals now." Even "CHRISTIAN" girls are doing the simulating fvcking her girlfriend out in public or at a house party/get together 4th of july whatever, they'll start goofing off like that (I'm talkin late 20s early 30s yet get them in front of kinda serious "adult" christians with families and they'd be all prude and proper, Shearrrrr acting, I'm amazed at it). But these displays of simulating humping her gf(s) is just a signal to Any onlooking guy that, "oh yeah, we DO fvck each other, for Real...or maybe we don't Hah! we love using whatever we can, Your most Base desires to get you to Pay Attention to Us. We lap that attention right up, as always, we so badas5 (girls)" Guys, you Do know that whenever one of them does that dry-humpin sh!t in front of you, it's 90% certain that they get naked and fvck each other with their little cl!ts routinely behind closed doors in secret. *as an aside, my dad once told me that women used to Never have sex with each other, that they'd be shunned, and it was SO rare, in fact, he'd never even ever heard of women doing that sh!t back then, no one ever heard of it Or expected to hear of it, it wouldn't even of crossed their minds/eyes for the entirety of their known lives. Everybody just lived Normal lives with common sense. Woman on woman wasn't even Heard of back then according to dad.

Nothing separates us, especially women nowadays, from the animal kingdom. It's gotten to this point. Our leaders do the same and are responsible for opening these floodgates of wh0redom here. A woman, you know they talk to one another almost telepathically all the time, so Most women, KNOW about our disenfranchisement and they like to play and tease, it's funny to them to do a take-away. They get off on it. The flakes. All these fvckin games. They KNOW that you pine for the po0n. And they use your emotions of one track mind hell-bent on sex against you. It's how Man used to do to women, we used to use their emotions for what we thought they valued the most against them, to get into their panties. But now, today, women don't really show us any cards of what they value cause they're already getting what they want from Multiple sources (white knight chump dudes).

I've been "dry" since October..kinda by choice.
 

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