Do females ever grow up?

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You know, many people have asked the same question to me. They said, you acted so quickly to end the marriage, what did I love about her. I really do not know. I guess I am remembering the good times, and not factoring in the bad times. Strangely enough, the bad times didn't show until after the marriage contract was signed. The only thing I can say is that once trust is broken, I knew I needed to exit the marriage. I looked at marriage as a business contract. When a partner or employee is not working with the team, you fire them, and that was what I had to do. I did try to stupidly work on the marriage, but had no cooperation from her. So, it was bittersweet. Happy, because the albatross was gone. Upset because of the range of emotions and how she turned into such a cold and heartless woman. I only found out about her true feelings after over hearing her conversations with friends and parents. There is no trust, loyalty and honesty in marriage anymore. It's one of the main reasons why I do not recommend marriage for anyone. I know I made the right decision. I felt my hands were tied during the marriage. Felt like I was in prison.

The lesson is, if your gut says not to do something, don't do it. The key is, should a person learn the truth, stay with the status quo in terms of your behavior while you plan your exit strategy. In the 21st century, nothing seems to be long lasting or permanent. A shame what feminism has done to the modern woman.
Not that simple once kids are in the mix. Look at Brad Pitt, that's the picture of what marrying the wrong woman and having kids with her can do to event the most successful and handsome men. He will be stuck dealing with that harpy for a long time, even after all of the custody issues have been "decided" by the courts. Imagine him behaving like his glamorous ex-wife is behaving right now? You guessed it, they'd lock him up, take away any rights to his kids that he has and that'd be it. She behaves like that? It's a never ending battle for him, slowly draining off his finances and her with a harpy grin on her face. Yep, there's your feminine equality in America boys. If you have kids, you better have the best legal framework in place that anyone could ever imagine. That and the best legal team millions and millions of dollarsg can buy.
Feminism and the western culture made marriage a SATANIC ritual. Lol. How saddening.
 

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Not that simple once kids are in the mix. Look at Brad Pitt, that's the picture of what marrying the wrong woman and having kids with her can do to event the most successful and handsome men. He will be stuck dealing with that harpy for a long time, even after all of the custody issues have been "decided" by the courts. Imagine him behaving like his glamorous ex-wife is behaving right now? You guessed it, they'd lock him up, take away any rights to his kids that he has and that'd be it. She behaves like that? It's a never ending battle for him, slowly draining off his finances and her with a harpy grin on her face. Yep, there's your feminine equality in America boys. If you have kids, you better have the best legal framework in place that anyone could ever imagine. That and the best legal team millions and millions of dollars can buy.
Who said marriage or divorce was simple. It isn't. It's probably the single most important (detrimental) decision can make in his life. Point is, if you've made a mistake, fix it ASAP. I believe even Rollo and Cooper agree with the synopsis that you shouldn't have offspring with a woman for at least five years. Most women cannot keep up their false face for that long. My ex-wife changed around five years as well. It one of the reasons why the term sleeping with the enemy came about. It's crazy how many things fall apart when one feels too comfortable in a marriage and doesn't try any longer. In order for a marriage to be successful, many psychologists believe that each partner puts the other one first. Most do not do that. They put themselves first. One could say that helped destroy the institution of marriage. Marriage is a union of two people, not one. Until people start treating it as that again, marriage is doomed. The sad fact is, most men who've been through the divorce ringer are not willing to go through it again. So, a good many men are just opting out. When the woman walks, they just show them the door (including myself). We just refuse to open our hearts up like that again. The juice is not worth the squeeze. It's just not worth it.
 

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Cindi Lauper nailed it, period. The only unforgivable sin in this game is boredom.
Two sentences of timeless, divine truth right there.

The problem is that guys get confounded because when girls say they "like funny guys" or "want a guy who can make me laugh", guys think they mean someone who is entertaining in a comedic sense. But they mean guys who are emotionally exciting and can make them feel emotionally excited. Kindness and entertainment does not make a woman happy. The antithesis of female happiness is emotional boredom, that is, a lack of visceral and spontaneous emotion. Emotional excitement is womens' happiness.
 

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Two sentences of timeless, divine truth right there.

The problem is that guys get confounded because when girls say they "like funny guys" or "want a guy who can make me laugh", guys think they mean someone who is entertaining in a comedic sense. But they mean guys who are emotionally exciting and can make them feel emotionally excited. Kindness and entertainment does not make a woman happy. The antithesis of female happiness is emotional boredom, that is, a lack of visceral and spontaneous emotion. Emotional excitement is womens' happiness.
Or, in more layman's terms, a guy who makes their pvssy tingle and wet.
 

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Or, in more layman's terms, a guy who makes their pvssy tingle and wet.
Haha, sure. But that may also happen because a guy has looks and/or power, perhaps even money. Although I suppose those things also make her excited anyway....
 

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Females will be little girls until the day they die,that's ok..I will be their daddy.
 

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Who said marriage or divorce was simple. It isn't. It's probably the single most important (detrimental) decision can make in his life. Point is, if you've made a mistake, fix it ASAP. I believe even Rollo and Cooper agree with the synopsis that you shouldn't have offspring with a woman for at least five years. Most women cannot keep up their false face for that long. My ex-wife changed around five years as well. It one of the reasons why the term sleeping with the enemy came about. It's crazy how many things fall apart when one feels too comfortable in a marriage and doesn't try any longer. In order for a marriage to be successful, many psychologists believe that each partner puts the other one first. Most do not do that. They put themselves first. One could say that helped destroy the institution of marriage. Marriage is a union of two people, not one. Until people start treating it as that again, marriage is doomed. The sad fact is, most men who've been through the divorce ringer are not willing to go through it again. So, a good many men are just opting out. When the woman walks, they just show them the door (including myself). We just refuse to open our hearts up like that again. The juice is not worth the squeeze. It's just not worth it.
Are you MGTOW or more GYOW, no cohabitation or marriage?

I subscribe closer to the latter ideal. Its incomprehensible for me to imagine how men swear away their resources to women along with their sexual access. It blows my ****ing mind.

One of my mates is learning to code and program. Another is learning e-com. Another is learning video editing and photography.
 

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Are you MGTOW or more GYOW, no cohabitation or marriage?

I subscribe closer to the latter ideal. Its incomprehensible for me to imagine how men swear away their resources to women along with their sexual access. It blows my ****ing mind.

One of my mates is learning to code and program. Another is learning e-com. Another is learning video editing and photography.
I do not believe I'd ever do a co-hab again, but I never say never. Should I ever co-hab, it would include a thick co-habitation agreement such as John Cena's (we actually have the same atty firm in NYC). However, I'd never do marriage again. There is nothing in it for me. It sounds nice in theory, but I lived 2.5 years of marriage and 2.2 years of divorce. Pure hell.
 

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I do not believe I'd ever do a co-hab again, but I never say never. Should I ever co-hab, it would include a thick co-habitation agreement such as John Cena's (we actually have the same atty firm in NYC).
I saw a TFM vid. Courts over ruled a prenup.

I run a tight ship. No cohab. No marriage. 3 dates. Smash or next!

However, I'd never do marriage again. There is nothing in it for me. It sounds nice in theory, but I lived 2.5 years of marriage and 2.2 years of divorce. Pure hell.
Are you a comedian? I actually LOL'd.

I am a fan of Jordan Peterson. After a RSDTyler podcast, he recommended seeking out opposite views and perspective (say, if you are a Republican, read and learn about Democrats to argue your point better). Contrary to his piece of advice. Despite my values, lifestyle choices, my view of women, open hypergamy, and the absurd divorce stat initiated by women not to mention the cucking. I think he's mostly Right but, blindsided by his resources and being #1 in his profession. He couldn't climb higher then he is now IMHO nor could his wife do better. No doubt, he sure could simply finding younger.

I think marriage was once a good thing but it's no a con job. Its foolish and there are much cheaper means of getting laid.
 

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I saw a TFM vid. Courts over ruled a prenup.

I run a tight ship. No cohab. No marriage. 3 dates. Smash or next!



Are you a comedian? I actually LOL'd.

I am a fan of Jordan Peterson. After a RSDTyler podcast, he recommended seeking out opposite views and perspective (say, if you are a Republican, read and learn about Democrats to argue your point better). Contrary to his piece of advice. Despite my values, lifestyle choices, my view of women, open hypergamy, and the absurd divorce stat initiated by women not to mention the cucking. I think he's mostly Right but, blindsided by his resources and being #1 in his profession. He couldn't climb higher then he is now IMHO nor could his wife do better. No doubt, he sure could simply finding younger.

I think marriage was once a good thing but it's no a con job. Its foolish and there are much cheaper means of getting laid.
Co-habitation agreement is not a pre-nup. Pre-nups are toilet paper since the one in New York was thrown out in 2013. Co-habitation agreement is an agreement or business contract between two people, no license. None have ever been thrown out due to anything aside from fraudulent conveyance. Besides, all my assets are in an irrevocable trust, so I'm judgement and lien proof.

The RSD dude is bi-polar and a loser. Heck, just listen to what Rollo and Rich said about Tyler and his alter-ego. The bro is a L-O-S-E-R.

I have a lot of respect for Dr. Peterson. He's in support of men's rights and agrees that marriage in the US and CA is dangerous. In a perfect world, it would be great. However, this is not possible.

Sad, but true story. My ex-wife's cousin, nicest guy in the world. A bit gullible, but a decent guy. Married his first wife, hot blonde, but psycho. Spawned two kids, divorced him, took the house. A few years later met this Arab woman at work (they are both registered nurses). Converted to her religion, had a religious marriage, gave up the dietary requirements. Spawned another two kids with her and she stops working. All she does is post all day on Facebook and eat donuts. This poor guy is poorer than dirt. He's paying child support for his first two kids and supporting his current wife and two kids on one salary. Six people on a nurses salary. The guy works six days every week. If he's lucky, he'll die from the stress in a few years. A few years ago at Christmas, he asked his brother and my ex-wife's father for 10 bucks.

So much for love.

Second story is from a friend of mine. He is a doctor in Manhattan. Married a woman 30 years younger than him and had a kid. Things started to fall apart and they are legally separated. He pays for her apt in the city, his apt in the city and takes care of the kid 5 days a week. She's riding different penises all the time apparently. He's also paying her City mandated child support. This genius wanted to get back at her penis riding, so he knocks up another woman who already had two kids of her own. He's now supporting 3 apts in Manhattan. One in the village, on in mid-town and one on the East Side. FOOL. The man grosses 300k a year. With all of his expenses he's broke each month and circling bankruptcy. I offer advice, I do not lend money to people.

This is what marriage brings you in the 21st century.

NO THANK YOU. I learned my lesson and reversed the curse as soon as I was legally able. Pvssy is great. I am a big fan of it. Play with it, don't marry it.
 

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their sex drive goes up because their mind is more desperate for validation which they no longer get in any significant way compared to their youth based on looks
Yep! It's not LUST. It's thirst for validation. To show they still got it. If they lock down some sucker with that fake sex drive hell find d out she doesn't even really like sex.
 

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Co-habitation agreement is not a pre-nup. Pre-nups are toilet paper since the one in New York was thrown out in 2013. Co-habitation agreement is an agreement or business contract between two people, no license. None have ever been thrown out due to anything aside from fraudulent conveyance. Besides, all my assets are in an irrevocable trust, so I'm judgement and lien proof.

The RSD dude is bi-polar and a loser. Heck, just listen to what Rollo and Rich said about Tyler and his alter-ego. The bro is a L-O-S-E-R.

I have a lot of respect for Dr. Peterson. He's in support of men's rights and agrees that marriage in the US and CA is dangerous. In a perfect world, it would be great. However, this is not possible.

Sad, but true story. My ex-wife's cousin, nicest guy in the world. A bit gullible, but a decent guy. Married his first wife, hot blonde, but psycho. Spawned two kids, divorced him, took the house. A few years later met this Arab woman at work (they are both registered nurses). Converted to her religion, had a religious marriage, gave up the dietary requirements. Spawned another two kids with her and she stops working. All she does is post all day on Facebook and eat donuts. This poor guy is poorer than dirt. He's paying child support for his first two kids and supporting his current wife and two kids on one salary. Six people on a nurses salary. The guy works six days every week. If he's lucky, he'll die from the stress in a few years. A few years ago at Christmas, he asked his brother and my ex-wife's father for 10 bucks.

So much for love.

Second story is from a friend of mine. He is a doctor in Manhattan. Married a woman 30 years younger than him and had a kid. Things started to fall apart and they are legally separated. He pays for her apt in the city, his apt in the city and takes care of the kid 5 days a week. She's riding different penises all the time apparently. He's also paying her City mandated child support. This genius wanted to get back at her penis riding, so he knocks up another woman who already had two kids of her own. He's now supporting 3 apts in Manhattan. One in the village, on in mid-town and one on the East Side. FOOL. The man grosses 300k a year. With all of his expenses he's broke each month and circling bankruptcy. I offer advice, I do not lend money to people.

This is what marriage brings you in the 21st century.

NO THANK YOU. I learned my lesson and reversed the curse as soon as I was legally able. Pvssy is great. I am a big fan of it. Play with it, don't marry it.
RUG, i was fortunate to come from a long family line of non marriers. I had uncles that had girlfriends their entire lives. They traveled all over the world.. hunted, fished, drank when they wanted, golfed when they wanted, went out with friends when they wanted. They have tons of money and are happier and healthier than the married guys their age. They all told me to avoid marriage at all costs. Well actually they said if you must... marry a rich, fat chick that loves cooking !!
 

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RUG, i was fortunate to come from a long family line of non marriers. I had uncles that had girlfriends their entire lives. They traveled all over the world.. hunted, fished, drank when they wanted, golfed when they wanted, went out with friends when they wanted. They have tons of money and are happier and healthier than the married guys their age. They all told me to avoid marriage at all costs. Well actually they said if you must... marry a rich, fat chick that loves cooking !!
Cooking and fvcking
 

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Co-habitation agreement is not a pre-nup. Pre-nups are toilet paper since the one in New York was thrown out in 2013. Co-habitation agreement is an agreement or business contract between two people, no license. None have ever been thrown out due to anything aside from fraudulent conveyance. Besides, all my assets are in an irrevocable trust, so I'm judgement and lien proof.
Its just not a game I will ever play.

The RSD dude is bi-polar and a loser. Heck, just listen to what Rollo and Rich said about Tyler and his alter-ego. The bro is a L-O-S-E-R.
Probably but, he's what you would deem a incel and yet, game + million dollar biz. On the RMG group, they were actually critical of Tyler but pointed out a fat, nerdy, strange guy that gets laid. Yes. They made point to the marketing machine. IMHO, Julian Blanc is a sociopath but the GOAT. The best I've seen to date.

Peterson is special. He's a trade con of the net. He's a relic from another time.

Sad, but true story. My ex-wife's cousin, nicest guy in the world. A bit gullible, but a decent guy. Married his first wife, hot blonde, but psycho. Spawned two kids, divorced him, took the house. A few years later met this Arab woman at work (they are both registered nurses). Converted to her religion, had a religious marriage, gave up the dietary requirements. Spawned another two kids with her and she stops working. All she does is post all day on Facebook and eat donuts. This poor guy is poorer than dirt. He's paying child support for his first two kids and supporting his current wife and two kids on one salary. Six people on a nurses salary. The guy works six days every week. If he's lucky, he'll die from the stress in a few years. A few years ago at Christmas, he asked his brother and my ex-wife's father for 10 bucks.
Most women in the west are sitting around eating donuts no?

So much for love.

Second story is from a friend of mine. He is a doctor in Manhattan. Married a woman 30 years younger than him and had a kid. Things started to fall apart and they are legally separated. He pays for her apt in the city, his apt in the city and takes care of the kid 5 days a week. She's riding different penises all the time apparently. He's also paying her City mandated child support. This genius wanted to get back at her penis riding, so he knocks up another woman who already had two kids of her own. He's now supporting 3 apts in Manhattan. One in the village, on in mid-town and one on the East Side. FOOL. The man grosses 300k a year. With all of his expenses he's broke each month and circling bankruptcy. I offer advice, I do not lend money to people.
This is why I like RSDTyler. If there's an example of "low born," is there any other? High functioning but autistic? Fat. Short. Ginger. Weird. Multi millionaire. Built a biz from the ground up. IMHO there's nothing more red pill then entrepreneurship.

I suspect you're a fair bit older. Seen some ****. At thirty, I have never married but, seven years of cold approach wiok to something to a man. Its never been more enlightening. There's what Stardust refers to as "post red pill malaise." Its beyond red pill rage. Its not about anger at self for years of blue pill happily ever after Disney-fication nonsense. Its beyond anger at women for ****ty or disgusting behavior cuckoldry. The malaise is a period of ambiguity. Its that loss of self concept.

The meaning one once had is lost. Its coinciding with black pill futility. As in, no matter how hard you work, no matter how good a provider, father or lover, female nature is always seeking to trade up. This is what but is but when the law injects female hypergamy with steroids. Laws pander to the feminine biological strategy.

This herein lies the reasoning and afterthought of the NECESSITY OF MALE ADAPTATION AND EVOLUTION.

This is what marriage brings you in the 21st century.

NO THANK YOU. I learned my lesson and reversed the curse as soon as I was legally able. Pvssy is great. I am a big fan of it. Play with it, don't marry it.
I'VE pulled, blown on a girls face, had her swallow, no sex as in, **** in vag etc. Its got to be screened for BPD.

What's your goal?
 

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Great thread, wish it was legal to say knock her ****ing teeth out, but it's not so I won't.
 

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Well this one is very simple: at around 35 and 38/39, their looks and physicality are failing them; they are unable to attract anywhere near the same amount of guys they were in their early 30s, let alone their 20s. And yes, they are looking for their "last big contract", but in a biological sense. Who knows how many kids are kids of bad boys and junkies and riders who are brought to life and brought up from the husbands of these women since they don't know the kids are not theirs!

That is why I always say "A man cheats, it's not biggie in the big picture. A woman cheats at any point and she's probably playing a very ****ing over biological game, it might just get this man's genes extinct".
 

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Well this one is very simple: at around 35 and 38/39, their looks and physicality are failing them; they are unable to attract anywhere near the same amount of guys they were in their early 30s, let alone their 20s. And yes, they are looking for their "last big contract", but in a biological sense. Who knows how many kids are kids of bad boys and junkies and riders who are brought to life and brought up from the husbands of these women since they don't know the kids are not theirs!

That is why I always say "A man cheats, it's not biggie in the big picture. A woman cheats at any point and she's probably playing a very ****ing over biological game, it might just get this man's genes extinct".
Exactly !!! I’ve had a girl tell me she was divorced... as we are about to fck she tells me we don’t need a rubber... I’m clean and you look clean! Then proceeds to tell me to blow it in her because she has the morning after pill. I said time for me to go. She freaks out and starts balling I leave and it turns out she wasn’t divorced. See pics on social media 10 months later of her and her husband welcoming a baby to their family ! God knows what her slutty plan was... glad I ran !
 

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Cooking and fvcking
Many cannot do either right. That's the problem. You ask one to cook, she heads to the microwave. WTF?

RUG, i was fortunate to come from a long family line of non marriers. I had uncles that had girlfriends their entire lives. They traveled all over the world.. hunted, fished, drank when they wanted, golfed when they wanted, went out with friends when they wanted. They have tons of money and are happier and healthier than the married guys their age. They all told me to avoid marriage at all costs. Well actually they said if you must... marry a rich, fat chick that loves cooking !!
I couldn't be with a woman I am not attracted to. Plus, big people smell in the hot months. Marry? You must be crazy. Rather play the game or go MGTOW at worse case scenerio. In the WCS, I always have spare money to pay for various forms of entertainment.
 

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Many cannot do either right. That's the problem. You ask one to cook, she heads to the microwave. WTF?



I couldn't be with a woman I am not attracted to. Plus, big people smell in the hot months. Marry? You must be crazy. Rather play the game or go MGTOW at worse case scenerio. In the WCS, I always have spare money to pay for various forms of entertainment.
Lol trust me I’m not going with a big woman! I’m also not getting married ! 38 years old and I see so many guys my age giving up on life because of their wife ! I always joke that my life feels like a vacation. My neighbor was an outstanding college athlete, pulled tons of puss in his day. Now he is nearing 300lbs... has 3 kids... a wife that doesn’t work.. spends his money and makes him shuffle their kids around all over! He always comments man... it must be nice. We all make choices in life. I chose freedom! The irony in that is females are drawn to that... it’s like they can’t wait to throw themselves at you... and try and get you to screw up that life!!!
 
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