DJ's HELP! should i go for it NOW..?

[yakisoba]

ok first and foremost, i am a noob as i've just registered. but i've been on this forum reading posts for a while and i must say it's helped a lot! and i already appreciate this site.



but here's a sticky situation..sorta.

this girl i've been seeing,talking to, lightlweight dating..i can tell she's getting impatient..

i know one of the rules of being a DJ is to never ask a girl out...
but another rule is girls dont like to have to wait for things.

so should i just go for it??

 

[azrael]

ok first and foremost, i am a noob as i've just registered. but i've been on this forum reading posts for a while and i must say it's helped a lot! and i already appreciate this site.



but here's a sticky situation..sorta.

this girl i've been seeing,talking to, lightlweight dating..i can tell she's getting impatient..

i know one of the rules of being a DJ is to never ask a girl out...
but another rule is girls dont like to have to wait for things.

so should i just go for it??

there is no rule bout not asking a girl out .What most of the posters mean is that you should invite her in a way that sounds like you are going to realize x activity weather she joins you or not.

I dont understand what you mean by the second rule...

 

[magickarl]

One of the main ideas of being a DJ is to approach women and ask them out. Thats kind of the point. As nice as it sounds to just have girls randomly jump in your lap and demand sex, thats probably not going to happen a whole lot. At least, not the kind of girls that I want to be dating.

The second rule you mentioned is a little confusing. While it's true that a lot of women EXPECT instant gratification, you're goal as a DJ is to NOT give it to them. You are trying to portray yourself as the prize, and therefore you are the one who shouldn't have to wait for things.

This situation isn't nearly as sticky as you make it out to be. Being a DJ is about YOU being happy, and doing what makes YOU happy. So, if you think you'd like to date the girl, then ask her out, date her, and bang her. If not, then leave her alone.

Good luck