Dj skills like prostitution?

[twiiist_CH]

Hey big Dj's, small Dj's, and learning Dj's

it's all about a little tought i had over all theses "Dj's skills"

I was with this girl not so long ago, and i used all theses Dj's techniques to go date her.
i really used it all, kino, social abilities, humor, looks..and so on.
i really didn't fell like myself, coz i was acting such as an seductor Dj. Sure i wasn't used to it and as you all say, i was an "AFC" before, so the changement was normal.

Like a lot what we learn in this forum work's well, i got the girl and became popular, [coz what u learn about conversation and interest, can be also used for friends; to charm them (but for no sexual uses..thanks god)]

but the girl and i broke up, and i wasn't really on the mood to get another hottie.

i became the old me, the oh so "AFC" ----it’s the REAL YOU----
yes, the soo boring, normal, unentertaining and not sexy AFC
i quite like myself, even tho i have less girls around and i have less superficial friends.
but it ain't the point, i have become who i am, becoz of the lake of trainning, and made me think :

“Is Dj skills like prostitution?”


First, your selling yourself.

You give what people what, not what you want.
Or you could argue that “you give what people want, to get what you want”

Smilie, looks, funny, not being complicated, e.c.t

As we have learned and accepted, theses characters make you be more worthy, people simply like you more.

They will like you for theses “fake” qualities, since u made them up, and if you don’t continue particing, they will go away.


Like b*tch's your there only for sex

You cannot have a serious relationship if ur not the “real you”, the real “AFC”

It may turn to love if things get out of control, but normaly it will only go towards sex.

(it wont bother some of you..)


Like b*tch’s, you all look alike

the difference maybe your personal characterics
your selling yourself coz of ur looks and charm, like others
*****’s : looks, hair, boobs, clooths
you : looks, past, work, ambitions.

Even tho i didn’t think about it totally, it would be cool to know what ya people think about it

cheers

 

[Black_Italian]

Ok so lets sum your post up in a few words.... Your a Idiot .... Yep thats about right

people come here because they are not happy with there sex life. Then we are taught what kind of a person women are attracted to and we start to adapt these traits and slowly we become that person.

For me its not a matter of acting anymore now i AM A DJ i dont need to think of what to say it just comes out. As for not being able to be in a LTR i am sure that my LTRs will be more fufillign than your because:

1) My girl will be hot / your a AFC you get the girls DJs reject in other words Uglies/Muts

2) I am more of a man so i will be able to control my woman / Your unattractive woman will more than likely cheat on you with a real man

3) I will always have better sex because my girl is giving her all to please me / you will be givng your all to please the girl

I could go on and on but everyone gets the point IF YOU WANT TO REMAIN A AFC do it but DONT DO IT ON THIS WEBSITE. Or else i will throw Ninja stars at you

Bye

 

[PeeGee]

Just because you are in control of what fuels the relationship (you engineer her attraction, that sort of thing) doesn't mean you are an AFC or that you are 'doing it for her'. It's really a matter of what motivates you -- are you so desparate for sex that you'll fake all the things taught in the Bible, or you'll learn SS and apply that stuff just to get laid? Then maybe you aren't as in control as you may appear (but you'd still get laid so you'll rationalise it that way).

Frankly it doesn't matter so as long as you know what you want instead of deluding yourself.

 

[twiiist_CH]

Originally posted by Black_Italian
Ok so lets sum your post up in a few words.... Your a Idiot .... Yep thats about right

people come here because they are not happy with there sex life. Then we are taught what kind of a person women are attracted to and we start to adapt these traits and slowly we become that person.

For me its not a matter of acting anymore now i AM A DJ i dont need to think of what to say it just comes out. As for not being able to be in a LTR i am sure that my LTRs will be more fufillign than your because:

1) My girl will be hot / your a AFC you get the girls DJs reject in other words Uglies/Muts

2) I am more of a man so i will be able to control my woman / Your unattractive woman will more than likely cheat on you with a real man

3) I will always have better sex because my girl is giving her all to please me / you will be givng your all to please the girl

I could go on and on but everyone gets the point IF YOU WANT TO REMAIN A AFC do it but DONT DO IT ON THIS WEBSITE. Or else i will throw Ninja stars at you

Bye

hah lil boy, i don't need a parrot

u don't see it man. you won't be able to understand.
i'm happy that your a real man....but shut up next time please

 

[twiiist_CH]

Originally posted by PeeGee
Just because you are in control of what fuels the relationship (you engineer her attraction, that sort of thing) doesn't mean you are an AFC or that you are 'doing it for her'. It's really a matter of what motivates you -- are you so desparate for sex that you'll fake all the things taught in the Bible, or you'll learn SS and apply that stuff just to get laid? Then maybe you aren't as in control as you may appear (but you'd still get laid so you'll rationalise it that way).

Frankly it doesn't matter so as long as you know what you want instead of deluding yourself.

it's more interresting that the other lil boy but i'm missunderstood, i know what u mean but isn't the answer that i'm looking for

 

[Black_Italian]

Me shut up? Mmmmm I understand perfectly what you said. I just don’t agree with it and as you believe you are entitled to share your opinion no matter how idiotic it is, you should not get angry when my opinion clashes with yours.

The point you make is that a DJ is just pretending to be someone in order to get what you want. First of all I don’t see how this can be compared to prostitution but even if we were look past that error your point still falls apart. This site teaches men what women find attractive. The individual can then decide on a course of action he wants to take in most cases the man starts applying these traits onto himself in order to attract women.

Eventually he will become the person he is trying to be and he is no longer acting he is actually that person. He is happy with this change because it is what he wanted and he is now a DJ.

So for you to sit behind your computer and make absurd unfounded remarks shows only that you didn’t not have the ability to become a DJ. Therefore you right out this nice little piece to make your self feel better about being an AFC.

If you do not have to ability to change do not take it out on the people that do instead try to learn from us.

"lil boy" Bye

The Ninja Has Spoken

 

[FollowTheWhiteRabbit]

Originally posted by twiiist_CH


First, your selling yourself.


Like b*tch's your there only for sex


Like b*tch’s, you all look alike

Im not selling myself, Im being myself when I go out, I have a good time doing what I want.

Im not only there for the sex, sex is just the icing on the kick ass time I had that is the cake.

I dont look like all the other fools, I wear what I want to wear, what I feel good in. Not some trendy pink shirt.

Your problem is your life sucks, get your f.cking life together and the rest falls into place. It seems like you feel you have to fake all this sh.t to get laid. If all you want is ONS's then yes you need to fake some **** or just find a really sl.tty girl. If your want the girl to actually like you then you need to get your life on track and be happy without some stupid girls approval. The girl is an addition to your life not the reason for it.

You missed the point of the DJ, lil boy

 

[twiiist_CH]

yeah i tought i after, it does let us become better individuals, and develope ourselfs, i understand all the point, but it ain't that the question.

AFC aren't happy coz they are fustrated, and i'm not fustrated...i'm confused

and since u pretty categorize myself in the AFC, i understand that u fell..donno superior

there is something more than being a dj.

it enters more to the question, do you become an individual if u follow other people ideas and techniques? or do you just become a certain product.

prostitution enter, like any other subject, in the matter of product


well i'm sorry if i touched your ego...even tho u learn to not say sorry on this site.

 

[FollowTheWhiteRabbit]

Originally posted by twiiist_CH
it enters more to the question, do you become an individual if u follow other people ideas and techniques? or do you just become a certain product.

Ideas and techniques are just building blocks, you take other peoples mistakes and tactics and learn from them, you build on top of them so they are better suited to who you want to be as an individual. If you follow SS or the tactics on mAsf verbatim you will end up a product, youll probly get laid a lot but I doubt youll find much more then just sex that way. That would be like prostition since you whoring yourself for what you feel is personal gain(it doesnt have to be money, notches in the bedpost can be curreny in some circles)

 

[twiiist_CH]

Re: Re: Dj skills like prostitution?

Originally posted by FollowTheWhiteRabbit


1.Im not selling myself, Im being myself when I go out, I have a good time doing what I want.

2.Im not only there for the sex, sex is just the icing on the kick ass time I had that is the cake.

3.I dont look like all the other fools, I wear what I want to wear, what I feel good in. Not some trendy pink shirt.

1.being yourself isn't it selling yourself since u praticaly changed for social demands?

2. sure there isn't only that. thanks god.
but u did change for it? or for girls no?
so u changed the "real u" to a "fake u"
that now became "real"

3. well doesn't everthing think the same? everybody wears what they what. so it make u all the same

 

[twiiist_CH]

Originally posted by FollowTheWhiteRabbit
Ideas and techniques are just building blocks, you take other peoples mistakes and tactics and learn from them, you build on top of them so they are better suited to who you want to be as an individual. If you follow SS or the tactics on mAsf verbatim you will end up a product, youll probly get laid a lot but I doubt youll find much more then just sex that way. That would be like prostition since you whoring yourself for what you feel is personal gain(it doesnt have to be money, notches in the bedpost can be curreny in some circles)

yeah like everthing in life, i know it

 

[Black_Italian]

I agree that SS does not realy prepare you for LTRs i think listening and reading David DeAngelos stuff is better if you are looking for a LTR my knowladge is mostly a combination of SS and David DaAngelo and i know for a fact i am prepared for both LTRs and ONSs. If you are confused calling us all prostitutes doesnt help.

If you havent read Double your dating by David DeAngelo you should read it and/or listen to the audio from his seminar. This will help you out alot.

Ninja Out

 

[FollowTheWhiteRabbit]

Re: Re: Re: Dj skills like prostitution?

Originally posted by twiiist_CH
1.being yourself isn't it selling yourself since u praticaly changed for social demands?

2. sure there isn't only that. thanks god.
but u did change for it? or for girls no?
so u changed the "real u" to a "fake u"
that now became "real"

3. well doesn't everthing think the same? everybody wears what they what. so it make u all the same

1. I didnt change for social demands, I change because I demanded it. I didnt like who I was, so I changed.

2. Sure I changed for it, I love sex, thats just idiotic. I never was a "fake me" though, I was always genuine with myself, just because I acted differently doesnt mean its not me, its just me experimenting and trying new things to find out what I like, which is a major point of life last time I checked.

3. Not everyone wears what they want, if that were true then sh.t like this wouldnt happen

 

[twiiist_CH]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Dj skills like prostitution?

Originally posted by FollowTheWhiteRabbit
1. I didnt change for social demands, I change because I demanded it. I didnt like who I was, so I changed.

2. Sure I changed for it, I love sex, thats just idiotic. I never was a "fake me" though, I was always genuine with myself, just because I acted differently doesnt mean its not me, its just me experimenting and trying new things to find out what I like, which is a major point of life last time I checked.

3. Not everyone wears what they want, if that were true then sh.t like this wouldnt happen

1.well maybe u didn't like urself coz of the social demands...

well it's interresting, sure this site in cool for self improvement, for sure..

thanks man, but i didn't really learn anything, tough i understand your remarques.

gotto go. see ya

 

[twiiist_CH]

Originally posted by Black_Italian
I agree that SS does not realy prepare you for LTRs i think listening and reading David DeAngelos stuff is better if you are looking for a LTR my knowladge is mostly a combination of SS and David DaAngelo and i know for a fact i am prepared for both LTRs and ONSs. If you are confused calling us all prostitutes doesnt help.

If you havent read Double your dating by David DeAngelo you should read it and/or listen to the audio from his seminar. This will help you out alot.

Ninja Out

i didn't call ya prostitutes, i'm calling the techniks,

it's thinking the way u learn things.
if u become more confident, more "yourself" by learning here, it's a good thing.
i learned a lot, and i'm glad. i'm just thinking if what i'm learning really helps me to become an total différent individual or just a "product"

so i guess..like i tought, that u become what you really are, and u are the construction of what you learned.

but learning on other people techniks makes u in a sence a product, the base is the same for everyone, it's just the "details" that make u different people

 

[NSUballer]

Are you a robot or somthin? It would be pretty hard to do everything it says on this site exactly the way it says it. If your not a social type of person thats outgoing and likes being around people especially women, you proly never will be.

Just because you fake being whatever you are dosent mean everyone does.

 

[twiiist_CH]

Originally posted by The_Shezzler
Unbelievable!!

What is the world coming to when men verbally fight between each other about self improvement and an overall aim to lead a better life.

Chii - You are here to learn? To improve? To become better with ladies?

YES you are and if you say otherwise then you are lying - we are all here to learn how to become better with women and improve other aspects such as confidence, motivation and a stronger mindset.

Many people on here are not changing because Society demands it of them - they are hear to learn to become better - because in their hearts - they know they can be better.

They will learn as a lot of people have to apply their DJ skills when and where is necessary - they are still the same person but with enhanced qualities and a more positive outlook on life.

A true DJ is a man, the same man he as always been - the structure of a DJ is about the timing and precision in which he exudes the certain aspects that he has learnt in order to get the best possible success from the women he wants and in life as a whole.

If you are yet to see this - then go about your life with the mindset you already have...

Sarge on...

cool man, best answer yet. thanks.

 

[Black_Italian]

you dont give up there is no sence arguing its like talking to a brick wall. I will just use my Ninja trainning to jump over the brick wall.

Bye LiL Man i hope you find what it is that you are looking for

Ninja Out

 

[twiiist_CH]

Originally posted by Black_Italian
you dont give up there is no sence arguing its like talking to a brick wall. I will just use my Ninja trainning to jump over the brick wall.

Bye LiL Man i hope you find what it is that you are looking for

Ninja Out

hahaha u too in a way are a wall.

maybe we're the two right, or the two wrong.

i like real individus, not fake.

most people think they are différent, but most are all the same.
u probably think :

hah, i'm right, i'v learned all the techniks and develope myself, i'm happy, that's why i'm right

i see in it in a another way, if we all tend to learn from the same place, don't we turn in a certain way "all the same?"

we do...it's hard to admit, i just want to go in a direction to find my real self and no enter in a sort of product

le produit "Dj"

 

[Black_Italian]

And you feel its necessary to continually repeat your self.

Your happy with your self im happy with my self lets leave it at that.

Ninja Out