DJ Skills in Action

Duke

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I have gone through a good 1 1/2 or 2 months of being a RAFC, and I believe I have the Don Juan mentality down. Recently, I tested my skills on a chick I wasn't really attracted to, and she seemed to respond well-- however I didn't kick it into full blast, because I wasn't really into her.
Tonight, I'm going to this hot chick's birthday party. I met her via a friend online, and I have talked to her some, but she still doesn't know much about me. Some of her other friends will be there too.
I intend on using:
C&F (over the phone, she is quite adept at this as well)
Talking about HER and using emotion/feelings to relate to her
Prolonged eye contact during conversation
A bit of kino (handshake at beginning etc.)
Scarcity (walking away when I have her interest)
And I'm going to try to have a positiving "havin' fun" attitude the whole time

This is my first real field test. I plan on escalating the b-day chick's attraction for me. If this fails, my contingency plan is to get numbers from other chicks (and possibly make her jealous! =) hehehe).
I won't be leaving for another hour or so-- please let me know if I'm missing anything important or if there is something else I should implement. Thanks to everyone on this site
Peace
 

matius

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Wow, do you live near New Orleans? If only I had sosuave.com and Bourbon Street to work on this stuff! AARRRRGGGG!!!!!!
 

trajhenkhet

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Happy hunting!
 

Duke

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Haha, nope... No Bourbon Street for me. I live in a crappy, little town called Plaquemine around 10-15 miles from Baton Rouge. Getting to New Orleans takes about an hour and a half, but it's not like I can go anytime I want. Damn parents always meddling in my affairs :mad:
So until I go to college and do my own thing, I'm confined to Plaquemine and BR.

Thanks for the "Happy Hunting", but there wasn't much to hunt :(
Reason being that nearly all the girls were SO easy it was funny.
Of course, there's a reason for that, too.
Unbeknownst to me, the "birthday" party was a big excuse to get smashed-- so all around me were drunk potheads. Nothing, and I repeat, NOTHING but AFC's and I could tell they were getting laid. Had I been an AFC, I might have felt the temptation to join in, but part of what I learned here taught me that men stand for what they believe in and don't let p*ssy sway them.

Needless to say, I was disgusted. Stupid high-school trash with no lives-- all of them with no self-respect, giving into peer pressure without a second thought. Whenever I arrived, I started applying some of the techniques I described in my first post. Especially effective was the idea of "scarcity." One minute I was chatting up this chick (one of the more sober ones), then the next minute I up and leave. I hear her mutter to one of her friends, "aww my new boyfriend just left me." I also slightly kinoed the girl. Whenever I first met her and we introduced ourselves, I held her hand in mine the whole time.

Also, when I met another girl, I briefly said "hi" to her and quickly turned my attention back to my conversation with the first girl I mentioned. In general, I appeared to not really give a shi* about her. Know what happened? You guessed it. For the rest of my stay at that wasteland, she is following me around, repeatedly taking my hand and reintroducing herself JUST so that she can take my hand and get my attention. Just as I expected :cool:

Anyway, reguardless of the fact that they were slutty potheads with low self-esteem, this experiment ended in success. Something funny now that I think about it--this one guy drunk off his ass kept wallowing in his own shi*, metaporically speaking. I found him plastered on the ground and he did NOTHING but complain about his F'd up life. He was a bit*. And he acted like one around the women. He let everyone walk all over him.
For a moment I saw the old me in him, and it made me feel as much pride in myself as pity for him.

I'd love it if you guys would post your stories on here following my model. Just give a description of where you went, who was there, what DJ skills you used, and how effective you were. It'd be cool to set goals beforehand, too. If nothing else, you'd have some extra motivation to get all the numbers or whatever because then you'd have to return here and face the jury :p

I'm not proposing a step-by-step program, just a little improvisational thing that gets us motivated and also allows us to witness other people's DJ experiences. I think it will benefit us all.
 

matius

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Haha, nope... No Bourbon Street for me. I live in a crappy, little town called Plaquemine around 10-15 miles from Baton Rouge.
Damn, well I hope you atleast get to eat some bomb cajun bro.
 

Driven

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There should be plenty to work w/ in BR. I worked there for a few months at my old job.
 
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